OBITUARY

Benilda C. Abrajano

August 5, 1962 – June 8, 2012

BENILDA “LIET” CAPIRAL ABRAJANO

How do you say goodbye to a woman who loved unselfishly, valued others profoundly, gave unconditionally and lived happily? She was simply as accomplished and graceful a human being as God has seen fit to create. Comfortable in her own skin and with her own nature, Liet was able to open her arms to the world.

Benilda was born on August 5, 1962 in Meycauayan Bulacan Philippines. A third among five children of Benjamin Capiral and Milagros Liongson (deceased) from Meycauayan Bulacan.

An EDUCATED Woman Elementary Meycauayan Central School High School Meycauayan Institute College (Medical Technology) Manila Central University College (Nursing) Southwestern Community College A DEDICATED PROFESSIONAL Professor Manila Central University Registered Nurse Sharp Hospital Grossmont - San Diego, CA Paradise Valley - National City, CA

A PERSEVERING and HARD-WORKING IMMIGRANT Immigrated to the United States in 1994

TENACIOUS, LOVING, and MAGNANIMOUS PERSON A loving SISTER who fulfilled the role of a caring and selfless mother to her brother and sisters A brave decision-maker A Lola to all her Apos (grandchildren; Kaye Kaye, Liam, Aiden, Nancy, Nina, and Iya) A “MOMMIE” to her brother and sisters; Jojie, Lanie, Helen and Benchie A “SWEETY” to her loving husband Wilfred A “MAMA” to Tintin A “Tita B” to her step children and in laws Ford, Faye, Ian, Tina, Nanette, Arnel and to the rest of the world.

A COMIC Always the “Live Wire” of the party. ***********

“The grave itself is but a covered bridge, Leading from light to light, through a brief darkness!”

HENRY WADSWORTH LONGFELLOW

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  • Visitation Wednesday, June 13, 2012
  • Visitation Thursday, June 14, 2012
  • Funeral Service Friday, June 15, 2012
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Benilda C. Abrajano

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Perlita Bautista

June 17, 2012

To The Abrajano family,

What a tremendous memorial service you had for Bea yesterday. The words spoken were such a reflection of who Bea was. I couldn't help but cry and reminisce all the good times I spent with her as a colleague and as a friend.
During her many years at Bayview and Paradise Valley Hospital, her dedication and selfless nature was something we will always remember. She was someone who any supervisor wishes of having in the workplace, and she's the person that eveyone in our department loves working with. She had a wonderful sense of humor and was one of the most generous and caring person I've known. The personal touches are perhaps what I recall most fondly about Bea. The way she would greet each patient as if welcoming them to her home, and then congratulating them on their recovery as they were discharged. How she decorated and organized the nurses' lounge with cheerful colors, table decor and throw pillows, so that her co-workers would have a pleasant place for their meals. She was so happy to bring in food she had cooked or fruits and vegetables from her garden to share with her fellow nurses and staff. I am warmed by the memories of Bea offering a kind word, a hug, or a smile to those who needed them. She was always quick to give encouragement and comfort. A real team player, always willing to help out in anyway she can.
Bea will be greatly missed and forever she will remain in our hearts.

Perlita Bautista,
Paradise Valley Hospital and Bayview
Behavioral Health Services

Che Che Espina

June 14, 2012

Tita B...
No wonder you haven't accepted my Friend Request on FACEBOOK...wala ka na:( Though we met out of chance...you gave me hope and you're truly an inspiration in my life...I will never forget you...

Che Che Espina

Rebecca Adams

June 14, 2012

I have had the pleasure of working with Bea as one of her nursing supervisors at Sharp Grossmont Hospital Behavioral Health Services. Bea was a highly valued team member and everyone looked forward to the days she was on duty. Bea was always calm, caring, and compassionate. She provided a caring welcome to distressed patients on admission and congratulated those who were leaving the unit. Bea could handle the most difficult, confused, and agitated patients with a kind smile and gentle hand. Bea always maintained an upbeat attitude and promoted positive thinking for both staff and patients. She would seek out patients' favorite music, games or special interests and bring in items to share and engage patients' attention. She received numerous care-grams from patients and peers stating how helpful, kind, and empathetic she was. Bea cared as much about her co-workers' health and well-being. She always remembered birthdays and other special days with a gift and offered hugs and assistance if anyone was troubled. She would bring in special treats created by Fred and keep us up to date on Tin-Tin's antics. We were blessed to have her as a teammate and a friend. Please know she will hold a special place in our hearts.

Richard Guevara

June 14, 2012

Mommy is a fighter,a loving individual,a parent,a friend,a giving person,a comic,a believer and a real sister.She touched and cared us greatly that makes this hard to accept that she has been with the Lord.We miss her.She will always be in our hearts and will never be forgotten.In behalf of the Guevara family we sympathize to a great loss.our condolences!

With love,
Richard,Benchie,Mika and Bryan

Richard Guevara

June 14, 2012

Mommy is a fighter,a loving individual,a parent,a friend,a giving person,a comic,a believer and a real sister.She touched and cared us greatly that makes this hard to accept that she has been with the Lord.We miss her.She will always be in our hearts and will never be forgotten.In behalf of the Guevara family we sympathize to a great loss.our condolences!

With love,
Richard,Benchie,Mika and Bryan

Richard Guevara

June 14, 2012

Mommy is a fighter,a loving individual,a parent,a friend,a giving person,a comic ,a believer and a real sister.She touched and cared us greatly that makes this hard to accept that she has been with the Lord.We miss her she will always be in our hearts and will never be forgotten.In behalf of the Guevara family we sympathize to a great loss.Our condolences!
With love,
Richard,Benchie,Mika and Bryan Guevara

Jodel&Amy

June 14, 2012

You will be deeply remembered as that vibrant and bubbly person with a kind heart who loves her family.

Amy&Jodel

June 14, 2012

You will always be remembered as that vibrant and bubbly person with a kind heart who loves her family deeply.

June 14, 2012

Here I am and I love you, you're the best in my family hindi ka naming makakalimutan salamat sana sa pupuntahan mo maging masaya ka at tandaan mo laging nasa puss ka namin.

I love you always:
Zaldy and family

June 14, 2012

Tita Liet

Nakakalungkot tita na iniwan mo na kami. Pero hanga ako sa lakas at tatag na binigay mo na laban sa sakit mo. Pero lahat ng bagay ay may hangganan kaya tinapos na ng Diyos ang paghihirap mo. Alam namin na masaya kana diyan sa kinaroroonan mo ngayon. Tita mamimis ka namin. Maraming salamat sa lahat ng tulong at pad aaruga sa amin lalo na sa mga masayang ala alang iniwan mo sa aming puso at isipan. Di ka namin kaylanman makakalimutan. Mula sa aking Pamilya, Mahal na Mahal ka namin.

Ronnie Mar, Melissa, Marianne and Mayumi

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