OBITUARY

Gregoria Mama Goring Ilagan Banea

March 10, 1919November 27, 2010

Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace; where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; and where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled, as to console; to be understood, as to understand; to be loved, as to love; for it is in the giving that we receive; it is in the pardoning that we are pardoned and it is in the dying, that we are born to eternal life.

Arrangements under the direction of Halverson, Stone & Myers Mortuary, Torrance, CA.

Services

PREVIOUS SERVICES:

  • Visitation Thursday, December 2, 2010
  • Visitation Friday, December 3, 2010
  • Visitation Saturday, December 4, 2010

PREVIOUS SERVICES:

  • Funeral Service
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Gregoria Mama Goring Ilagan Banea

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Jonah

December 4, 2010

Jonah

December 4, 2010

Beth Ilagan - Quinto

December 4, 2010


Dearest Mama,

"Do not store riches here on earth, but rather store riches in heaven."

Mama, your passing away made this verse true in its meaning. You have accomplished everything, from being a faithful wife to Papa Ito, a loving and supportive mother to Ate Ellen, Kuya Kokoy, Kuya Ric,Ate Marilou and Kuya Boy, a doting grandmother to your apos, to an affectionate auntie to us, your nieces and nephews. You may not be wealthy in material things but one thing is evident, you are richer than every thing that money can buy.

As our Godmother, Mama, you have always shared to Romy and Me your life experiences which allowed us to draw strength from them. How could I forget those moments when you're here with us in Taal, you would come to our rescue when things can't seem to be right. You have taught me patience, lots of it. You have taught me to make things light when it becomes heavy, and just laugh at those worries. Honestly, your smile and laughter whenever I complain come too strong not to follow what you mean.
And for all of these, YOU, will be greatly missed. I anticipated your coming home for a vacation but I guess, He planned something else for you. The best plan indeed.

Mama G, (as we fondly call you) my children, Maica, Trina and JC will terribly miss you. I know that the sadness we feel now is temporary, but I must allow ourselves to grieve over your passing away. I will miss the lines..."Beth naman, ay bakit ka ga ganyan? or "Ay ikaw nga ay mag-isip-isip! Be patient my dear!"
Mama, mahal po namin kayo. Maraming salamat po sa lahat... thank you for loving us! May God bring you into His Kingdom together with His angels and His saints.

Maica Quinto

December 4, 2010

Dearest Mama G,

You will surely be missed by all of your loved ones, especially us here in Taal. I will never forget, during your visits, how you used to wait for me by the stairs whenever I come home from school; your arms open and ready to give a hug. Journey well, Mama G. We know that you will forever watch over us. You will always be in our hearts. We love you, and we'll be missing you everyday.

Jonah Luna

December 3, 2010

Dearest Mama,

During this time of the year I would have started writing you a card to send it to you just in time for Christmas. I guess this time it would be different and I just hope it still reaches you wherever you are.

I didn’t know that the goodbye we had the last time we talked a few weeks back was our last goodbye already. I have not taken your words seriously whenever you tell me na “gusto mo na magpahinga”. But I have always told you to hold on and just wait for me to be there. But I guess your mission here on earth is now accomplished and you have been called already by our Creator. You have left us a great treasure. A treasure that you have build up during your lifetime, a treasure not material in nature, a treasure that is priceless and will last a lifetime. The love, kindness, and values that you have imparted to my mom (Ellen), her brothers (Tito Kokoy, Tito Boy, Tito Ric) and sister (Tita Malou) are the real treasures of life which they have also imparted to us (their sons, daughters and grandchildren). These words maybe too late but it is still worth mentioning for a grandma like you. I may not have directly told you how grateful I am for having you as my Mama. You may be at times harsh in words but you have never let us down and were always there to the rescue. You have never failed to extend your help to us and have always found a way to assist us during the many times we needed it. I don’t know how I can repay you for all the goodness you have shown us. That’s why the very least I can do to thank you is to pamper and take care of you whenever you’re here with me visiting us even for a short time. I hope in those little ways I have made it up a bit to you.

Now I am both saddened and happy for your passing away. Sad because for me I felt that it was a bit soon. I’m still expecting you to visit us here. And I’m happy because of your very peaceful passing, knowing that you have not gone thru any pain or agony from any illness as most people do. That’s why I know that you are truly blessed by our Lord. I know that wherever you are right now you are as happy as you were living your life here on earth and will be having a merrier Christmas there.

I will always be proud of you and I will forever miss you Mama!

Connie Martin

December 2, 2010

There will be an empty chair at the holiday table this year, but it will be filled with loving memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Carrie Castillo

December 2, 2010

Our condolence and prayers to the Banea family. We will miss Tia Goreng!
God bless--Lito & Carrie Castillo

December 1, 2010

My Condolences onn the passing of your mother. May she rest iin peace+

Regie Francisco

December 1, 2010

Mama, your death has caught me by surprise and this pains me the most since I wasn't able to say my final goodbye. I could still recall the last time we spoke to each other. We had plans for your visit or my visit to you. I wish we still had some time to spend with each other. I have so many stories to tell you. I would really miss your stories too. You, Mama are one of the inspirations who have given me the push I needed each time I encounter a hill I couldn't climb. I Knew each step I take you would be there to guide me. I never felt any criticism from only guidance, only advice. I always treasured each moment I spent with you and every knowledge you imparted to me. You are a great loss. I wish I could have been there, I wish I was given a chance to speak to you for the last time. I know that somehow you are still here with us. If you could hear me I would like to tell you that I love you so much and that I will miss you every second of my life. You will always hold a special place in my heart. I will miss you MAMA.......

May Ceruma

December 1, 2010

In behalf of my family, Me and my husband Joseph, my kids J-em, Maurice, and Gian we would like to say our final farewell to our beloved Lola, Mama Goring. I am saddened by your sudden death but I know that you are happy with where you are right now. I may not have been a good "apo" to you but you will always be forever in my heart. Thank you for all the things that you have done and given me. What deeply saddens me is the fact that I won't be able to see you for the very last time but I will always treasure all the memories that you have during your short period of stay. We love you Mama Goring and I know that you will still continue to guide all of us. Goodbye and we will surely miss you!!! May