OBITUARY
Daniel Haig Der Torosian
July 15, 1964 – March 31, 2021
Dan Der Torosian went by many names... Danny, Torosian, Torosian Explosion (take your minds out of the gutter), Pizan, Pimpin’ D, Dan Dan the Produce Man, Schmoopy, Dad, and many more. Dan was born in Bakersfield and raised in Madera where he found his first love, farming. Those closest to him may have witnessed Dan cursing at his tractors a handful of times, but more often they witnessed the meticulous and careful hand he used to prune the vines he’d grown up with. In high school, Dan met his second love, wrestling (or as Maderans call it, “wrastlin”). It was through this sport that Dan met so many friends that he kept in touch with through life. In college, Dan studied Ag Business and after college he met his third love, Ivonne. Though Ivonne was not the woman Dan had initially eyed at the Denim and Diamonds bar in Southern California, the Keeper of the Stars had a hand in bringing the two together. Unexpectedly, the country boy danced into the city girl’s heart.
Dan was the kind of person that could instantly make friends with strangers. The furrow of his brow told you that he was interested in your story, where you were from, how you were doing, and commonalities. Best of all, he remembered. Today, he has friends at Costco, the gas station, his daughter’s high school, Australia, Chile, and Puerto Rico, Mexico and across the United States. People knew him as kind. A homeless man outside of McDonald’s would receive a meal, a mother stranded on the side of the road would have his company and a few good stories. When a dear friend’s grape vines needed pruning, he pruned. When his daughter's band equipment needed moving, he moved. Dan felt God in the outdoors. He hunted, fished, hiked, and biked (though he often fell off). He walked on trail and treadmill and vineyard row. Fitbit challenges fed his competitive spirit. Dan skied slopes gracefully, one time skiing off Face accidentally. For some this would be scary, but Dan just kept going. Even years after he never lost his flow. Dan was an excellent teacher who enjoyed sharing his beloved hobbies with those around him. He shared all he knew about wrestling with his students. He shared his farming and hunting knowledge with his daughter. He shared his dance and ski skills with his wife.
Everyone who knew Dan, knew that he was a family man. He cherished camping trips with his uncles and cousins and made sure to share those moments with his friends. His daughters knew him as their biggest cheerleader and any opportunity he had to brag about them, he did. His nieces and nephew knew they could count on him to be at every baseball game, softball game, and big life event. He was a protective brother, had an ear when you needed to vent, and a shoulder when you needed to cry. To his parents, Dan was the best son. Even after long days working on the ranch, he took the time to visit with his mom and dad. Their visits always ended with a kiss on his mom’s forehead. He was his dad’s best friend. They made time for fishing and hunting trips together.
Whether you called him Dan, Danny, Dad, or any other name, his honest and loving nature always remained true. Dan Der Torosian is dearly loved and will be incredibly missed.
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Memories
Daniel Haig Der Torosian
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ADD A MEMORYTressa Overstreet
April 18, 2021
Diana was my first friend when I moved to Madera in the 9th grade. The Torosian family was a gift from God. As soon as you walked through the front door, Sylvia wanted to feed you. Diana and Danny were a package friendship. In college, Wednesday night all you can eat pizza at Mt Mike’s. Danny and his dad were sooo patient in teaching me to ski in college. Sylvia always waiting in the lodge with food and laughter. Danny was always always always incredibly kind, funny and genuine. What a legacy he leaves for the rest of us. Dance with your sweet momma. Prayers for your wife and daughters. Prayers for your sweet sister and dad.
Kathleen Gorman
April 17, 2021
Ivonne, Aubrey, and Cambria,
I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Der Torosian. I always felt the love and pride he had in both you girls when he came to parent conference. May you find peace in God's grace today, tomorrow and everyday there after.
Vanessa Biggs
April 16, 2021
“Cousin Dan” as I had come to know Dan while working at Custom was truly one of a kind.
I would frequently update Dan on the adventure/trial of the week with my toddler and he would always remind me : It goes fast and not to miss any of it.
When Dan talked about his girls his eyes would light up and they lit up SO bright EVERY time he talked about them.
