OBITUARY
Neil Patry
April 2, 1980 – September 26, 2013
Neil Patry, 33, of Williamsburg, passed away on September 26, 2013. Neil will be missed by his fiancée, Elizabeth Morgan; his parents, Ideo and Marcelle Patry; his siblings, Gina Thomson (Mark), Danny Patry (Joanne) and Joyce Stewart (Robert); his sister-in-law, Rebecca Bolkovac (Jon); and his nieces and nephews, Skye, Brooke and Kyle Thomson, and Allan Astorino. Neil will be remembered as an incredibly caring and giving person, who would give anyone the shirt off his back. He was affectionate with everyone, and was always giving his time and helping others with their projects. The family will receive friends from 1:00 – 3:00 PM on Sunday, Sept. 29 at Nelsen Funeral Home, 3785 Strawberry Plains Rd., Williamsburg, where services will follow at 3:00 PM. The family would like to thank everyone at Sentara Williamsburg for their help and support. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Farley Center, 5477 Mooretown Rd., Williamsburg, VA 23188. Online condolences may be offered at www.nelsencares.com.
Services
- Visitation Sunday, September 29, 2013
- Memorial Service Sunday, September 29, 2013
REMEMBERING
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RECEIVE UPDATESBecky Slonaker
October 29, 2013
Elizabeth, family and friends my heart goes out to all of you. Neil was a fantastic man I seen that first hand when I went down and spent some time with Elizabeth and Neil. I met a very caring, carefree and funny man. Neil thank you for all the great memories and you will be deeply missed everyday.
Becky Slonaker
October 29, 2013
Elizabeth, family and friends my heart goes out to all of you. I had the privilege of spending time with Elizabeth and Neil. Neil was a carefree, funny, careing and all around fantastic man. I know he has affected many people in a positive and still does in some way shape or form. Neil thank you for all the great memories and you will be missed deeply everyday.
GAÉTAN PATRY
October 23, 2013
MES SINSÉRES CONDOLÉANCES À TOI IDÉO,MARCELLE ET TA FAMILLE QUE DIEU VOUS AIDE À TRAVERCER CET ÉPREUVE,BON COURAGE GAÉTAN PATRY,,,
monique patry
October 22, 2013
Puissiez vous trouver la paix dans les souvenirs des moments précieux passés avec Neil. Soyer réconforté a travers les pensées et les prieres de ceux qui vous aiment. Nos sincères condoléances a toi Idéo,Marcelle ainsi que votre famille.
Jocelyn Monique Patry Courcelles QC
Paula Schifferli
October 18, 2013
Neil`s presence is so missed at the careplex. We miss his laughter and his jokes.We will never forget you.Rip dear Neil
jean lise labrecque
October 8, 2013
we are very sad to hear the lost of a son so young we will keep you and your family in our prayer
Ghislaine ,Grégoire ,Linda,Serge Patry Plante
October 7, 2013
Mes sincères condoléances.Bon courage,nous pensons très fort à vous.G
France Bélanger
October 5, 2013
Mes sincères condoléances à toute la famille. Nous sommes de tout coeur avec vous tous et pensons très forts à vous. Neil sera toujours présent dans vos cœurs et sera votre ange gardien. Bon courage!!
France Bélanger xxx
Tess Owens
October 5, 2013
I never "formally" met Neil, but worked 2 doors down from him at Sentara CarePlex. He always spoke to me and I thought what a nice young man-to be so friendly to someone he just sees in passing. I truly appreciated it and miss seeing him. I just wanted to express my most sincere sympathy to you all and wanted you to know what a bright spot he was in my day. My prayers are with you.
October 4, 2013
Nos sincères condoléances. Bon courage et nous pensons très fort à vous tous.Que Dieu vous supporte dans cette épreuve.Famille Diane Patry Saint-Georges, Québec xxx
Céliane & Jean Patry-Goulet
October 3, 2013
Nos sincères condoléances
Jeff Philibotte
October 3, 2013
To the Patry family I am very sadden by the lost of someone so young. I have many fond memories growing up with Neil and his great personailty. My prayers and thought go out to you and for family.
