Bonnie, Barry and family: 

I didn’t know your beautiful Stacy in person, but I do know some of her struggles. I am so touched by her story, and can’t imagine the weight of your loss. 

Barry, if I may, please try to break free from blaming yourself.  By looking into her eyes, I know she wouldn’t want that for you, and by reading your words, I know that you are a wonderful dad who gave her his very best. One day, when you both have wings, you’ll see and hold her again. 

Erin

This is a photo that I took of a Dahlia. Out of all my flora images, this is the most like Stacy. Strikingly vibrant and beautiful. 

2 years ago today we lost you and you are missed deeply. You will always live on in the stories we tell about you and the countless photos and videos you took. I’m counting on you to watch over us until we meet up again one day ❤️

To my baby girl. I hope you are happy where you are . 
I miss you so much.
My heart is shattered in 1,000 pieces.
I am broken forever.
I so wish you were singing to me again..
I so wish you were here being the greatest mother in the entire world again. 
I so wish you didn’t have so much pain in your young life. 
I so wish  that  I did a better job of trying to find a doctor that   could save you. You asked me to protect you, and not give up on finding a cure. I failed In keeping my promise. I will never forgive myself for that.

I will never forget you, I will never stop loving you. I will never stop thinking of you, and someday I hope to God that I’ll be able to see you again  ,and hug you one more time and tell you how much I love you.
I love you forever my sweet beautiful daughter.

Daddy

Barry,
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.
Condolences to your entire family.
Use your family for strength.

John Cola

Dear Barry and Bonnie, we are so sad to learn of your loss, for which there truly are no words.  

We hope that you can draw comfort from your grandchildren, in whose faces and hearts her life continues.

Sincerely, 
Leslie and Barbara Sojka

Stacy-
We all miss you so much. Still not real you are gone forever from our lives. I know your with us especially your parents, Randy, and your babies. Love you forevo 

Bonnie, so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers sent to you and your family.

Thinking of you and your family Barry.  I’m so very sorry for your loss.  Sending love and light.  Love you - Alisa

Barry,
You have my deepest sympathy.  Condolences from the team at LHDC.

Stay strong,
Robert

Barry,

From your family at Champion Teamwear, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jenny Glodowski & Team

Barry,
My deepest condolences to you & your family.  I pray that the Lord will comfort and strengthen you at this most difficult time.  

Sincerely Yours,
Lisa Lash

Barry
I am so sorry for your loss!  I know of no words that I can say to make this pain and grief go away.  Please know that I am praying for you and your family!
Peter

Dear Barry and family,

I am sorry for your loss of your Stacy!  Words cannot mask the heartache of a lost child but may the spirit of God dwell in you and your family during this sad time.  May the Lord give you strength in the 3 precious gifts she has left behind.  May they give you and your family hope and joy in their smiles and their laughter.  Our prayers are with  you and your family daily.

Kevin,

I am so sorry for your loss.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  Please let me know if you need anything.

Tracy

Dear Barry and Family,

My heart goes out to all of you in the loss of Stacy.  Please know that we are thinking of you and sending prayers for each of you.  

Blessings,

Larry 

Dear Randy,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your dear family at this most sad and difficult time.  

Most sincerely,

Dr. Frank and Louise Donnangelo

Barry, I am sorry to hear about the passing of your daughter.  May you remember the good times, and keep those memories close at heart.  Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Kevin,
I am so sorry for your loss, I am praying for you and your family during this sad time.  Let me know if there is anything you may need.  Dorina

Kevin,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts go to you and your entire family in those much difficult times.
Take care,
Bertrand


Dear Kevin, It is with a heavy hand and heartfelt regrets that I write to express my profound sympathies and deepest condolences to you and your family for the tragic passing of Stacy. I’m sending my thoughts and prayers to you and your family at this difficult time. With my deepest condolences. Frédéric Ducrocq.


My baby sister. There are no words for me to say how I feel. You were the only one who had the words for me. Now that your gone I am lost and I fear I will never find my way back.  Please watch over all of us, including your beautiful kids. My heart is forever broken 

Love always 
Your bro ‘Flouch’ 
Randy 

Barry -

I am so sorry for your family's loss.  Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of mourning.

Jule Banzet

Deepest sympathy to you and your family for your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you

Stacy - I am so heartbroken to hear of your passing, and am sending my love to those you left behind, like your babies and other family &friends. You  were such an amazing mom and true and loyal friend when I really needed one. Love and light, beautiful one. ❤️ - Megan 

Barry
I am so sorry for your loss.  Praying for you and your entire family.  May God comfort you and your family during this time.
Sincerely 
Brian

Stacy Shain was my first best friend in elementary school.  Similar to other posts, Stacy brought
Light and life everywhere she went, even that young.  I remember our constant sleepovers, singing to every Disney movie, playing trolls and as always Stacy's drawings.  Stacy was loved by all, everywhere she went.  My mother, who hadn't seen Stacy in many years cried when she heard the news.  That was Stacy - beloved.  My extreme condolences to her family and children.

I'm so sorry for your loss, Shain Family.  

Barry,                                                                      My deepest condolences. I can’t imagine your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I will always remember Stacey with love and affection.                                                      Laurie Gross. 

Barry,

I want to express my deepest sympathy. I’m so sorry for you loss. I know this is a very difficult time for you and your family. I will keep you in my prayers. 

Love always,

Helen 

Barry, 
We are so very sorry for your loss.  Please allow me to express our sincere condolences to you and your family.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. 
John & Diane

Barry, 
I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I pray God's love, peace, mercy and grace will overflow and be with you and your family during this most difficult time. 
God Bless 
Hope 

My deepest condolences to the Shain family. Stacy gave me so much joy, always made me laugh, was one of the best people to be around. She lit up the room wherever she was and I am extremely blessed to have known her. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May she rest easy. Lots of love.

Christine

My heart is breaking for your loss.  I can’t imagine the pain you are feeling.  Just know that she is no longer battling her demons and can now Rest In Peace.  Love to you and your entire family.
Linda

Barry,
I cannot begin to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family.  Please know I am thinking about you and your love ones during this time.  

Bernadette 

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Stacy Shain

July 19, 1985 – September 6, 2019

Bloomfield-Cooper Jewish Chapels

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