Ralph R. Ilaria

April 3, 1922May 7, 2013

Ralph R. Ilaria (91) formally of Hasbrouck Heights, NJ died May 7th at home in Lakewood, NJ He is survived by his wife of 63 years, Marie; five children: Alfonso, Clemente and wife Anna, Louis and wife Nancy, Renee and husband Gwain Bloom, Ralph and wife Nila; nine grandchildren: Kimberly and husband David Anico, Jody and husband Ahmer Khan, Dennis and Marc Bloom; Megan, Kyle, Rachel, Gray and Gabrielle; and three great grandchildren, Thomas and Dylan Anico, and Lila Khan. Ralph practiced law for 43 years in Brooklyn, NY and was a charter member of the Cooley’s Anemia Foundation and The Elks Club of Hasbrouck Heights, NJ. Visitation will be Thursday May 16th 4-8PM at D’Elia Funeral Home, 1300 Vermont Avenue, Lakewood, NJ. Funeral Mass will be held on Friday May 17th at 10:00AM at Saint Dominick’s Church, 250 Old Squan Road, Brick, NJ. In lieu of flowers please send donations to Saint Jude’s Children’s Hospital, 1 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38148.


  • Visitation Thursday, May 16, 2013
  • Funeral Service Friday, May 17, 2013

Ralph R. Ilaria

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Dick and Dee Stanek

May 12, 2013

Will always remember our happy days in Florida at the Princess. Such dear friends, such good times. Our sincere sympathy...