OBITUARY
Dorothy Elizabeth Upchurch
August 30, 1927 – June 30, 2022
IN THE CARE OF
Demaine Funeral Home
Dorothy Elizabeth Upchurch (Roucka) passed away 30 June 2022 at the age of 94.
She was surrounded by two of her three sons. John and Jeff, Jeff’s wife Debbie, and Dorothy’s friend Bill
Hall.
Dorothy (or Dot/Dottie to her friends) was born in St. Louis, Missouri to Charles and Elizabeth
Roucka on 30 August 1927. She attended Washington University in St. Louis and earned her
degree in Primary Education in 1949.
Dorothy married Gail L. Upchurch on 19 November 1949 in St. Louis . She reinvented herself
numerous times in her life having worked as an elementary school teacher, stay-at-home mom,
office clerk, office manager and a mathematics textbook editor.
Dorothy enjoyed traveling the country with her family, first by car and later by plane. She
enjoyed horseback riding and was a regular camper. She even took several week-long
horseback pack trips in Colorado and Wyoming. She took up golf, fishing and snow skiing in the
1970s. She had to give up skiing after a broken leg, but she and Gail continued as avid golfers
and fishermen. She made regular fishing trips to the White River in Southwest Missouri for trout
fishing and made a dream fishing trip to Ontario, Canada, where she bested all the men on the
trip by catching the largest fish of the group. At home she continued to be active with her Phi Mu
Sorority and organizing various groups. This included the Christ Memorial Lutheran Church
Bridge and Pinochle groups, Crestwood Lanes Ladies Bowling Team, and Tower Tee Ladies
Golf Club.
Dorothy is preceded in death by her parents and Gail. She is survived by her children James,
John (and Yvonne) and Jeff (and Debbie), and her grandchildren Garrett, Hannah, Colin and
Bailey.
Visitation will be held at Kutis Funeral Home, 10151 Gravois Rd, St. Louis, Missouri on 14 July
followed by a funeral service at Christ Memorial Lutheran Church on 15 July and burial, with
Gail at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery. All dates to be confirmed.
The family wishes to thank the staff of Aarondale Senior Living Center for the loving care they
provided for Mom since 2019. Donations in Dorothy’s name may be made to Christ Memorial
Lutheran Church or Missouri Botanical Garden in St. Louis.
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