I can hardly believe that it has been a year since you gained your wings. Caiden thinks of you quite frequently.  He remembers reading books with you and playing  silly games. He cherishes the last gift you left for him, just as Rika remembers the last gift Grandma left for her.
Fly high Mother, no more pain, no more conflict.
We love you! May you rest in eternal peace!

Always fun to be with. She loved her family. Doug and Florence

	Another phase of her life showed her love for vacationing at the beach in Ocean City, Maryland. She invested in a time share called the Coconut Malorie near Fager’s Island. Dee would often invite family members to stay there for summer vacay time. She also made lifelong friends, one being Diane Simmons, who she worked with in Baltimore. Diane moved to Ocean Pines and Dee would visit there often. 
	Ocean City’s biggest draws, besides hanging out with Diane, were going to Seacrets bar and finding a Randy Lee Ashcraft concert. Other favorites were Ravens weekend at the beach and taking the Christmas train through the magnificent outdoor light display. 
Aunt Anne (actually Mike Well’s aunt) was another buddy of Dee’s. She was famous for accompanying Dee on bus trips. Me and son Zach had the pleasure of joining them one year on a jaunt to New York City at Christmastime.
	I have described a number of Dee’s interests. Moe and I participated in some of these activities but also shared some personal visits which exemplified her generosity, big heart, and fun-loving personality. My mom and dad would join us with Dee to attend the annual military ball for many years. This event included much food, drink, and dancing. 
	Moe and I benefitted from Dee’s willingness to stay with our boys while we took some much needed “couples” time. Although we were thankful to Dee for these occasions, she could not possibly have known how much we enjoyed her visits with us, her laughter…her joy.  
	Dee you will be missed by us all. Rest in peace my big sister. 
Sincerely, 
Brother John


Another area of sharing between my sisters was how they socialized with the boys, and later, the men. I was very young during these times, so you would be best served if you would ask Van for any details. I was told some time in the past that Dee had gone on at least one date with   George Christ before Van and he began courting, then married and raised their 3 children: Greg, Tracy, and Beth.
Dee later met Xavier Spiegel, became engaged and married, and then raised their 4 children: Terry, Cindy, Steph, and Bea. Fast forward to a time when a grandchild entered the family. Brandan, born to Cindy, became the first male offspring to live with Dee. Dee now became Nan to the boy, Brandan. Brandan, later nicknamed Beanie, was the recipient of much love and attention within the Spiegel household, and the next beneficiary of Dee’s generosity and kindness.
While being mother to her four girls, Dee and Xav generously opened their home to the entire family for an annual Christmas party, normally on the Saturday between Christmas and New Years. This happened for many years and was a highlight for all who attended. 
	Dee’s Queens Ferry Road home was not limited to family Christmas celebrations it was often the site of after school hours Loyola College Professors and students’ celebrations. The invitations went out from Xav but the welcoming environment was provided by both Dee and Xav. 
	Later on in life, Dee moved from Towson to Pikesville. Her rancher continued her tradition of offering hospitality. Family members were year-round residents as well as our brother Paul visiting from Florida to attend Summer Family reunion picnics. 
	Dee was also a local sports fan. A few of her favorite teams were: Orioles, Blast indoor soccer, and Ravens. It was no surprise that when she planned her funeral arrangements, she chose to be laid out in full Raven regalia. 
	Another phase of her life showed her love for vacationing at the beach in Ocean City, Maryland. She invested in a time share 

 Eulogy of Dennise (Dee) Marie Spiegel
Offered by brother John.

Dee, Mom, Nan, etc. 
Dee was the first born of seven children to Rose (Shorb) Moore and James W. Moore, our parents. Dee was a fun loving, generous, and kind human being. The recollections that I will share as part of this eulogy will have these qualities as a common thread throughout.
My first memory of Dee was us playing a board game in her and Van’s bedroom. They taught me how to play Uncle Wiggly, Monopoly, and some simple card games to include Old Maids and Crazy Eights.
Around this same time, I remember these same two sisters helping Mom taking care of me when I was experiencing the many childhood illnesses of that time. I also recall visiting Dee and Van when each of them was feeling ill enough to be forced to rest in bed. Dee was good at making me laugh and seemed sincerely happy to see me when I would visit.
I remember that when my sisters were in their teens they were very good friends. Only a few years separated them; in high school at Saint Martin’s, Dee was a senior when Van was a freshman. They both loved the popular music of the day and they were the first people that I ever saw doing the jitterbug.
According to Van, big sister Dee was very generous. One of Van’s many fond memories was that Dee enjoyed sharing her clothing with Van. They also liked to dress alike and would often purposely buy the same outfits. 
One recollection that Van had of her big sister was when Dee had finished high school and landed a good paying job with the Baltimore and Ohio Railroad. Van was then working part time at Murphy’s, a local retail store.
The story Van shared was that Van had just enough to buy an outfit that she liked, but she didn’t have enough to buy any matching accessories: a handbag and dress shoes. Big sister, Dee, in one of her acts of generosity, bought the accessories that Van couldn’t afford. Van said that she would never forget this truly thoughtful act of kindness
Another area of sharing

Aunt Dee was a fun loving, kind, caring individual and she was a dear friend to me. She helped me with my rotten kids. She helped me with her rotten kids. She helped me with my rotten parents and with her rotten siblings. She helped me with her cantankerous old man. And she came to us from her mother,  Saint Rose. We loved her very much, as did all of our various pets over the years, and yes...they were rotten too! (Well, maybe not Honey)
Everyone should have the joy of knowing a person like this in their lifetime. She was a VERY special Lady...and I miss her. 

Our sincere sympathies to Bea, Steph, Cindy and Theresa and all her family. We remember Dee as a positive, happy person loving her family.  She was always ready to enjoy grandchildren with crafts & games.   Her presence will be missed, but her memories will go on.
Love to you all, 

To the Spiegel Family that Dee loved and enjoyed so much.  Sue, Bill, Rhonda and Renee will miss the specialness and closeness we had with Ms. Dee (that is what the girls call her). Our deepest condolences goes out to everyone who knew Dee. May her blessed good memories comfort you in the coming months. God bless all of us.

Peace and strength to you all during this time of loss and grief.  Cherish the memories and look for the signs.  God Bless you all!

How does one express sorrow. well to Cyndy and family. Im in totally in disbelief.,. What a total shock. god has received a beautiful soul. In the  arms of the angels. Memories forever. Gone but will never be forgotten. May you find peace in the days to come. Always Dennise in my prayers .God Bless w love Polly

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Dennise Marie Spiegel

August 1, 1937 – January 22, 2021

Gary L. Kaufman Funeral Home at Meadowridge Memorial Park

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