We would always laugh about our lackluster office coffee in comparison the fancy Starbucks coffee he had access to :)
Dan’s personality was a bright ray of light and he will be deeply missed.
Marco Antonio Lases
April 16, 2021
There are so many memories which I remember Dan. Too many to write. Just one word to say about him
"Heart"
Dan had that which made him the person he was to my sister Ivonne and my two nieces .
Tyler Boyd
April 16, 2021
My Uncle Dan made a huge impact on my life, always supporting me on what I wanted to do whether it be baseball or karate. He always gave me that extra support that I needed and I can’t thank him enough. Seeing him at my baseball games and getting pizza was the best and I will always cherish those memories I had with him. It felt like I had two dads out there supporting me which was more than I could have ever asked for. When my dad was in the hospital Uncle Dan was out their supporting me at my games. His support during those tough times was the best thing he could have ever given me. I can’t forget to mention all of the times we competed whether it be ping pong or just talking smack about which school was going to be better Madera High or Liberty High. Uncle Dan was definitely one of my role models I always looked up to. Always putting others before himself and treating them with care and kindness. I could not imagine a world without him. I love you Uncle Dan and you will definitely be missed by me and many others. I feel blessed to say he was my uncle.
Shelby Boyd
April 16, 2021
My Uncle always had an incredible work ethic and sense of humor. Words can’t express how grateful I am for all the love and support he gave me over the years from encouraging me in my art to going to my softball games. I looked forward to all our family gathering for the fun stories that were told and how great it was to talk to him about things I was excited about or new innovations that were coming up. Any time a Scorpions song comes on I instantly think about how much he loved them and how “u can’t touch this” is his go to song while playing Ping pong. Every time some funny or unexpected thing happened my Uncle always had the funniest comebacks or the best insights. He was a great listener and so easy to talk to. He had a huge impact on my life and taught me so many lessons. I have so many good memories that I will cherish forever.
One of my favorite memories was of this past summer going out on the pontoon boat with him and my Grandpa and grilling hotdogs. The lake was so beautiful and the water so crystal blue that it felt like we were in a movie. It was so much fun to just sit and talk that it didn’t even matter if we caught any fish.
I love you Uncle Dan and you have no idea how much I will miss you.
John Arvizu
April 15, 2021
John Arvizu
April 15, 2021
Thanks Danny and the Der Torosian family for bringing our families together. I recall those special times with our families meeting at Badger Pass to ski together. You were a cannon ball flying down the slopes and I struggled to keep up. Those were fun times! More than that, there were moments of condolence when the Torosians were there to give emotional support when my parents passed on. I will never forget that, and now it is our time to offer you our love felt condolences. Thank you for letting us be a part of your life.
Sister Francis Christine Alvarez
April 15, 2021
Dear Ivonne,
Please know that you and your daughters are in my prayers at this difficult time. Dan has been remembered by many as a wonderful man. What a blessing to have had him in your lives.
I wish that I could be there with you.
May God give you the strength and peace today and in the coming days ahead. Love, Sister Francis
Sister Emily Demuth, C.S.C.
April 15, 2021
Dear Ivonne and family members of Danny, I just received word this morning of Danny's death, please know that my prayers are with you and with all of your family members I am so very sorry that I cannot see you in person to tell you . I didn't have the privilege of knowing Danny personally however reading his obituary I feel that I know that he must have been a wonderful person . I know that our Lord is with you in a very special way right now and will b continue to be with you and your family. I will continue the prayers hopefully I will be able to be in touch with you later Sister Emily C.S. C.
Diana Boyd
April 13, 2021
How can I describe my love for my brother Dan? As long as I can remember he has been there for every moment that mattered. When I was four and Dan was in first grade, I missed him so much when he went to school that I would wrap a gift for him all by myself and then wait outside to listen for the bus. As soon as the bus dropped him off, I would run to give him his gift. He would act so surprised when he opened his gift from me. He would hug, thank me and tell me how much he loved it! I would do this every day. The funny thing is that I really wanted him to like it so I would pick one of his favorite toys from his toy box to wrap as his gift. He always acted like it was the first time he had ever seen it. This was the kind of person Dan was; he was kind, loving and always wanting to make you smile.
