OBITUARY
Richard Wesley Stephens
July 31, 1936 – January 6, 2021
The Family of Richard Wesley Stephens have the privilege to share the extraordinary life and some special memories of our Beloved Husband, Father, Grandfather, Great Grandfather and Friend who went to be with the Lord, Wednesday, Jan 6, 2021. Richard Wesley Stephens, “ Dick” was born on July 31, 1936 to Tony and Maxine Stephens in Loma Linda California. He was welcomed at home by his older brother, Ralph Stephens who at times, would trade roles with Dick climbing into his crib trading his chocolate bar for Dick’s bottle. In adulthood, both brothers enjoyed each other’s company coupled with a a friendly competitive game of cribbage or poker. Dick grew up on Poplar street in San Bernardino and attended San Bernardino High School from 1951 to 1954. He played high school football and was a proud member of the Cardinals. He was frequently spotted cruising “E” street in his chevy or swing dancing at the local sock hop. He married his high school sweetheart, Beverly Prominski in 1956 and started work at Welch’s Uniform Company. In 1957 and 1959, Dick became the proud father of Debi Linn and Richard Wesley Jr. During his early career, Dick had a dream of starting and owning his own business. In 1960, Carpet Masters was born and Dick opened shop in Muscoy, Ca providing carpet cleaning, flooring, upholstery , and drapery services to the community providing quality work with true integrity. His ability to incorporate and understand the individualized need of each customer, help create a vision, and produce the finished product helped to build a strong customer base with many long-lasting relationships. In 1974, Carpet Masters was moved to 2 buildings on South Waterman to support the company’s growth. In 1982 Dick was remarried to Sheila Fairchild and added three of Sheila’s children, Richard, Robert, and Stoni to the Stephens Family. Together Dick and Sheila had ten grandchildren, Jaclyn, Geoffrey, Misti, Richard III, Austin, Nicholas, Michael, Shayler, Rowan, and Trace. They also had 7 great grandchildren, Gavin, Liam, Eric, Anthony, Richard IV, Wyatt and Warren. In total 15 boys, all of which he referred fondly to each one of them as “son” and we all referred to them as “little Dicks”! The family home became a home for ALL, to include raising 4 litters of Dobermans who reigned in the nearby hills and swimming pool! Dick loved to entertain and was a master with the barbeque, never missing a meal unless of course, one of the dogs removed it from the grill when unattended! Dick was committed to San Bernardino and his roots and strongly supported his community through all types of service groups, participated in many committees, and gave his time freely to support others. Dick presided as President of the Exchange Club and was in charge of the “Book of Golden Deeds” that highlighted the contributions of individuals in the community. He was an active member of the Executive Association, Masonic Lodge, Rotary, Salvation Army, participated in Assistance League activities and was a judge during the Miss San Bernardino Pageants. He was the captain of many rivers trips with the executive club and rumor has it, he drove a mean houseboat! When not working, Dick enjoyed time with his family boating, water skiing, fishing, dancing, traveling to his second home in Ensenada, Mexico, and cruising to tropical destinations. He enjoyed the arts of Civic Light Opera and the symphony and loved his crocodile and lizard shoes that could give the Rat Pack real competition! He enjoyed attending Nascar and Indy races and hearing the roar of the engines along with the famous words “Gentlemen , start your engines”! He did get the opportunity to climb into a Nascar race car to take 8 laps around the 1.5 mile, 12- 20 degree banking on the turns at the Las Vegas Motor Speedway, clocking in at 121 MPH. The driving was fun, fast, and piece of cake. Getting in and out of the window was the challenge! He celebrated his victorious laps at the winner’s circle with a Bud and his co-pilot son, Richard. He realized at that time, he should not quit his day job and that the seats from the grandstands would suffice. Dick loved football and helped coach his son’s Richard’s , Jr All American football team, the” Cardinals”, helping to take all 22 of them to a state championship in Hawaii. He used his charisma and charm to build lasting relationships and made friends everywhere he went using every opportunity to learn more about others. Dick was a member of First Baptist Church in San Bernardino where he attended as a small boy and adult with his mom who was a Sunday school teacher and father who was a deacon. Carpet Masters was sold in 2017 when Dick retired to spend time with the expanding family, while enjoying gardening, cooking, traveling, and ongoing community service. Dick is survived by his wife, Sheila, His sons, Richard Wesley, Richard, Robert, and daughters Debi and Stoni and 10 grandchild, and 7 great grandchildren. Dick was the strength and foundation of the Stephens family, and throughout his lifetime, provided support, humor, wisdom, and always, with a sparkle in his eye and a smile on his face, gave his friendship and love to those around him. He was Beloved and Cherished by many, and will Always be and in our Hearts as OUR HERO! We were so very fortunate to have him in our lives and now trust him to the Loving Care of our Heavenly Father who welcomed him home with a checkered flag for a race well run! We all anticipate a time when we can gather together again and cherish our memories! Thank you for your ongoing support for the family and leaving some of your special memories of Dick on these pages of reflection. Services for Dick will be held at 10:00am on Monday, March 8, 2021 at the Montecito tent area and will be laid to rest thereafter at Montecito Memorial Park, both at 3520 E. Washington Street, Colton, CA In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Salvation Army at Rotary Club of San Bernardino, P.O. Box 894, San Bernardino, Ca 92404 Salvation Army
The grateful family of Richard Wesley Stephens
Services
8 March |
Chapel Service10:00 am Montecito Mortuary |
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ADD A MEMORYLarry Asmus
February 23, 2021
Dick, we miss you at the Rotary Club of San Bernardino. Thank you for founding Carpet Masters, a business we've used many times. Thank you for being a pillar of our Rotary club and the whole San Bernardino community.
