Lydia Bermender peacefully passed away at her home on March 14, 2019 at the age of 99. She was born in Franklinville, NJ on August 18, 1919 to Anna and Joseph Delvecchio. She devoted her whole life to her children and family, and loved each cat she had throughout the years. She is preceeded in death by her husband, Alfred Bermender and two sons, Alfred Bermender, Jr. and John Bermender. Survivors include 3 children, Peggy Stephens (Bernie), Donna Pevahouse (Ken) and Gary Bermender; three grandchildren, Steve Stephens, Daniel Stephens and Eric Gutshall, and five great-grandchildren. Funeral service will be at Valhalla Funeral Home in Huntsville, AL at 1:00 pm on Tues., Mar. 19, with visitation from 11 to 1pm.