I was at the wedding of John and Pam way back when.  Had fun with Pam on the family farm when she got her foot caught under the lawn mower and it ate her shoe up a bit.  Just a scary event that was still in my mind.  She will be missed.

Pam was soon to be 8 years old when I was born and Mom often told me that I was her little dolly.  She fed me, gave me my bottle, rocked me to sleep, my other perfect little Mommy.  By the time I started kindergarten, I knew my  ABC's and 123's, she was my first and best teacher.  School was always pretty easy for me because of Pam.  Throughout the years, there were countless hours of coloring, playing with Barbie and play school.  When Pam was 19, her boyfriend invited her to a weekend in Chicago.  Yes, I called it, she came back with an engagement ring on her finger.  Soon she was married and off to Chicago with her new hubby.  Time stopped for both of us while she was gone.  For me, I missed my best friend and for her, I stayed 11 yrs. old. When I was 16, she bought me Easy Bake oven cake mixes for Christmas, our Mom had to gently tell her that I wasn't 11 years old anymore, LOL!  When she finally came back home from Chicago I had my buddy back and the rest is history. I have felt her love all my life and will miss her terribly.   I will see her again one day and that thought makes me so happy and comforts me now, I love you so much Sissy!

To the family of Pamela,

I want to take the time to express my sincerest condolences. In June of 2010 my husband and I bought our very first home and we're blessed to have Pam as our very first neighbor. For 7 years we have spent countless hours talking to one another at the meeting point of our property lines. We talked about family, jobs and the weather. Conversation was always welcomed and came easy for us 

Pam has looked out for our home when we went on vacation, and sent my girls Santa letters every year since they were born. She was a wonderful women and we are saddened by the news of her passing. We are blessed to be so lucky to have lived next door to her for all those years.


You are in our thoughts

Best regards,

Allen, Salena, Allie and Jessie Christian

We would like to extend our deepest sympathy to the Family.  I (Chuck) met Pam in the early 80's when Pam worked for the Marine Corps League,& I worked down the hall for  AMVETS.  She was a good hearted person & was a joy to be around. We will always keep her in our thoughts as a true friend.

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Pamela Jean Tubergen

February 18, 1948 – November 28, 2018

Kaul Funeral Home

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