Nick Fairchild
February 22, 2021
Grandpa Dick was always there from when I can first remember , he was always so genuine and loving and he was always around , he wanted to spend time with the people he loved. He always tried to show me new things and teach me about history and I cherish that because I know how valuable the skill of learning can be. Grandpa Dick was one of the first people to really get me into football, he used to tell me old stories about when he played and the players he used to watch and he loved watching the games on Sunday. I did not share the same genes as Richard Wesley Stephens , but he was always my Grandpa and he will always be in my memories.
Love,
Nick
Ana Fairchild
February 22, 2021
Just a few words about someone I admired and respected very much. What I remember and liked the most about Dick was his character. He was someone who was honest and reliable and he always made you feel at ease. If you had a problem he always went out of his way to try to help you solve it. He was like a second dad to me in a way being that my own father passed away over 15 years ago. I know that he is at peace now with Jesus and I await the time when we will see each other again.
Melvin D. McMullen
February 22, 2021
Dick and I became friends through Rotary and though he was quiet in nature, he was an active participant in service to the community.
He was known to be an honest, ethical, successful businessman and his experience was a valuable asset to Rotary's service projects.
Respected by all who knew him, Dick's quiet, friendly smile and wise counsel will be sadly missed by me as well as all of us in Rotary. I truly enjoyed his friendship through the years!
Dr. Bill Orr
February 21, 2021
Richard (Dick) Stevens I met at Rotary in 2003. He was a true gentleman. He never had an unkind word about anyone. I told him in 2003 that my wife and I needed to replace our carpet and several times we went to Carpet Masters to look at carpeting. We finally replaced our carpet in 2016 just before he sold his business. He once said jokingly that "I was his longest sale ever."
Rotarian,
Dr. Bill Orr
Maureen Godfrey
February 20, 2021
Dick will be remembered for his warm smile and his kindness to all!
Tracey Lynn Cohen
February 20, 2021
I wanted to send my deepest condolences to you and your family after hearing about the recent passing of Dick. He was a wonderful friend to myDad, Ellis Cohen and to my Mom, Sally, after Dad passed away so suddenly 27 years ago. It was truly a pleasure knowing him. He will be deeply missed. Please know that I appreciate how much Dick's friendship meant to my family and we will mourn his passing. I'm praying that you will find comfort in your memories of him and in the knowledge that others are missing him too. I know my dad and him are together now laughing and smiling and making up for lost time.
My caring thoughts are with you and your family!
sally Cohen
February 20, 2021
HIs memory lives on in who he was, in how he lived, in who you are, because of him...
HIs love is with you still!
carol Russell
February 20, 2021
We all loved Dick! He was loved by all and leaves a hole in our hearts!
Love, Carol, Terry, Stacy
Tim and Lori Marten
February 20, 2021
We were so very sorry to hear of Dick's passing. He will be missed but remembered for his generous nature and commitment to youth and the community.
sandy funk
February 20, 2021
Dick was a wonderful, thoughtful person and will be missed by many!
debi stephens
February 20, 2021
We were so very fortunate to have him in our lives and now trust him to the Loving Care of our Heavenly Father who welcomed him home with a checkered flag for a race well run!
We all anticipate a time when we can gather together again and cherish our memories!
Thank you for your ongoing support for the family and leaving some of your special memories of Dick on these pages of reflection, dignitymemorial.com.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to:
San Bernardino Salvation Army Corps at 2626 Pacific st, Highland, Ca, 92346
Rotary Club of San Bernardino, P.O. Box 894, San Bernardino, Ca 92404
The grateful family of Richard Wesley Stephens
debi stephens
February 20, 2021
Richard Wesley Stephens, Beloved Husband, Father, Grandfather, Great Grandfather and Friend went to be with the Lord, Wednesday, Jan 6, 2021.