Vicki Haynes
October 2, 2013
I worked with Neil at times at SWRMC. He was so sweet, kind, and absolutely hilarious! He will be sorely missed.
Régis et Thérèse Bélanger
October 2, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Denise Belanger
October 2, 2013
Elizabeth, Ideo & Marcelle, Gina,Danny, Joyce, we are deeply moved by the loss of Neil, and we are praying for you all for peace and comfort in the precious memories shared with Neil, and the love of God.
Although we can't be with you while you remember your loved one, you're in our thoughts from afar. Love, Denise & Daniel
Tammy Swansburg
October 1, 2013
Neil was a wonderful person and so funny, I worked with him a long time ago at Dartmouth Hitchcock in Manchester NH. My prayers go out to his family and friends, May he RIP.
Lora Tabor
October 1, 2013
My heart goes out to the Patry family and to Elizabeth Morgan. I am very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carolee Stafford
October 1, 2013
Neil was a high school classmate of mine whom I hadn't seen in several years. He was a great person. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Shirley Moulton
October 1, 2013
My Heart goes out to all of you, my you find comfort in the glory of Neils life.
Steve Montour
October 1, 2013
My sympathy goes out to the Patry family. I'm at a loss for words for the loss of their son. I will always remember the good laughs that were shared with Neil and I and all of our friends! My deepest sympathy and Neil will be deeply missed. RIP Neil.
Brandi Bello
October 1, 2013
Neil was a great person and impacted all those who he came into contact with. He was loved by so many, and he brightened the room when he walked in. He always made me laugh when I was stressed out and he always made sure to check on me throughout the years, with a kind email, phone call, or text. He was my goofball buddy and I miss you so much. My sincere condolences to the family and Elizabeth as they continue to deal with his loss...know that he is with us always.
Diane Valade
October 1, 2013
Shocked of the news, returning home from the fair. Sending sympathies to the family. I am sure all the knitters in our group wish you thoughts and prayers at this sad time. all our love. Ed, Diane and your friends in NH
Bruno Tardif
October 1, 2013
J'ai été très triste d'apprendre le décès de Neil. Une famille si merveilleuse ne devrait pas subir une si dure épreuve. Vous avez toutes mes sympathies.
Yvan Racine
October 1, 2013
Mes sincères condoléances. Bon courage et je pense très fort à vous tous.
October 1, 2013
To the Patry family, I was so shocked and saddened by the news of Neil's passing. I will always remember the fond times I had with Neil. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Tony Hallee (Hooksett , NH)
Dan and Melissa Johnson
October 1, 2013
To the Patry Family, Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Neil was a great friend and roommate. I will always cherish the great memories and laughs we had together. He will be missed but not forgotten.
Pam Wercinski
October 1, 2013
RIP - fond memories in nursing school- such a wonderful, fun loving person. Neil will be missed by many
Serge Patry
September 30, 2013
Nous avons été très peinés d`apprendre le décès de Neil.Nous pouvons imaginer la douleur que vous ressentez et à laquelle nous prenons part.À vous Elizabeth,Idéo,Marcelle ainsi qu'à toute la famille, nous tenons à vous témoigner notre profonde compassion, nous sommes de tout coeur avec vous et vous embrassons très fort. Serge, Aline, Steve et Sabrina.
Shawn Brooks
September 30, 2013
My sincere sympathies to Danny and family. We had a bunch of laughs together back in NH. The world seems like a darker place without him. May your memories bring you strength during this trying time.
Carl Vaillancourt
September 30, 2013
My sympathies to the Patry family, I was shocked to hear of his passing. I have a lot of fond memories of Neil. God has taken him away to soon. RIP Neil
Julian Serna
September 30, 2013
So sorry for your loss Dan. Our prayers go out to you.and your family. From the Serna family
L.G. Adams
September 30, 2013
To the family...
