Nancy E. Buckhoff

October 3, 1933May 20, 2017

NORTH EASTHAM – Nancy E. Buckhoff, 83, passed away at Wingate Nursing Home in Brewster on May 20, 2017 after a long period of declining health. She was born in 1933 to the late John and Marion Roche in Albany, NY.

Married for 62 years, she is survived by her husband John Buckhoff and six of her seven children: John Buckhoff, III of West Bath, ME; Linda Huether of East Berne, NY; Lisa Buckhoff of North Eastham, MA; James Buckhoff of Leeds, ME; Karen Jackson of Cadyville, NY; and Stephen Buckhoff of Pocasset, MA. She was predeceased by her oldest daughter, Marianne Nolan of Guilderland, NY. She also leaves 11 grandchildren, 5 great-grandchildren, and many nephews and nieces. She is also survived by her brothers: John Roche of San Diego, CA; and Robert Roche of Delmar, NY.

She was a graduate of Holy Names Academy in Albany, NY, Maria College in Albany, NY, and Regis College in Weston, MA. She became a registered nurse in New York State at the age of 48. After service at two hospitals in Albany, NY, she retired as nursing supervisor from the Guilderland Center Nursing Home. She and her husband retired and moved to Cape Cod in 1995. Nancy loved children, Cape Cod beaches, and playing bridge.

Services will be private. Memorial donations may be made in her memory to the Cape Cod Healthcare Foundation for VNA Hospice, PO Box 370, Hyannis, MA 02601.

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David Van Nortwick

May 27, 2017

Condolences and prayers to the family. I had the privilege of working with John many years ago in Albany and I am saddened by his loss.

Wayne & Sue Mayo

May 25, 2017

Our sincere sympathy to Stephen and the Buckhoff family on the loss of your loved one. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss and sorrow

Nancy Sutn

May 23, 2017

We were neighbors on Ramsey Place in Albany, so many years ago. My sincere condolences to the entire family.
Nancy C. Sutin

Randi Ford (Clark)

May 23, 2017

To Mr. Buckhoff and Family. I remember Mrs. Buckhoff from when I worked at The Research Foundation for Mr. B. She was always very kind to me. My prayers are with you all during this time.

Susan Tobin, Director of Development

May 23, 2017

On behalf of Academy of the Holy Names, I extend sincere sympathy at this time of sorrow and loss. Nancy shall always remain in our hearts and prayers.

The Staff of Nickerson Funeral Home

May 21, 2017

We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.