Pat was born in Ravia, Oklahoma on July 12, 1942 to Mamie Lee and George Frederick Self. Pat had three siblings. An older brother Samuel, younger sister Colleen and her baby brother Fred.
Pat started school Prairie View and also attended Tishomingo Public School and graduated from Pontotoc High School. She later attended Oklahoma University where she was on the Deans Honor Roll.
Pat married Richard Leon Howry April, 29th, 1963. She and Leon had three children. Leon, Jr, Tommy and Tina.
Pat managed rental property and managed OU Motel. She and Leon later owned a motel in Ada, Oklahoma. Pat was active in her community, little league baseball, as well as union and political causes. Her favorite thing was being a grandmother. She adored her 5 grandchildren and two great grandchildren.
She was preceded in death by her parents, George Frederick and Mamie Lee Self, Beloved grandmother Nellie Arizona Austin, Brother Tommy Samuel Williford, Beloved brother in law Carl Hickman and her first born son Richard Leon Howry, Jr.
She is survived by Son, Thomas Howry Daughter Tina Hamman and husband Lonnie, Sister Colleen Hickman, Brother Fred Self and wife Molly, Grandchildren Trinity, Sarah, Liberty, Mandie, River and great grand children Abishai and Gideon. As well as many beloved nieces and nephews.