I am so blessed to have a brother who I could call my friend and protector. We shared many of the same friends in college and even graduated from Fresno State together. We learned how to ski and swing dance together. He was my partner in caring for our parents as they aged and he was there for all the moments that mattered even with my own kids.
I believe we all have a purpose on this earth and it is to learn how to love completely and sacrifice self for others. Dan was amazing at both. The hole he leaves behind is deep and wide because his purpose was fulfilled so beautifully when he was here. May you be celebrating with Jesus and so many of our beloved family in heaven brother. I will love you forever. Until we meet again. John 16:22
Louis Hackett
April 13, 2021
I have been thinking about Dan a lot since Ivonne called. The word to me that best described him was – “Genuine”. What you see is what you get with no pretenses- he was not fake. It just makes no sense that a person like Dan isn’t around anymore. I’ve called Dan my friend for the past 20+ years. His well-intentioned and jovial personality would not change no matter what we were doing. We could be at dinner with our wives, on bar stools, in a deer camp, on a fishing boat, or in a duck blind and I can honestly say he would always have me laughing (except when he would convince me to walk a little further “Cause that Buck is just over the next ridge”). Like someone else said, I’ve thought about reaching for the phone to call him- I’m wanting to get my weekly dose of how the Democrats are screwing up the Nation or Sacramento. I will miss him and not forget him.
Steve Clark
April 10, 2021
Danny was the best . He would do anything for you all you had to do is ask. In high school when we didnt want to go to class we would go fishing or just hang out . We had a period of time when life took us our separate ways but in the last 10 to 15 years we had become friends like we had been just alot older and a little smarter. I caught myself the other day picking my phone up and was about to call him to have a beer .I will miss him so very much .RIP my friend.
Johnny Espinoza
April 10, 2021
today i read about a life time friends passing. Danny and I went to elementary school together. La Vina school to be exact from k-8 . I can honestly say he was always good company during bad times and good. He always told me stories about his grand father in turkey. Also about his family. Gone to soon is all I can say. Many years went by before we saw each other again briefly at my business. . It gave me a good feeling of an old friendship that never faded. You will be missed. It was a real privelege to look back and say I know a good person and he was a good friend. . Until we meet again God bless you and your family and may God comfort then in his arms during this time. Say hello to heaven. Johnny
Linda Gleason and Maury De Benedetto
April 9, 2021
Dan, we had met sharing an evening listening to your daughter’s music in Clovis but, our chance to really connect happened in Vegas. It was a spontaneous “let’s do this” kind of trip to hear Celine Dion. We had a blast and enjoyed every minute discovering more about our ag connection and what fun we could have if we “let go”. Ivonne and Linda’s paths cross often and her love for you was often mentioned and always highly regarded. You were special. We promise to take care of Ivonne and the girls here on earth knowing you’ll be caring for them in your heavenly ways with much love.
John Jordan
April 9, 2021
Dan the man with the kindest heart He was one of my brothers friends in College I got to know him when he was going to Fresno State he was in a Bible study with Dennis James Charlie Scott and Gean I got to know him real well he was man after God's heart I know he will truly be missed my condolences to the family your friend always John
Kevin Wright
April 9, 2021
Dan and I started our work career together out of college in the Produce Industry at SuperValu. Dan is one of the nicest and kindest person I have ever met! My finest memories with Dan were outside the workplace, although these times were good also. I would go to the family farm with Dan and we would pick grapes to make his homemade wine that I had as much making with Dan as we did drinking! Durning this time I got to meet his family and understand why he was so grounded. Also being wresting fan we debated many a wresting match. Sadly we lost touch over time an only talked on occasional basis, but every time we did very favorable memories came flooding back! Lucky I was fully in his like when he met Yvonne and started his family life and I admired him as heresy husband and father. My father and mother passed within a year and half of each other at an early age and Dan was the first there for we with kind and comforting words! I am So Sorry for your loss and will not be forgotten! 😢
Terrye Lases
April 9, 2021
What a beautiful obituary that describes an amazing person! I could write a book of all the memories I have of Dan. He was always there for our family. If it was trying to chase bees out of my moms house, the look of excitement when Paris and I walked in the house, showing me his newly found FB video to always finding a new light gadget to wear on his head at night!
