OBITUARY

Elaine Jeannette Bliven

January 14, 1928July 3, 2018

On July 3, 2018, Elaine Bliven, 90, was peacefully reunited with her beloved family in Heaven. Elaine was born in Moosup, CT. on January 14, 1928 to Henry Dessert and Claire (Lavoie) Dessert. She married John Bliven on August 26, 1950 and raised two children. Elaine will always be fondly remembered for her bright smile and sunny disposition. She would start a conversation with anyone, and all that met her knew that they had made a dear friend. She is survived by her daughter-in-law, Teri Bliven, two grandchildren, Jennifer Wisdom-Smyth and Jeremy Wisdom, Jennifer’s husband Bryan and Jeremy’s wife, Taylor, as well as three great-grandchildren, John William Smyth, Cora Elaine Smyth, and Jacey Rose Wisdom. She is predeceased by her husband John, her daughter Lorianne Wisdom and her son Gary Bliven. On Monday, July 9, a Mass of Christian burial will take place at 10 am at Our Lady of the Lakes church, 752 Norwich-Salem Turnpike, Oakdale, CT. Burial will follow in the St. Patrick Cemetery, on Depot Rd. in Uncasville. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Our Lady of the Lakes Music Ministry, at the address above. To sign the online guestbook or share a memory, please visit: www.montvillefuneralhome.com

Services

  • Funeral Mass Monday, July 9, 2018
  • Interment Monday, July 9, 2018
REMEMBERING

Elaine Jeannette Bliven

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John Klinefelter

July 19, 2018

My family moved to Oakdale in 1965. Our house was behind the Bliven’s. Mrs Bliven was the first neighbor to welcome us. She took us to her house and introduced us to Gary and Lorianne and the Douglas family. What a wonderful lady and family. Spent many hours at her house and have many fond memories. Mr Bliven was a great guy also. Painted my 1960 VW and 1967 Cameo. The Bliven family are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for the many fond memories.

Kathleen Sheflott DeAngelis

July 8, 2018

To Mrs.s Bliven’s Family, I have many fond memories of your mother in law, grandmother and great grandmother. I grew up on Main St. we’re she lived on the second floor in the house next door with Mr Bliven, Gary and Loriann. On the third floor were her parents Mr and Mrs Dessert. My friend Donna and I used to love to go over and play with Gary and Loriann who were abut 5 and 7 years younger than us, but we thought they were so cute. Mrs Bliven was always so pleasant and welcoming. A wonderful parent and neighbor. I hope you have many pleasant memories. And I am sorry for your loss. I was especially sad to hear that Gary and Loriann preceded her in death. Something a parent never wants. They were both so sweet. My condolences, Kathy DeAngelis

Debra Klett

July 6, 2018

As Jennifer and Jeremy’s aunt, I have been with Elaine at many family functions over the years. She always welcomed me and my family warmly. We shared Christmas cards over all these years. The most touching thing for me was to watch her love her family, always, without fail, no matter the cause. Jennifer touches a special part of my heart, and since Jennifer was so close to her Memere, Elaine touched my heart as well. Elaine, my prayer is that you are with John, Lori, and Gary and that you all are having a marvelous celebration with our Father in heaven!

Donna Pongetti-Kitlinski

July 6, 2018

To “Mrs. Bliven”’s Family. I want to express my sympathy and for Mr. Bliven, Gary & Lori. I’m sorry that I didn’t know that they all had passed. I grew up one house away from the Bliven & Dessert families. My best friend, Kathleen, who lived next door & I are a few years older than Gary & Lori but we all spent time together. We were just talking about buying treats from Mr. Dessert’s truck. Our memories of all of them are some of our greatest treasures. If you ever want to know more, please feel free to email me. I’m sorry that I can’t be at the Mass on Monday. I am a member of Our Lady of Perpetual , part of the Devine Mercy Community.

Dianna Risch

July 6, 2018

My Deepest Sympathy to Elaine's family, I have many fond memories with the Bliven family. My Mom and Dad were friends of Elaine and John. We spent many Sundays on the boat and at Gardner Lake. Thank you for the wonderful memories Elaine. May you rest in peace with your family. Dianna Edwards Risch

Elaine and Neil Moriarty

July 6, 2018

Prayers, condolences and memories to Elaine's family. love, Elaine and Neil

FROM THE FAMILY