I will always remember Neil as a very kind gentleman and dedicated nurse. He always had a way to make someone feel better. I remember many times how he and I would share a great conversation that always included his laughter. He will be sorely missed by all that had the fortune of meeting and knowing such a kind and caring person.
May God hold each of you close in His comfort during your time of sorrow.
Eban Nagele
September 30, 2013
Eliabeth and the Patry family-although I had not known Neil for very long, he was in a short period of time, everything everyone described him as, funny, caring, compassionate. I wish the following words for you all....serenity, acceptance, courage and wisdom. All words that Neil lived daily.....
Sylvie Belanger-Klyop
September 30, 2013
Dear Patry family and Elizabeth -
We were so saddened to hear of your loss. Wish we could be with you and help take away the pain of losing someone so special. May the memories you have of Neil bring your comfort and help the healing in time. Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers during this difficult time. Pauline Belanger, Ray, Tricia & Aaron, Sylvie, Mike, Madelynne & Andrew
Brian Conway
September 30, 2013
My most heartfelt condolences to Neil's family on his passing. My loving prayers are with you.
Jana Green
September 30, 2013
It was so sad to hear of his passing. I work at Sentara and saw Neil often. He was a wonderful person.
Jana RN @ Sentara Williamsburg
Danene Abdallah
September 30, 2013
Neil, you were a dear trusted friend. A kind spirit, compassionate soul. A wonderful nurse who touched many lives and always made a positive difference. Your laugh was contagious and pure. You were a wonderful man. I am blessed to have crossed paths in my life with yours. I will miss running into on the streets and in the hospital and community of the burg. You will be missed tremendously. May God comfort your fiancé and your family...
Wayne Morgan
September 30, 2013
Beth, I can't find words to comfort you right now, but do know that God is with you and will give you strength to follow His path. Neil will always have a special place in our family and our hearts. Call me if you need anything or to just talk. To the Patry family, as each of you are aware, Neil has been a treasure for our family, as he has always been for your family. My personal condolences on the loss of such a wonderful man. May God bless each of you with courage and strength.
Marsha Ruckle
September 30, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to Neil's family during this most difficult time. Neil was ine if the best and it was so evident he loved his job and profession. He always took the time to stop and say hello to us ICU peeps!!! Neil you will be missed and we will honor your memory!!! RIP
Melinda Broussard
September 30, 2013
Beth and Patry family, I pray the Lord will give all of you comfort during this time. Please call if you need anything or just want to talk. Neil was a good guy and he will be sorely missed.
Tim Wyble
September 30, 2013
Dearest Elizabeth and Patry family, my deepest condolences to each of you. All of you are in thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. May God give each of you strength and comfort now and in the future. Blessings be upon each of you.
James Fugere
September 29, 2013
Dear Patry family and Elizabeth. I was shocked to find out of Neil's passing. He was a wonderful man and a good friend to me. He could always be a source of encouragement and laughter. I relied on him so much while we were in nursing school and forged a good friendship. I will think of him often in the future and know he will still be able to bring a smile to my face. So very sorry for your lose. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy.
Jim Fugere
Ronda Napier
September 29, 2013
My thoughts and prayers goes out to the Patry family. Neil was so fun to work with and was a very good friend as well. He will be missed.
Lucie Laprise
September 29, 2013
Dear Patry Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you right now during this time of great loss. My first memory that came to mind of Neil was him sharing our wedding day as our ring bearer and always being a wonderful cousin. He will surely be missed by all of you and I pray that your thoughts of him will always keep his loving memory alive in your hearts. Although we cannot be there for you, please know that we share your grief and send you our deepest sympathy and condolences to Ma Tante Marcelle, Mon Oncle Ideo, Gina, Danny and Joyce and all their loved ones.
Lucie, Serge, Paige & Andrew Laprise
Sonia Bélanger
September 29, 2013
Nous tenons à offrir nos plus sincères sympathies à tante Marcelle, oncle Idéo, Gina et sa famille, Danny et son épouse, Joyce et son mari ainsi qu'à Elizabeth, que nous n'avons pas eu le plaisir de rencontrer. Toutes nos pensées sont avec vous en ces moments difficiles. Bon courage.