Richard Wesley Stephens, “Dick” was born on July 31, 1936 in Loma Linda California. He grew up in San Bernardino and attended San Bernardino High School, where he was a star football player and proud member of the “Condors” from 1951 to 1954. Dick was a member of First Baptist Church in San Bernardino.In 1958 Dick opened Capet Masters providing carpet cleaning, flooring, upholstery, and drapery services to the community for over 60 years providing quality work with true integrity. He used his charisma and care for others to build lasting relationships.
He remarried in 1982 Sheila Fairchild. Together Dick and Sheila had ten grandchildren, Jaclyn, Geoffrey, Misti, Richard III, Austin, Nicholas, Michael, Shayler, Rowan, and Trace and 7 great grandchildren, Gavin, Liam, Eric, Anthony, Richard IV, Wyatt and Warren. Dick supported his community through all types of service groups, participated in many committees, and gave his time freely to support others.Dick served as President of the Exchange Club and was an active member of the Executive Association, Masonic Lodge, Rotary, Salvation Army, participated in Assistance League activities and was a judge during the Miss San Bernardino Pageants.
Dick enjoyed time with his family boating, water skiing, fishing, dancing, the arts, coaching football teams, traveling to his second home in Ensenada, Mexico, and cruising to tropical destinations.
Dick is survived by his wife, Sheila, His sons, Richard Wesley, Richard, Robert, and daughters Debi and Stoni and 10 grandchild, and 7 great grandchildren. Dick was the strength and foundation of the Stephens family, providing support, humor, wisdom, and always, with a sparkle in his eye and a smile on his face, gave his friendship and love to those around him. He was Beloved and Cherished by many, and will Always be in our Hearts as OUR HERO!
Phyllis Kates
February 19, 2021
Dick was truly an “icon” in San Bernardino and I will miss him greatly. I knew Dick from the San Bernardino Chamber of Commerce and the Rotary Club of San Bernardino. When I was going through a difficult period a decade ago, Dick always had encouraging words for me and when I had good news to share, he truly shared in my happiness. He never complained even when he was dealing with challenging issues. He was a true gentleman with the kindest heart. Heaven has gained another angel.
Misti Stephens
February 18, 2021
The most precious memories I have with my grandfather were when he and I would go to his house in Mexico. As a child, it was such an amazing feeling going to another Country and experiencing their Culture. I laugh now because I always thought I was "a big shot" going to Mexico with him. He and I would go "into town" and go to his favorite restaurant, we would go to La Bufadora, watch movies, relax or he would let me get on the beach cruiser and ride around the area. I have amazing memories with him there and couldn't wait for our next trip. Going to Mexico was his escape from the world and I am thankful he brought me along as often as he did. I will always cherish the time he and I had there because there weren't any interruptions and it was quality time we had spent together laughing, talking and making memories.
PHIL SAVAGE
February 17, 2021
Dick and I have been friends for more years than I care to remember. We were involved in community organizations and activities - most recently San Bernardino Rotary. I miss him and will fondly remember him.
Rickq Stephens
February 13, 2021
Richard IV loved his grandpa very much and talks about his memories on a regular basis!
Denice Findlay
February 12, 2021
Dick was very proud of his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. I have many memories of him telling me he wanted nothing more than for his children to be happy and have fulfilling lives. Rick he bragged about how smart you are and your capacity to be successful. Debi, he loved you very much and was so proud of your accomplishments. Your Dad was very thankful and grateful for the dedication you both showed him and your love of family.
Rick Stephens
February 12, 2021
Dad was the ultimate entrepreneur with a vison and the drive to strike out independently and start his own business at a young age. His friendly nature made customers and friends out of many of those he met, and enjoyed many of those relationships for life.
He provided well for his family and we enjoyed many good times together. He was a great Dad-coaching my football team and never missing a game throughout my playing days. He taught me everything I know about business and management, and that has been a huge benefit all of my life. We were truly blessed to have him as a father.
We were also blessed that the Lord shared him with us for so long. But it was time for him to go home and dad passed away.
I'm happy that my grandchildren got to know him and I know they will all miss him dearly. But he will always live on in our hearts and we will always have great memories.
I'm going to miss you, Dad. We're all going to miss you....