He was the man who drove hours to OC to take his God Daughter to a father daughter dance so she wouldn’t miss out! There is a whole in my heart that he can only fill. Dan, Paris and I love you and will always miss you!
tara soojian
April 8, 2021
Danny was the nicest person to walk this earth. If you're lucky, you come across a handful of people in life that you hope will rub off on you. Danny was one of those people and I'm thankful to have been related to him.
There was a genuine kindness & positivity in Danny. He brought about an immeasurable amount of joy to Haig & Sylvia, who were second parents to me.
Danny was the kind of person whose happiness was contagious. You couldn't help but smile when he smiled. And what made him smile most were his daughters. One was of Aubrey singing her latest song. The other was of the father/daughter day trip he took with Cambria to Yosemite on Christmas Eve. Meanwhile, around the same time, Ivonne posted a photo of a man who was dusty and disheveled, with a face full of dirt. The caption read "I love this man." And that was Dan.
Michael Guest
April 7, 2021
I am so sorry to hear of Dan's passing. Had a great time catching up with him at our MHS class of 1982 reunion a few years back.
Rest in peace, Dan. Prayers, peace and love to the family.
FROM THE FAMILY
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I can hear your heart beat little one.
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Bowling for fun
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Running into David Carr just before the big game.
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Bulldog Pride
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Proud dad - Cambria has arrived!
FROM THE FAMILY
A lifetime of farming starts before you can even walk
FROM THE FAMILY
Being silly in Manzanillo Mexico
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Waiting for Celine Dion with Ivonne, Linda and Maury
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Having a good meal with Carlos
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Celebrating another year with Terrye
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Celebrating the new year with family and friends in Ixtlahuacan
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Cowboy Dan with his cowgirl Aubrey
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Dan, Aubrey and baby sister Cambria
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Enjoying a Christmas scene with Aubrey
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Bringing Aubrey home for the first time
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Having a wonderful time in the land "downunder" with the Ciobo's
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Enjoying family time with cousin Max and dad
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Nothing like a glass of wine with good friend Domenic
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Father-daughter dance with Cambria
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Vacationing in Puerto Rico
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Carving a pumpkin - Madera-style
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Madera high wrestling team
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Selfie time with cousin Mark
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Dancing with his sweet girl Cambria
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Home is where the heart is
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It takes two to tango - with cousin Christine
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Bicycling with Diana
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Date night with Aubrey
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Father's day ice-cream treat
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Friends all over the world.
FROM THE FAMILY
Giving back as a family
FROM THE FAMILY
Exploring ancient ruins in Guachimontones - Jalisco, Mexico
FROM THE FAMILY
Feliz Ano Nuevo in Chapala
FROM THE FAMILY
Fear factor challenge - eating crickets in Mexico
FROM THE FAMILY
His happy place
FROM THE FAMILY
Annual camping/hunting trip with family
FROM THE FAMILY
Hiking with the girls in Yosemite
FROM THE FAMILY
Like father like daughter
FROM THE FAMILY
Mariachis las cucarachas for mom-in-law's 60th
FROM THE FAMILY
Learning how to play the didgeridoo
FROM THE FAMILY
Hunting buddies for life
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Waiting for the ducks with Louis and Matthew
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Nap time
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The next chapter in this love story
FROM THE FAMILY
The captain of his ship
FROM THE FAMILY
Making wine at the ranch
FROM THE FAMILY
Stopped to take a photo after a long walk with his girls
FROM THE FAMILY
With Steve Clark enjoying the outdoors
FROM THE FAMILY
Cheers to us
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The BEAST!