Sonia Bélanger, Mario Bilodeau et nos enfants Ariane, Olivier, Camille et Justin
Normand Marchand
September 29, 2013
Dear Patry family,
No words could ever express the sadness that we are feeling right now. Our tears join yours today at this excruciating moment. Please know that we care about you and love you and will be praying for your family today. Norm and Suzanne marchand
with all our affection, norm and Suzanne marchand
Jeffrey Kostelni
September 29, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all and God bless you.
Robin Olsen
September 29, 2013
I didn't know Neil well, but he was always kind and upbeat. He will be very missed at work. His family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Kym Philibotte
September 29, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Miss you as neighbors. No one will ever teach our dogs how to sing as well as Neil did. God has another angel with him!
Vincent Patry
September 29, 2013
Nos plus sincères condoléances à mon oncle , ma tante, Gina, Joyce et Danny et à vos familles respectives. Nos pensées se dirigent vers vous dans ces moments difficiles à passer. Même si une grande distance nous sépare, nos coeurs sont tout près de vous tous. C'est dans ces moments qu'il faut garder la tête haute pour ainsi passer à autres choses le plus rapidement possible. Gardez le courage.
Famille Dorian Patry xxx
Bruce Chambers
September 29, 2013
I did not get the opportunity to meet Neil but my father liked him and spoke highly of him, so I know he was a good man. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Beth.
Chris Philibotte
September 29, 2013
My sympathies to the Patry Clan. Neil was a great friend and neighbor.
Joseph&Nicole Janssen
September 29, 2013
Dear Marcelle,Idéo,Gina,Joyce,Danny and family. We share your sorrow and we are with all our heart with you in these days off sorrow Receive our deepest sympathy and God be with you,to support you in those difficult days. Nicole,Joseph, Amélie and Anthony Janssen
Tina Fonteneau
September 29, 2013
Neil you will be so missed. ..my heart goes out to you Elizabeth.
Love tina and sean
Vincent Patry
September 29, 2013
Nos sympathies les plus sincères mon oncle et ma tante, Danny, Joyce et Gina, ainsi que vos familles respectives. Nos pensées se dirigent entièrement vers vous tous et aucun mot ne peut appaiser votre douleur. Une grande distance nous sépare, mais nous sommes de tout coeur avec vous. C'est dans ces difficiles moments qu'il faut faire preuve de courage et garder la tête haute. xxx Famille Dorian Patry
Ellen Nogueira
September 29, 2013
I am very saddened about these terrible news...RIP Neil! You will be greatly missed...Praying for the family and fianc
Greg & Sylvie Smith
September 29, 2013
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. We enjoyed looking at the pictures in the photo gallery.
Céline & Patrick Quigley
September 29, 2013
Dear Marcelle, Ideo and family,
Words fall short of expressing our sorrow for your loss. Although at distance, be assured that we all share your grief in this time of bereavement with deepest sympathy and condolences.
Colette G.-Bélanger
September 29, 2013
Dear Marcelle, Ideo and family,
Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in my every thoughts and prayers.
Tenley St.Pierre
September 29, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with the Patry family and friends. Neil was such a wonderful, caring and compassionate person and friend. He touched my heart and I will always treasure the moments I had with him. My sympathies to you all in this time.
Mario Richard
September 29, 2013
Marcelle et Idéo, nos condoléances les plus sincères à vous et à toute la famille. Nous sommes en pensées avec vous durant ces moments difficiles.
Mario, Julie, Félix et Justine
Jenny Vandrovec
September 29, 2013
"What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us." -Helen Keller
Neil brought so much joy, laughter and compassion each day we worked together. He cared for others with a sense of duty and wanted little in return. I am so thankful for our time together and I have become a better human being because of it. My thoughts and prayers are with Elizabeth and the rest of Neil's family. To Neil, you are with us forever.
