OBITUARY

Ruth McGillicuddy

November 16, 1921March 1, 2014

Mrs. Ruth McGillicuddy, age 92, passed away on Saturday, March 1, 2014. She is survived by her youngest daughter and son-in-law, Denise (R. Kim) Prater of Terrytown, LA, and son Cornelius J. (Ann) McGillicuddy II of Phonecia, NY and seven grandchildren, :Katie” Prater of San Francisco, CA, Mary (John) Sisk of Elkmont, AL, Bridget Prater of Hattiesburg, MS, and Douglas J. Prater of Ruston, LA, Cornelius J. III, Finn A., and Oliver T. McGillicuddy, all of Phonecia, NY and her two great grandchildren, Mason and Kane Sisk. She is also survived by nieces and nephews and their families. She was preceded in death by her oldest daughter, Carole Ann (Kelvin) Vanderlip, and her mother, Mrs. Allie Belle (A.B.) Green; father, Abraham B. Green; her four sisters and brothers in law, Edna (Tom) Henderson, Annabelle (Bill) Powers, and Bessie (Francis) Thompson, Willie Dee (Robert) Watson; brother, Howard Green and ex-husband, R.J. McGillicuddy, father of her children. Mrs. McGillicuddy had resided at Woldenberg Village in New Orleans since Hurricane Katrina in 2006. Our family wishes to deeply and gratefully acknowledge, and sincerely thank, all of the Angels and their entire Village of Woldenberg who loved, cared, and raised her in the twilight of her years. They are THE finest caregivers in the world and truly deserve the title of “The angels of Woldenberg Village.” Our family owes a profound and heartfelt thank you to the conscientiousness and kindness of Senator David Vitter (R-LA) and his staff, who were responsible for retroactively and officially awarding her WWII medals by the Department of the Navy in April 2012, 65 years after WWII. We also wish to thank Governor Robert Bentley (R-AL) in honoring her with an official commendation, with the embossed State Seal of Alabama officially designating her as one of Alabama’s last surviving WWII Navy WAVES. During WWII, it was through the work of Mrs. Eleanor Roosevelt, wife of President Franklin D. Roosevelt, that women were allowed to join the different branches of the regular Armed Services in 1943 and not limited only to the reserves. Initially, at the beginning of WWII, my grandmother was not allowed to hang a Blue Star Banner in her window for my mother, as it was a practice limited to the servicemen. After WWII, women were not awarded their military medals for the WWII service, only servicemen. Mrs. Roosevelt put an end to the practices and fought for equal rights of WWII Service Women. As a result, the women who served in the WWII Armed Forces were referred to as “Eleanor’s Girls”. When Mrs. Roosevelt visited Hunter College (Women Naval Reserve Center) in the Bronx, NYC during WWII, my mother marched in review for her. While stationed in NYC, she was able to visit the original “Stage Door Canteen” which was located in the theatre section of NYC in Manhattan. She attained the rank of Radioman 1/C during WWII working to decipher and send Morse Code messages to Commanding Officers at different naval bases. The Radioman rank has now been replaced with the IT (Intelligence Tech) rank. Our family owes a debt of gratitude to the University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa for allowing WWII Veterans and their spouses to use only their GI Benefits to earn their college degrees after the war. Living quarters were furnished for these first married college students and their children at the AlaVets Apartments, converted to Army barracks, two blocks from the present football stadium. There is now only a parking lot where they once stood. Mama graduated with her B.S. Degree in 1952 using her only WWII GI Benefits. She also graduated with a M.A. Degree in 1969 from the University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa. Thanks to her example and that of one of her Aunt’s documented college attendance during WWI, The Great War, there are now four generations of female college graduates, three generations with Master’s Degrees! She was enormously proud to have served her country in its time of greatest need, was always cognizant of duty, honor, and country instilling in us a profound and abiding sense of patriotism. Hers was a small shining example of the generosity of spirit that her “Greatest Generation” bequeathed to all of us. They forged America into the greatest superpower in world history and we are all the beneficiaries of the freedoms in which WWII Veterans fought so gallantly. Her generation enriched this earth and embodied the magnificent role model of unselfishness, resilience, and kindness. May God bless all of our Veterans and let us never forget the gratitude we owe to each of them for preserving our freedoms. She will be brought back to her Sweet Home Alabama for her final homecoming and be buried on St. Patrick’s Day. Her WWII medals will be donated to the Alabama Veterans Museum in Athens, Alabama per her wishes. The family will receive friends on Monday, March 17th, from 9:30 a.m. until 10:00 a.m. with the Requiem Mass commencing at 10:00 a.m. at Our Lady of Sorrows Catholic Church in Homewood, Alabama. Graveside and Military honors will be held at the Alabama National Cemetery at 1:15 p.m.

