Dad,
       This photo was our favorite spot on our walk . I took this photo one day when we were walking the trail. We would stop at this point everyday so you could rest your legs. You told me how beautiful  this spot was and while we would be resting enjoying the view of the river we would have many deep conversations. We talked about the universe, God, and nature. We talked about your time in the Navy and how much you loved the ocean and your travels around the world. You told me how much you loved Hawaii and you would love to visit it again one day. It was here at the trail In JB that we were able to form a strong bond that meant the world to me.  I will never forget this treasured time I had with you . Every time I walk that trail I will remember you and our walks.  You were the biggest influence in my life. Thank you for teaching me to be a good person. I learned from you and your the best.  Dad i will forever carry you in my heart until the day you greet me again. I love you. Love with all my heart and soul....your daughter  Tasha

We're so sorry we didn't  know.  Ray was such a blessing to know.  Such an upright and good man.  He was our best man at our wedding.  Unknown to us , he would not disappoint .  He went through the whole ceremony and reception, only later did we find out he was sick with the flu.  Erich and I always enjoyed Ray and Patties company, so much fun talking and laughing together. Ray you will be sorely missed.  Love you.  Rest in Peace.


John and I had the pleasure of meeting both Ray and Patti  when we first started working at Sigma Chemical quite a few years ago.  Ray and I worked in the same department for about the first eight years of my career; he was my lead person, a great mentor and friend.   We are very sad to hear the news.  Our thoughts and prayers go out to Patti, his Daughters and extended family in that you find comfort during this difficult time.  

With Deepest Sympathy,
Donna and John Corcoran


I have known Ray since we were young kids.  Our families were neighbors and back then all the kids in the neighborhood spent summer days outside playing.  Hide and seek, kick the can, water balloon fights and we even put on shows in Ray's basement.  We were big fans of "The Little Rascals".  We charged all the parents a penny for the show (they had to come) and made Kool-Aid to serve at intermission.  There was an old half falling down garage in his back yard that no one used and when it rained we would play restaurant.  Grass spaghetti with mud meatballs.  Yum!

We all grew up and I was lucky enough to be neighbors again with Ray and Patti.  Best neighbors ever!!  We would sit outside and chat over the fence about life, we helped each other with yard work and they entertained my young daughter teaching her how to work the computer and doing crafts while I took care of ailing parents.

I miss all that and I'll miss you too Ray!  You'll always be remembered fondly in so many of my memories.  

Ray was a kind and gentle man. He shared stories at work about his family.  He loved all of you very much. My fondest memory of Ray was when he agreed to be the Man in the Yellow Hat from Curious George as part of a team building event.  This photo is from 2007.

Thank you Ray for your service to our country and may you rest in peace.

Peace and love my brother.  Thoughts and prayers to the Rayz Family!  Youz was a cool man that would always give me a square when I was out or a ride home.  I will pour some brew on the block for you every family outing.  Much love to my homey Ray.  I know he looking down on us in his cool cat way.  

Yo friend   T

My BEST FRIEND for over 30 years. I really thought we would have 30 more. 
Ray,  I'm really going to miss you. Rest in Peace my friend.

Ray was a great friend and colleague to us all at Sigma.   I only had the pleasure of working with Ray for the last 5 of his almost 40 years at the company but we became great friends and he was always there for me to laugh with.  I can still hear his infectious laugh.  My heart goes out to Ray's family.   He will truly be missed by all of his  friends here.

My dad was the most caring and gentle man. He was understanding and compassionate. He would do anything for his family no matter what. I could always go to him for advice and he wouldn't hesitate to tell me i was wrong and how to fix it. He always told me the truth no matter what. I will treasure our long talks about space and music , our walks in the park,  and our morning coffee. He to me is everything a man should be. He was my friend and an absolutely amazing father. Dad i love you and i miss you so much. You are forever in my heart. Love Tasha

Ray was not only a co-worker he was a dear friend.  I had the pleasure of working with him for years.  I was deeply saddened to hear of his passing.  Rest in peace my friend, you will be missed.  

You stood by my side regardless of all my mistakes, you love me beyond words and you have forgiven all my mistakes with love. I love you and I'll miss you every second of every day until I get to hug you again. 
Love you to heaven and back -Tam (Boo-boo) 

OBITUARY

Raymond H. Dierkes

August 21, 1956 – March 5, 2019

Hoffmeister South County Chapel

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