Brenda McKay

March 28, 1948November 3, 2018

Brenda E. McKay, 70

Oakland – Brenda Elaine McKay, 70, of Oakland, passed from this life at her home on November 3, 2018. She was born in Farmington on March 28, 1948, the daughter of Katherine (Walker) and Edward Pillsbury. She was the widow of William McKay who died in 2014.

There ae no scheduled services at this time. Brenda’s family expresses their appreciation for respecting their privacy during this difficult time in their life.

“All our love and blessings go to those who knew and loved this most very special lady of God. Mom always was and is now and forever part of the Light.”

For those who wish, donations may be made in Brenda’s memory to: Mid-Maine Homeless Shelter, 19 Colby Street, Waterville, ME 04901.


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Judy and Rick MacKenzie

November 12, 2018

When we think of Brenda we see a smiling face and someone who was sincere, energetic and kind. We often stood on the sidelines of a Messalonskee girls soccer game together, cheering our daughters on to victory. I am pretty sure her voice was heard over most of the others on the sidelines! When we lost our daughter suddenly, she showed up on our doorstep with a beautiful memoir of her piano playing talent. That sparkling Swarovski crystal baby grande piano still provides us with warm, loving memories. Brenda touched many hearts and will be missed dearly. Wishing Cam, Katie and your families peace.