For the prequel to her story, please be so kind to:

1. Go to “Youtube.com”

2. Type in “WWII Bracelet”

3. Look for “Mister Jones”

My mother would be genuinely honored for your consideration for charitable donations be sent to The National World War II Museum located at 925 Magazine Street, New Orleans, Louisiana 70130 or to the Alabama Veterans Museum located at 100 West Pryor Street, Athens, Alabama 35611. FYI….My mother had curly red hair and hazel eyes. May father was dark complexed. She looked like Lucy. He looked like Desi. Whenever we said our last name of McGillicuddy, our family knew how much this nation loved “I LOVE LUCY!” “Lucy McGillicuddy” had became our mythological aunt! No doubt because of their resemblance to each other, my Mother will have to re-create the “Harpo” scene when she meets “Lucy McGillicuddy” in the sweet-by-in-by! (P.S. We know this is why you read Mama’s obit! Hope you enjoyed it!)

Services

  • Visitation Monday, March 17, 2014
  • Funeral Mass Monday, March 17, 2014
  • Burial Monday, March 17, 2014
REMEMBERING

Ruth McGillicuddy

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Denise Prater

January 21, 2015

Your generation was unquestionably extraordinary. You were born during "The Great War / WWI" (1914 - 1920); your adolescence was defined by "The Great Depression"(1929 - 1939); your young adulthood was demarcated by WWII (1941 - 1945); then, your age group married (1946-1956).

There shall never be another generation who were so unselfish, loving, gracious, thoughtful, kind, and polite. The “Baby Boomer Generation”, your children, which followed you, are now conscious of the fact that your peers are unequaled. We can only express our gratitude for a job brilliantly completed. Your example showed to us the foundation of the American Spirit, to never give up and be strong in the face of adversity.


You were always loved and cherished for your pattern of achievement but also for your love and graciousness in showing us your dignity.

Thank you, Mama, we shall ALWAYS miss you.

Love, Your family.

Rechima Massey

April 28, 2014

Dear Denise and Conn,

Please accept my deepest and heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your mother. My childhood memory of Mrs. McGillicuddy is a tall, slender beautiful woman who was always smiling. My brother, Darryl, and I spent so much time with the McGillicuddy family you were our extended family. As an adult reading her obituary, I am honored to say ‘I knew Mrs. Ruth McGillicuddy ‘. Thank you for the wonderful childhood memories.

Love,
Rechima Dawn (Princess) Massey
Originally from Hoover, AL

SFC Robin Rendon US Army Retired

March 19, 2014

I so enjoyed getting to know Ruth when I was stationed here in the Army, we had an instant connection. She even tried to find me a military husband, it ended up being one of my Sergeant Majors! We got a good chuckle out of that one. When I had foot surgery, she came to visit me at my apartment above the Days Inn on Highway 31, I prayed she drove and didn't cross Hwy 31 afoot. Shortly after I was transferred to my next duty station in Denver, I never forgot her and when I was reassigned to Birmingham again, I wondered how & where she might be. She truly made an impression on me, and others I know.

Kimberly Rhodes

March 18, 2014

Denise, I have absolutely no doubt that your mother is smiling down on you from heaven now, knowing her beautiful daughter has carried on the tradition of the southern lady! God bless all of you!

Much love,
Kimberly and Audie Rhodes

Josephine Smith

March 17, 2014

As a teenager, Ruth was one of my heroes. She was a joy and always made me feel special. Ruth and Sedalia, my mother, were first cousins and shared not only their birth year but also their wit. In my mind I imagine them together again in Heaven, laughing and entertaining others! Rest In Peace, Ruthie!

March 17, 2014

Don't know your mom or your family but just read this great history of her life. My dad served in WWII and I admire anyone who served our country during that time and now. I also am a proud University of Alabama fan and am sure your mom is saying Roll Tide in Heaven.

Marion Ringo

March 13, 2014

Ruthie, you will always be remembered. Your smile and beautiful heart. Well done "SAILOR"

Jeremy Tompkins

March 13, 2014

I am honored to fly with Ruth this morning on Southwest Airlines from New Orleans.

Paulette Finocchio-Gary

March 12, 2014

Denise you gave your remarkable mother the best gift-your continuous love and presence. God blessed you with the many years you were able to share with her and God blessed her for having such a wonderful daughter.

March 11, 2014

The Staff of Dr.Evita Currie