Mary K. Hayes

January 2, 1932November 12, 2012
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On Monday November 12, 2012 Mary Kathryn Hayes, beloved wife of the late Harold Hayes passed away. Beloved mother of Donald Cutsail Jr. (Mona), Larry Cutsail, Steven Cutsail (Rachel); she is also survived by 16 grandchildren, several great-grandchildren, her brother John Brothers (Dorothy) and a host of loving family and friends. She was proceeded in death by her beloved daughter Sandra Hunt. Family and friends are invited to gather at Gary L. Kaufman Funeral Home at Meadowridge Memorial Park, 7250 Washington Blvd., Elkridge, Maryland on Saturday, November 17, 2012 at 12 noon, where a memorial service will begin at 1 p.m., interment will follow in Meadowridge Memorial Park.


  • Family Gathering Saturday, November 17, 2012
  • Memorial Service Saturday, November 17, 2012
  • Interment Saturday, November 17, 2012

Mary K. Hayes

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Larry Cutsail

February 14, 2018

I lost my mom few years ago, and I miss her so much. This world is a lonely place without her, and this world is not the same without her. Mom, I love you. Every moment spent with you were the best moments I can remember. I love you! Keep an eye on Sandy; she can be ornery at times (in a playful way)! I miss you both so much!

Larry Cutsail

January 3, 2018

Mom, I know you are listening from the heavens above, another birthday passes. There's nothing that I value more, than your love. No matter where I am or what I am doing, your memories will always keep me smiling. I miss you. MORE THAN EVER!

Steven Cutsail

January 2, 2018

Another Christmas has come and gone, the meaning of these holidays has left with you.
I love and miss you more and more each and every day. Tomorrow is your birthday and I will be thinking of you.

The moment that you died
my heart was torn in two, one side filled with heartache the died with you.

I often lie awake at night, when the world is fast asleep, and take a walk down memory lane, with tears upon my cheeks.

Remembering you is easy, I do it every day, but missing you is heartache that never goes away.

I hold you tightly within my heart and there you will remain.
Until the joyous day arrives, that we meet again.

Love you Mom.

Larry Cutsail

November 12, 2017

Mom, words can never say how much I love & miss you. When you left, it tore me apart. I just wish we had more time to spend with you. I know you are no longer in pain, no more suffering and that you are happy now. But I wish we had more time to spend together. Things just aren't the same now that you are no longer here. Even though it has been five years I still miss you. I know that God is taking good care of you! I love you and miss you so much Mom. I will never recover from losing you. You were my everything and will always be. Wait for me in heaven and watch over Sandy! Thinking of you always!!!

Steven Cutsail

November 11, 2017

Tomorrow will be the fifth year that you decided to go home. It seems like yesterday. I miss you so much.
Keep watching us and letting us know when we are heading the wrong way and to turn ourselves around. I know you are here I can feel you around me.

If roses grow in heaven Lord
Please pick a bunch for me
Place them in my mother's arms
and tell her they are from me
Tell her I love and miss her
and when turns to smile
Place a kiss upon her cheek
and hold her for a while
Because remembering her is easy,
I do it every day
But there is a ache within my heart
That will never go away

Love you Mom

Steven Cutsail

August 28, 2017

It is coming up on five years since the day you left us to return home. I have so many things I needed your help with but I still have you in my heart and in my head guiding me.
I miss you soooo freaking much and I just wish the pain that I have would go away but, then I think the only way that could happen is if that I forgot you and that will never happen.
Shelby had her baby Mahailynn and Sommer is due soon.

I love and miss you Mom, keep watching over us and we will feel you in our hearts.

Love you

Steven Cutsail

March 3, 2017

Well Crazy Horse another two months has passed by and I miss you as if it were just yesterday when you went away. I know you are watching from the Heavens on us each and every day and hope we are making you proud, Just stopping by to say I love you Mom and leave a little poem for ya.

The grief is inexplicable
The loss feels unbearable
The bereavement seems never-ending
The lament seems to do nothing
The pain is strong and relentless
The hurt has rendered me helpless
The damage done is permanent
Your death was my life's worst moment
I miss you mom

PS. Shelby second baby is due in April and I just found out that Sommer is having another baby also. I am catching up to you with grandbabies.

Larry Cutsail

January 3, 2017

They say that time heals a broken heart, that's not true! Here is a little poem that reminds me so much of you!
I wish you were still here Mom,
So I could hug you and kiss you
and tell you how much you are loved.
We seem to feel our Mom's will
always be here for us.
Then when you are gone, we
remember all things we should have
and could have said to make your
life a happier place.
I miss you Mom, more than
you will ever know.
Without you, a part of me is
also gone.
I though you would always be here
for me and continue to guide me.
I never realized how lost I would be
without you.
I hope you know Mom, how much
I love you and miss you. I hope
you can hear me when I said you
were the best Mom in the world.
I couldn't have asked for a better
loving, caring, giving, fun,
thoughtful, intelligent Mom.
I hope you are at peace now Mom.
No more suffering and no more
pain. I will always treasure our
time together and the love you have
shown me.
I Love you Mom and I miss you.
I wish you were here Mom. Happy Birthday!

Love: Your Son,

Steven Cutsail

January 2, 2017

Happy Birthday Mom,

It was eighty five years ago you came to be born here on earth. You have done so much in very little time. Now your gone and to such a better place.
I miss you so much and every day I miss you a little more. The holidays just were not the same without you, but I made it through somehow.

Wishing you were here today for even, just a while so I could say happy birthday and see your loving smile. The only gifts today will be your sweet memories left behind Of laughter, joy and happiness that echo on, in my mind. I'll gaze upon pictures I'll think of you with love and hope you're doing fine in Heaven up above. May angels hold you closely and sing you a happy song and I'll be sending wishes today and all year long.

I love you Mom.

Steven Cutsail

November 1, 2016

Well Mom,

Nothing much has changed here, I know you are watching and already see everything.
Just letting you know I am still thinking of you and miss you bunches. The Holiday season is here again, but without you there is really not that much to celebrate. I always enjoyed bringing the kids to your house and letting them be around you, now I am the Pop Pop and love having them all around me, but only for a short time. I don't have the patience you had. I will be thinking of you and always reminding the kids that you love them. So until tomorrow morning when I speak to you and hear your voice in my head.

Love you Mom