Travis and I were friends in Middle School. We enjoyed playing Caleko vision video games and just hanging out. I'm sorry I lost touch with him, he was a great friend.

Jon Middleton

Mari Kay, 
We were so saddened to hear about your loss...out deepest condolences to you and your family, and prayers for you all as you adjust to life a little different now.
May you have comfort in knowing he is no longer in pain and at God’s right hand. 
Sincere hugs, Kay and Bill

Travis and I have been friends since the start of grade school. We , you would say were trouble makers together.  We had many memories over the years and I feel very blessed to have been part of his life. I will miss him so much and I know he is watching over us.  Great friend,dad,and man. 

I have met Travis only a few times (Christmas and birthdays),  but know some of his family and friends.  It has been so obvious what an important part he has been in so many lives.  The pain he leaves behind is enormous, but may Travis be at peace.

Dear Mari Kay, I didn't know Travis well but I know he was a wonderful man because he made you happy. May you find peace and solace in your memories of him.  Much love to you. Sandi McMillan

I only knew Travis through his grandmother, my Aunt Muriel. She always talked about how wonderful he was and how he cared for her home for her. In particular was the time he insisted on putting in a sprinkler system for her yard. It meant the world to her.  I hope is family finds some peace knowing they are together again. 

God gave us a gift 
           Travis Paul Ames
When Travis was 5 months old he chocked on his bottle and stopped breathing. Thank God CPR worked and baby Travis was fine. 46 years later I feel Travis died way to young, but I'm greatful Donna saw her son grow into such a wonderful man, and impact so many lives. I'm thankful Mari Kay and Travis got to experience a loving, perfectly matched marriage. You know Travis's analytical mind, sooner or later he figures things out.  He did so with Jesus. Travis received salvation and is currently in glory with his Lord. A couple months ago Travis said he regretted not receiving Christ earlier, so he could have shared with friends and family..      He just did💕
 Thank you Jesus for my nephew Travis Paul Ames

The little time I was fortunate to get to know Travis, right away I knew he was a special one. His sense of humor, dedication to his family and mass knowledge of any kind of source were a few qualities of many I immediately picked up on! Im thankful to have known Travis and he will be for ever missed. Rest easy up there bud! 

My deepest sympathy.  May his memory bring you comfort in this time of loss.  

From the moment Travis came into our lives,  I was about 11 or somewhere around there, he has been a big brother to me.  He was a brother, a friend, a son, a partner, a husband, an amazing step-dad, a cousin, a partner in crime and so much more.  The memories will never fade of the times he has made us laugh growing up, from riding in the Honda with the bass bumping thinking we were amazingly cool (which we were not) to family dinners making Rachael laugh so hard she spit her beans across the table, to dealing with crazy ex-boyfriends beating down the door.  So many laughs and fun times.  My heart aches knowing that we will not have you by our side to make more memories.  I miss you every day and know that you are watching over all of us.  Fly high our Angel, we love you and will see you again...................

A person like no other, he was a brother, best friend and inspiration. Anyone who knew him knew they were lucky to have him in their life. I love my dear friend and miss him so much

Over the last four years Mari Kay and Travis became true friends of mine.  I will miss his smile and the way he made Mari Kay light up when she spoke about him.  You now are her Guardian Angel and may you continue to watch over the family from above.  God speed and love ❤️

I am so sorry for the loss of Travis! May your memories of him be blessings in the coming days! 

My heart is with you all.  Sorry, isn't enough.  I am here for you if you need a hug, support or just make breakfast.  I love you and am truly sad for your loss.  

I will always remember his shy smile.
Going to miss him dearly!
Good journey my friend.

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Travis Paul Ames

July 23, 1971 – June 9, 2018

El Cajon Mortuary and Cremation Service

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