OBITUARY

Sofie Harper

March 2, 1971November 12, 2018
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Sofie Harper was born March, 2,1971, in Tainan, Taiwan, and died suddenly November 12, 2018 in San Antonio, TX. She is survived by her loving husband, Tim, her father Chao-Ching Weng, her brother Andrew, his wife Susan and two nephews. She was predeceased by her mother Mei-Yu Hsu. She attended Valencia College in Florida majoring in Web Design and was a talented computer expert. Sofie married Tim Harper in Tainan, Taiwan in 1998 and is dearly loved and appreciated by his family in the USA. She was a delightful friend to all who knew her.

Services

  • Family Receiving Friends with Catered Reception Friday, November 16, 2018
  • Celebration of Life Friday, November 16, 2018
  • Sharing of Memories Friday, November 16, 2018
REMEMBERING

Sofie Harper

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Tim Harper

January 27, 2019

from Sofie's sister in law
親愛的Sofie,大家都很害怕我寫信給誰,因為表示我心裡有事而且快溢出來了。寫信只是我愛家人的一種溝通方式,因為我愛你們,希望我們能有更好的相處模式,今天我寫了信給妳,但這不是溝通信,這是一封懺悔信,妳一直想要恢復到我們一起照顧媽咪的那一份向心力感情,其實我也努力的想恢復,但我不夠強,思維也跟不上妳,努力的想變強,想得到家人們的認同,想證明自己不只是會做苦力的事。我知道我的工作從頭到尾支持者只有妳和我老公,但因我的任性,一直在等妳開口對我說~淑華,妳的思維是對的,我還沒等到妳說,妳怎麼可以先走,妳和我老爸都是我的領頭羊,老爸死的時候我失去了思維方向,我努力回想老爸給我的教誨、言語,進而執行我的人生;妳向來前衛,眼見深遠,這條不通就走別條,我一直很欣賞妳的個性,也努力改變內心內向、膽怯、害羞的我,想要跟妳一樣有自信、有遠見、不要那麼固執,可是現在妳說走就走,這麼灑脫,那我該跟著誰的腳步走呢,我突然不知道我該怎麼走,妳怎麼捨得我們難過呢?!為什麼不讓家人分擔妳的苦,你知道我以誠立信,如果妳哪天生病,我會照顧妳的,但因為我不希望妳生病,所以我沒說出口。外人看到我們都會以為我們是姐妹,尤其我剪了一個和妳一樣的髮型,妳看,我多崇拜妳,什麼都要跟妳一樣,我很榮耀我們看起來像姐妹的這一件事。萬般不捨,終須一別,真心祝福妳和媽咪、黑爺(黑嚕嚕)、Puppy在天國相聚,妳老哥(我老公)~我們會相親相愛,兩個孩子我會用誠正信實、心寬念純的言教、身教來教育他們,也期待他們兄弟倆能和妳跟妳老哥一樣感情融洽、互相扶持,獻給最愛、最敬、最崇拜的翁靜雯,愛妳喔!嫂子~丫豹(淑華) 獻上 107.11.16

Tim Harper

January 27, 2019

from Sofie's brother
親愛的姐姐:我相信,在這一刻,你應該成為一個已經在另一個國家想念我們的母親,而你所愛的人不僅僅是黑人。你的離開讓我感到非常難過。你選擇生活態度,愛你。愛的家庭總是想像我們所有的辛勤工作,並承擔著我自己的痛苦。這讓我想念我的妹妹。讓我再告訴你,因為你和我將更加勇敢地愛我的家人。家人說愛兄弟安德魯107 \ / 11 \ / 16

tim Harper

January 27, 2019

from Sofie's nephew
親愛的姑姑 在這個世界上相遇是一種緣份離別也是一種緣份我真的很慶幸自己有能有這麼一個既聰明且願意投入時間補救我的英文的超能姑姑,姑姑與我相處的時間說長不長說短不短,比較長的說話時間也是在課堂內那一點一滴的帶過一點一滴的帶過一直到11月11日光棍節夜晚的最後一堂課我真的無法接受那居然會是我人生最後一次與姑姑講話的兩個小時最讓我自責的是以往姑姑上課結束後都會說姑姑愛你這句話,居然消失在下課後微微空閒的時間,在後來的幾天我不斷的反思發覺到了一些與以往上課不同的點,像上課的時間明顯多了一些,姑姑的聲音低沉了許多,課堂內容已大致上告一段落了等等但就算了解了這些也無法挽救一切了,姑姑請問你在天堂上好嗎?見到奶奶和Gemby了嗎?最後我只想讓你了解一件事我尊重姑姑的選擇但是我真的好想你 I will a|ways miss you 侄子翁哲森2018-11-16

Tim Harper

January 27, 2019

from Sofie's Father
寶貝女兒靜雯吾愛/ 為人父母的我為何無法真正了解孝順女兒累積心靈上的壓力所鑄成的前因後果。心想女兒是一位非常愛家戀家的好賢妻,平日照顧先生又是那麼盡心盡力,心中又有強烈使命感希望提姆退休之後回來與我們相聚在一起如今作夢也沒想到會發生這樣事情爸爸這輩子真的無法原諒自己為何始終都無法了解女兒內心深處有這麼多壓力無法解脫如今事實已經在眼前,爸爸也要強忍心中痛苦,如今已經天人永隔,許多期待讓我們來生是否再續前緣 在此祈禱主耶穌基督聖靈保佑我們全家大大小小能夠平安身體健康父親翁肇慶107年11月15日

Tim Harper

January 27, 2019

我爱你天长地久

Patrick, Beth, Rachel and Kimberly Kerwood

November 16, 2018

Tim,
When you lose someone very special like Sofie, no one else can know all that you feel. Please know that many caring thoughts are with you during your time of grieving and sorrow.

NELLY FARRON

November 16, 2018

Dear Tim,
I am extremely sorry to hear about your wife , very sad news.
I am praying to God for him to grant you the strength to deal with such a
hard time, I know the feeling when you lost a love one.
Take care, Nelly

Megan McGovern

November 15, 2018

Uncle Tim,

We are so sad and have no words to explain how sorry we are for your loss. Sofie was one of the happiest, loving, and fun people that I have ever known. Just being around her could brighten anyone’s day. I am so lucky that I was able to have her in my life for so many years and even luckier that Madelyn was able to meet her. Jonathan and I will be keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. We love you!

James DeMers

November 15, 2018

Tim,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying during this hard time for you.

Jim DeMers

Rose Bradley

November 15, 2018

Tim,
May GOD'S Grace and Love keep you during your time despair.
May his Peace and Power see you through.
We will be praying for you and your family.
"God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change. Change the things we can and the knowledge to know the difference.
Rose Bradley and Family

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