Born in New Orleans, LA and lived in Memphis, Tennessee, she attended Little Flower Elementary School, St. Agnes High School and Kent State University.
She was preceded in death by her husband of 46 years Robert W. Fey, Jr., and her son, Grant M. Fey.
Pam is survived by her brother, Phillip Baldwin (Bettye) of Colorado, children Alise Fey (Steve) Hale of Atlanta, Georgia and Stewart S. (Julie) Fey of Franklin, Tennessee; and four grandchildren, Grace, Thomas, Ben and Abbey.
Pam was dedicated to nurturing and enhancing the lives of the many families and children that she encountered over the 45 years of living in her East Memphis neighborhood. A passionate cook, she spent countless hours making gourmet meals for neighbors, friends and strangers. She was a master gardener with a green thumb to be envied by all. Always with a pristine yard full of flowers and a vegetable garden, she loved to spend time outside tending to her plants and garden.
A memorial service with reception to follow will be held on Saturday, the 10th of October beginning at two o'clock in the afternoon all in the Life Remembrance Center of Memphis Funeral Home, 5599 Poplar Avenue, Memphis, Tennessee 38119.