Mrs Rita Ann (Kountzman ) Bockenholt

November 26, 1955November 21, 2018
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Rita Ann Bockenholt, age 62, of Saint Louis, Missouri passed away on Wednesday November 21, 2018. Rita was born November 26, 1955 in Saint Louis, Missouri to Jacquline Kountzman and Earl Kountzman.

Rita is survived by her husband, Roy J Bockenholt; daughter Tanya M Bockenholt; and son Timmy Bockenholt; brother Steve Kountzman, sister-in-law Nancy Kountzman, sister Donna Westray, brother-in-law Dennis Westray, sister Lisa Collier, brother-in-law James Collier, brother Ronnie Kountzman, sister Julie Womack and sister-in-law Debbie Bammert; grandson Zachary Dillon and grandson Jeremy Dillon. She is also survived by nieces, nephews and many friends.

Rita was preceded in death by; father Earl Kountzman and mother Jacquline Kountzman; brother-in-law Don Bammert.

First and most important for Rita was her family and her friends. She was a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, aunt and dear friend. She also had a passion for her work. She worked 43 years with SSM Rehabilitation first as a physical therapy assistant and later in her career in the clerical area.

Some of Rita's favorite things included being outdoors, swimming, going to the lake, family trips, going to school functions for the kids and grandkids anytime she could spend time with family and friends. For Rita if you were a friend you were family.

Rita's fun loving and generous presence is greatly missed, but the good memories and good example she left will always remain with those who loved her. A visitation for Rita will be held Friday, November 30, 2018 from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM at Hoffmeister South County Chapel, 1515 Lemay Ferry Road, Saint Louis, MO 63125. A funeral service will be on Saturday, December 1, 2018 at 11:30 AM, in the funeral home chapel. The graveside service will follow the funeral, in Mount Hope Cemetery, 1215 Lemay Ferry Rd, Lemay, Missouri 63125.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in Rita's memory may be made to Pink Ribbon Girls, or Saint Louis Ovarian Cancer Awareness,

Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at for the Bockenholt family.


  • Roy J Bockenholt, Husband
  • Earl Kountzman, Father
  • Jacquline Kountzman, Mother
  • Tanya M Bockenholt, Daughter
  • Timmy Bockenholt, Son
  • Zachary Dillon, Grandson
  • Jeremy Dillon, Grandson
  • Steve Kountzman, Brother
  • Nancy Kountzman, Sister-in-law
  • Donna Westray, Sister
  • Dennis Westray, Brother-in-law
  • Lisa Collier, Sister
  • James Collier, Brother-in-law
  • Ronnie Kountzman, Brother
  • Julie Womack, Sister
  • Debbie Bammert, Sister-in-law
  • Don Bammert, Brother-in-law


  • Visitation Friday, November 30, 2018
  • Funeral Service Saturday, December 1, 2018
  • Graveside Service Saturday, December 1, 2018

Mrs Rita Ann (Kountzman ) Bockenholt

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Shelley Waller

November 30, 2018

I am so blessed to have worked with Rita for many years. Hearing her laugh warmed my heart. Our daily greeting started with me saying, "Good morning Rita, how are you?" And every time she would respond with "Just peachy!" Some days she meant it, some days her wonderful sarcasm was all over it! LOL We shared so many "boy" stories, comparing my boys to her grandbabies. She beamed when she spoke of all of her kids. They were her heart and soul. She lived her life for them. I will truly miss walking into the clinic and seeing her smiling face, I will miss her hugs, and miss sharing stories. You will be missed friend.

Carolyn D. Jamerison

November 30, 2018

Rita! Oh what a bright smile and positive spirit you shared with so many...

We shared a Saturday morning outing with our sons who were around the same age learning the basics of fishing at Lone Elk Park. Thank you for the smiles, warm conversation and the joy of knowing you. You were loved and will be missed by so many.

Praying for your families’ strength and the support that so many admired and loved your wife, mother, sister, sister-in-law, grandmother, aunt and etc.

Love and Deepest Sympathy
Carolyn D. Jamerison
SSM Rehab 1996-2006 (St. Mary's)

Laura Self

November 30, 2018

I was a lucky therapist to work with Rita on and off for a few years. She was always someone who I could ask for help or direction with the 'going ons' in the clinic. Rita was able to give insight to a patient's situation--she listened to the patient's during lunch, travel and outing times. She did this with a compassionate heart. I send my prayers to Rita's family. I hope that there is comfort in knowing that her life touched many in such positive ways.

Cindy Bockenholt-Garner

November 29, 2018

sending prayers for you and your family for your loss. I was a little girl (5 I believe) the day your mom and dad got married. I remember sitting in the what seemed like the biggest most beautiful sanctuary on the longest pews waiting in excitement for the bride to be. The music started we all stood. Here she came, her dress was beautiful , the most beautiful i had ever seen. I remember asking " Is Rita a princess now?" Aunt Dorothy giggled and said shhhh. The ceremony started and I listened carefully trying to hear and understand becau I just knew she was or was about to become a real princess! Then later that evening was the reception.... i remember eating yummy food.... dancining until my little legs hurt but i remember the cake had these tiny tea cups made of sugar. Surely only a princess would deserve tea cups made of sugar! The evening wore on i turned into exhausted 5 year old Cindy....crying i wanted to go home please can we go home, thats when you Beautiful Momma made me a princess! She brought me one of those tiny sugar tea cups! Dad took me home after that....i was a princess for 2 whole days with that tea cup! I stared at how intricate it was....wondered how they had made it...thought about drinking out of it lol....i cherished it for 2 days.....and then I ate it as a 5 year old would! Now for my entire life I have cherished that small gift from your mom....she made me a princess for a few days! I'll never forget her for that and to this day I have never been to a wedding more beautiful than your Parents special day! Just wanted to share....sending that Bockenholt love to all of you!

JoAnn Sadeghi

November 27, 2018

Rita was the sweetest kindest friend I had growing up and for many years we were inseparable. She will always be in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with her and her family .

Rhonda Kennard

November 26, 2018

Rita will be missed she was a very positive and a very loving person . My prayers are with you all .

Julie Howell

November 25, 2018

I worked with Rita at the Arnold Clinic my first six months when I started at SSM Rehabilitation in 2009. She instantly became a good friend and even though I transferred out to another clinic, we remained friends and coworkers. She had an infectious laugh and would tell it like it is. She will be missed.

Alvena Tolden

November 24, 2018

Rita was a great friend to me and others. I remember working with her at ssm physical therapy and the first day she saw me she said please come back I like you... We laugh and even cried somedays. Rita was very cool and didn't take a lot of things serious boy we laugh in the front office at work a lot... Rita didn't see color all she saw was love and then I was adopted in the family😉 Rita I'm glad you text me to come see you one last time... I'm write you on here and tears began to fall from my eyes. You watch over us while you up there hell we got a lot more adventures to finish.. Rita you now comfortable and keep smiling😊 😇😢

Tanya Bockenholt

November 24, 2018

Tanya Bockenholt

November 24, 2018