Fill not your hearts with pain and sorrow, but remember me in every tomorrow. Remember the joy, the laughter, the smile, I've only gone to rest a little while. Although my leaving causes pain and grief, my going has eased my hurt and given me relief. So dry your eyes and remember me, not as I am now, but as I used to be. Because, I will remember you all and look on with a smile. Understand, in your hearts, I've only gone to rest a little while. As long as I have the love of each of you, I can live my life in the hearts of all of you.
In lieu of flowers for Kevin Minihan, the family would prefer donations sent to the VA at the below address:
NYS Veterans Home at Montrose
2090 Albany Post Road
Montrose, NY 10548
Attn: Recreation Director
In the check memo area, please state "in memoriam of Kevin Minihan"