Sharee Otoole
February 12, 2021
As a landlord dick said good morning every day. Always had a smile on his face and a story to tell. Of course if I took his parking spot he would tell me that too but we would laugh over how routine we were . It was an honor to know him
Tara Talvin
February 11, 2021
I wanted to enclose the cute photo of Dick at my house last September for Gene's 84th Birthday....Sheila, well, you were talking to Gene's daughter and not paying attention! Love you both,
Tara
Ruth Baker
February 11, 2021
Always a smile, always interested in what I was doing, always had a good story to tell! He radiated grace and kindness. I would look forward to his visits from San Bernadino to my son Matt’s and daughter in laws house Stoni. He loved his grandkids and family. He will be missed ❤️ RIP Dick, love Ruthie
Tara Talvin
February 11, 2021
I am honored to have known Dick Stephens. He was a kind, generous and loving family man and husband to Sheila. Dick and my late husband, Gene who passed not even a year before were "soul friends" as their lives ran parallel in so many ways. They loved sharing their stories. Gene lived with the Stephens and was privilidged to receive so many kindnesses from both Dick and Sheila while living with them. They attended Gene's very last fun Birthday party at my home, and were both loyal faithful friends coming to Gene's memorial just last September. We only knew Dick and Sheila in the last few years, but both of us felt a life-time connections to them, and I always will. I honor the life of Dick Stephens, and look forward to our heavenly reunion.
rick stephens
February 10, 2021
Dad loved his Mexico getaway...
Rick Stephens
February 10, 2021
Rick Stephens
February 10, 2021
debi stephens
February 8, 2021
He was and will ALWAYS be my HERO!Love you so very much my very Special Father!
Rowan Cannon
February 7, 2021
I am really sad that my grandpa Dick died. I would do anything to get him back! He was very interesting. He would always tell me something that I did not know every day. He was very smart and I wish he could get a second life.
I remember grandpa used to tell me about his job at the market when he was younger. He said that he would catch people stealing and they would get in trouble. He was a good man!
Love,
Rowan Cannon
Trace Cannon
February 7, 2021
I am sad to say that my grandfather passed away. I remember alot about him. He was so nice to me and his favorite color was blue. He loved to give to others too. He was the best!
What I remember also about Grandpa Dick is that he loved huge glasses of ice water and to relax in recliner chairs. We even bought him a chair for our house so that when he would visit, he would be comfortable.
I love you grandpa and I will miss you.
Love,
Trace Cannon
Shayler Cannon
February 7, 2021
My grandpa Dick passed away on 1/6/21. He was a good man! What I will always remember is that he told the best stories. He told us about his life as a kid and how he used to stand up to bullies and how he enjoyed spending his summers. He once told me that he made a boogie board out of wood and other materials. Pretty cool!
My grandpa loved to fish from a young age and did this often until he couldn't any longer. He also liked to garden and was great at pruning rose bushes. He could spend all day out there. His favorite place to visit was his trailer in Mexico at Estero Beach. I got to visit twice with my family and loved it!
Before my grandpa passed, he gave me his solid gold necklace that had the Leo sign on it. We are both Leos and he wanted me to have it so that I could always remember him. I will cherish this gift forever. He was always so nice to me and I truly loved him.
Love,
Shayler
Stoni Fairchild-Cannon
February 7, 2021
~A celebration of life❤️~
That’s what he would’ve wanted.
My step father’s story has ended, here on Earth, and has begun with our Lord above 😢. At age 84, we say goodbye to an AMAZING man who touched so many lives and he will forever be missed by many!
My mother and stepfather first met when I was 9 years old so he helped raise me from a young age. At first, it was hard for any child to accept but he quickly found his way into my heart. He believed in me and he truly loved me. I can remember countless hours of him helping me with my college speaking presentations and he would make me present again and again until I got it right. He had an amazing voice and he was an outstanding public speaker!
Well vested in the community of San Bernardino, he owned a successful business called Carpet Masters for over 45 years. Business truly was his love and he was good at it. He was a solid member of the Rotary and Exchange Club and he had a ton of close friendships that he loved dearly.
Another fond memory was when he bought me my first stand-up jet ski, at the age of 15, that I wanted so badly. This quickly would become the BEST Christmas present EVER! I remember us taking it down to Estero beach for the first time to test it out and when he tried to ride it, he couldn’t get up. Our family was on the beach watching and busting a gut because his pants were around his ankles and he could not pull himself up on the ski at all. It was truly hilarious and I remember it like it was yesterday 🤣.
I have so many fond memories of him but here are the things I remember the most and they will always make me think of him:
• Favorite drinks: Wine spritzers & margaritas
• Favorite place to visit: Estero Beach
• Loved reading the Newspaper still
• One of his favorite movies: Dances with Wolves 
• Enjoyed Gardening, reading, dancing, boating, White water rafting, fishing, traveling, cruising, barbecuing, playing pool, visiting grandkids, watching football, petting his do