FROM THE FAMILY
Spraying on the ranch
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Wrestling teammates - brothers for life
FROM THE FAMILY
Good times with Uncles Amos, and John and brother-in-law Brian
FROM THE FAMILY
The country boy danced into the city girl's heart
FROM THE FAMILY
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FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Tough guy in Vegas
FROM THE FAMILY
So much hope for 2021
FROM THE FAMILY
Catching fish in the backyard pond
FROM THE FAMILY
Happy Birthday mom
FROM THE FAMILY
Seabreazing it with the family
FROM THE FAMILY
A hunting he will go
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Wine-making with dad, Dom, Mark and Aubrey
FROM THE FAMILY
Young love
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
I can hear your heart beat little one.
FROM THE FAMILY
Bowling for fun
FROM THE FAMILY
Running into David Carr just before the big game.
FROM THE FAMILY
Bulldog Pride
FROM THE FAMILY
Proud dad - Cambria has arrived!
FROM THE FAMILY
A lifetime of farming starts before you can even walk
FROM THE FAMILY
Being silly in Manzanillo Mexico
FROM THE FAMILY
Waiting for Celine Dion with Ivonne, Linda and Maury
FROM THE FAMILY
Having a good meal with Carlos
FROM THE FAMILY
Celebrating another year with Terrye
FROM THE FAMILY
Celebrating the new year with family and friends in Ixtlahuacan
FROM THE FAMILY
Cowboy Dan with his cowgirl Aubrey
FROM THE FAMILY
Dan, Aubrey and baby sister Cambria
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Enjoying a Christmas scene with Aubrey
FROM THE FAMILY
Bringing Aubrey home for the first time
FROM THE FAMILY
Having a wonderful time in the land "downunder" with the Ciobo's
FROM THE FAMILY
Enjoying family time with cousin Max and dad
FROM THE FAMILY
Nothing like a glass of wine with good friend Domenic
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Father-daughter dance with Cambria
FROM THE FAMILY
Vacationing in Puerto Rico
FROM THE FAMILY
Carving a pumpkin - Madera-style
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Madera high wrestling team
FROM THE FAMILY
Selfie time with cousin Mark
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Dancing with his sweet girl Cambria
FROM THE FAMILY
Home is where the heart is
FROM THE FAMILY
It takes two to tango - with cousin Christine
FROM THE FAMILY
Bicycling with Diana
FROM THE FAMILY
Date night with Aubrey
FROM THE FAMILY
Father's day ice-cream treat
FROM THE FAMILY
Friends all over the world.
FROM THE FAMILY
Giving back as a family
FROM THE FAMILY
Exploring ancient ruins in Guachimontones - Jalisco, Mexico
FROM THE FAMILY
Feliz Ano Nuevo in Chapala
FROM THE FAMILY
Fear factor challenge - eating crickets in Mexico
FROM THE FAMILY
His happy place
FROM THE FAMILY
Annual camping/hunting trip with family
FROM THE FAMILY
Hiking with the girls in Yosemite
FROM THE FAMILY
Like father like daughter
FROM THE FAMILY
Mariachis las cucarachas for mom-in-law's 60th
FROM THE FAMILY
Learning how to play the didgeridoo
FROM THE FAMILY
Hunting buddies for life
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Waiting for the ducks with Louis and Matthew
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Nap time
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
The next chapter in this love story
FROM THE FAMILY
The captain of his ship
FROM THE FAMILY
Making wine at the ranch
FROM THE FAMILY
Stopped to take a photo after a long walk with his girls
FROM THE FAMILY
With Steve Clark enjoying the outdoors
FROM THE FAMILY
Cheers to us
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
The BEAST!
FROM THE FAMILY
Spraying on the ranch
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Wrestling teammates - brothers for life
FROM THE FAMILY
Good times with Uncles Amos, and John and brother-in-law Brian
FROM THE FAMILY
The country boy danced into the city girl's heart
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Tough guy in Vegas
FROM THE FAMILY
So much hope for 2021
FROM THE FAMILY
Catching fish in the backyard pond
FROM THE FAMILY
Happy Birthday mom
FROM THE FAMILY
Seabreazing it with the family
FROM THE FAMILY
A hunting he will go
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Wine-making with dad, Dom, Mark and Aubrey
FROM THE FAMILY
Young love