Katie Lemear
September 29, 2013
Neil was a friend of mine from high school- we spent many days laughing together. I have not seen him in years but thought of him often. My heart breaks for his family, fiancée, and friends. My deepest sympathies.
Tenley St.Pierre
September 28, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Patry family and friends. Neil was such a wonderful, caring, compassionate person and friend. I will always treasure the moments we had together and how he touched my heart. I am thankful to have known such a wonderful person. My sympathies go out to you all...
Denis & Laurie St Pierre
September 28, 2013
We remember Neil as a very polite and respectful young man who loved caring for others. We always enjoyed his visits when he came to NH years ago to visit our daughter Tenley. Our sympathies to the Patry family. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marla Bell
September 28, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with your fiancé & family. Neil, you will be truly missed!!!!
Manon Racine
September 28, 2013
I will always remember Neil as a young boy trying to speak French with us. He was always smiling and funny when we had the chance to see him in Québec. Oncle Ideo et tante Marcelle, nous pensons à vous très fort... Bon courage, la famille Goulet vous accompagne en pensées, soyez-en assurés ! Gina, Joyce and Danny: my deepest sympathies!
Holly Abeels
September 28, 2013
I remember and know Neil from high school. I'm so sorry for your loss. He will be missed. My thoughts are with his family and friends.
Tracy Scavarelli
September 28, 2013
My deepest sympathies. I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you.
Edith Bolduc-Sevigny
September 28, 2013
Ideo Et Marcelle and family so sorry for your loss
September 28, 2013
I did not know Neil well but I did know him to be a kind and gentle spirit. My prayers are with you.
Thayne Flora
Farley Center
Susan Dalrymple
September 28, 2013
Russ and I have always considered Neil to be our second son and will miss his unique sense of humor and kindhearted personality. He will be missed.
Maureen Turcotte
September 28, 2013
Our condolences to the Patry and Goulet families.
Serge and Maureen Turcotte.
Chandra Hubbard-Wright
September 28, 2013
I would like to express great sorrow for the loss of such a nice and caring co-worker. I truly enjoyed working with Neil and will miss him.
Lynn Arndt
September 28, 2013
I heard the sad news of Neil's passing, and I am so sorry. You are all family and it breaks my heart. I remember Neil as a young boy when Mark began dating Gina. I know words cannot take away the pain you are all feeling but please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Lots of love to you all!!!
Lynn Arndt
September 28, 2013
Please know that our hearts are with you all. I remember Neil as a little boy when Mark first started dating Gina. We are all family and this is a very, very sad day. Please know that we are thinking of you and sending prayers of comfort your way.
Brigitte Lachance
September 28, 2013
Our hearts and thoughts are with you all in this time of great loss. We cannot imagine the losing such a wonderful person.
Brittany Wilson
September 28, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with the Patry family and his fiancee. Neil was a kind, genuine guy who brightened up the room when he walk in. He was a pleasure to work with and will be greatly missed.
Beth Skvarka
September 28, 2013
My deepest and sincere sympathy goes out to Elizabeth and the Patry family. I am so sorry for your loss. Neil was one of the best! I loved working with him.
Mona (Goulet) McAuliffe
September 28, 2013
Our deepest sympathies to the Patry family. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. We all have wonderful memories of Neil and were blessed to have him as part of our extended family.
Carol Bright
September 28, 2013
My heartfelt sympathy to Elizabeth and to Neil's family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Sylvain Tardif
September 28, 2013
We would like to offer our sympathy to Ideo, Marcelle, Gina, Danny, Joyce and all the family. You are a great family and our thoughts are with you.
Sylvain, Marie-Claude, Émilie et Xavier xxxx
Alex Adams
September 28, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Neil will always be remembered for his shining personality and his commitment to making every moment count.
John & Kim Cudzik
September 27, 2013
God Bless you Gina and Mark and your family for your loss. Words cannot give justice to our grief for you and your family. We love you as family and are here for you.
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