As a young boy, I’d give him a bunch of keys to keep him occupied as the girls played with their Barbie dolls. He’d spend an afternoon going from door to door, trying to find the correct key. As a young teen, I convinced him that we should bring our puppies to The Atria to be therapy dogs for the residents. He warned me Murphy doesn’t do well on car trips and puked all over the seat of my car! Patch said, “I told you so!” As an adult, he gave up  many Saturday  nights working my photo booth with me. He’d text ahead of time to color coordinate our uniform.s! We’d end our evening with a late night pup walk, finishing up by saying  ‘Love ya!’ He will be missed so much. 

Patrick (patch) was a beacon of light he was the fabulous person he was because he had such wonderful parents and a sister Christine that made his days bright and warm and guided him from an early age right along to the perfect funny happy reliable gentleman that he was I know the pain at this time is unbearable hopefully in time we can heal together his presence will always be missed by us all but we have treasured memories within all our hearts that can never be taken away Patrick was always so happy and spirited and his kindness and warmth shone brightly like a beacon of light thanks to the upbringing he got from his parents and sister and grandparents and he loved all of ye unconditionally in return every time we see the sun shine we will remember Patch every time we see a flower bloom, he lit up every room please allow us to step into your sorrow and weep with you We all remember his spirit, kindness and his laughter Please know you are not alone at this terrible time there is no greater sorrow than to lose a child you gave all of you and in return you had and still have the most wonderful son who was a credit to you If you need to scream into the wind we are here to lessen the pain Ifyou need to fall to pieces we will sweep them up Pleaseknow we are all devastated and by your side at this terrible time our hearts are aching too  but we will remember when the breeze gently blows we remember his softness, when the sun shines his spirit and the river bubbles his kindness Patch and all of ye will be forever in our hearts and we will always have fond memories that will stay with us forever stay strong knowing that ye were wonderful family that he loved and cherished we will heal together xx

Dear Patrick, Marysia and Christine. Our heartfelt sympathy to you all on the  sudden, untimely, passing of Patrick. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad and difficult time. May he rest in peace with his beloved aunt Kathleen and grandparents Eileen and Pat who adored him. Love from Kathleen and Pat O'Neill and family, Ennis.

Heartfelt sympathy to Patrick, Mary and Christine on your sad loss. May God comfort you on your great sorrow. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. 

Patrick, Mary & Christine our deepest sympathy on the sudden passing of Patrick jnr. May he rest in peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time. Eamonn & John, Ballysteen

Dearest Patrick, Mary and Chrissy,

We are so very sorry for your loss. Patch was a true gentleman with the most wonderful smile and wit. He will be missed dearly by so many. Please know, you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this incredibly difficult time. 

From all your cousins in Cavan, Ireland xxx

Condolences to Patrick, Mary and Christine on your sad loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.

Deepest sympathy to Patrick, Mary & Christine on your recent sad loss.  Our thoughts & prayers are with u all Thinking of ye at this difficult time


Dear Patrick, Mary and Chrissy,

I am devastated that Patch has died and can’t imagine the disbelief and pain you are experiencing. I have no words to help make sense of any of this or to alleviate this incredible pain but I am always here to listen and I know for certain that I am not alone when I say you are beautiful people and your family is So loved, So incredibly loved; you can call on me at anytime for anything. Be good to yourselves. 

Rest easy, Patch. Your radiant smile will forever be etched in my heart.❤️

Kathleen Bowen

Deepest sympathy to you Patrick, Mary, Christine & extended family on the untimely passing of Patrick Jnr.  We are thinking of you all at this very difficult time Our hearts go out to ye all.

Mary & Seamus Madigan & Family


My Deepest Condolences to The O'Hara Family. Patrick was such a smart, lovable and caring soul. All of us that went to Ward Melville High School with him remember the light he would bring into each room he sat in. Without thought, gave the correct answer. If anyone was down, he'd be the shoulder to cry on. Even outside the classroom, Patrick was a dependable friend with the path to success and fortune. I cannot fathom the fact we'll never hear his voice again so soon. Again, my deepest condolences to everyone who Patch touched. Keeping him in my prayers forever and ever.

Sincere condolences Patrick, Mary and Chrissy. We are all heartbroken and in shock. Patch was such a funny, smart and loveable guy, he will be missed dearly. I have fond memories of each time we met and he would always put a smile on your face. Ye are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Love from Ian, Moira and Aoibhinn Sheehy

Mary, Pat and Crissy,

Our deepest sympathies are with you and everyone who loved Patch. Please know that you have been in our hearts and mind since we heard the news of Patrick's passing. When we met Patrick this summer, I remember that  had such a warm and friendly smile that  impressed me. May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you.

With love, Scott and Cami Gunther

Our hearts have broken when we heard your news of Patrick’s passing. Although it has been years since we moved from Setauket, I always remember a sweet, cute, well mannered little boy my son played with. Please know my family is so saddened and our prayers are with your family and dear Patrick.

My sincere condolences to the O'Hara family in this shocking loss.  I will keep you and Patch in my prayers and wish you peace.  

Words cannot come close to expressing my condolences on your loss. Kim and I are praying for you and your family that God will show his love and mercy during this painful time. I know how much you loved and adored your son, and he will never be far from your heart.

God Bless.

Bruce and Kimberly Adams
Monterey CA 


Our deepest sympathy to Patrick, Mary & Christine on the untimely passing of Patrick jnr. R.I.P. such a shock to everybody. Aunt Ellen, Pat & Kathleen were so proud of him & always spoke so highly of him and now they are all re-united in Heaven. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all at this very difficult time 


Our sincere condolences on the death of Patrick (Patch) at such a young age .  It's hard losing such a wonderful son and brother.  Our prayers are with you at this time.  R.I.P.  

Patrick Marysia Christine and all Patch’s wide circle of friends my heartfelt condolences on this terrible news
Words can’t express how much my heart goes out to all of ye I know everyone is upset and trying to comprehend what’s going on but  for ye his near family and close friends I’m sure ye feel ye will never again mend but hopefully in time ye will learn how to cope with this madness and of course there are all the special memories and funny things he said and did that will make ye smile sometimes because he was a funny lad and a bit of a joker( he didn’t steal that) it’s an Irish thing he learnt from his nana grandad and his Irish family over here I would love to cross the Atlantic Ocean and give all of you a massive bear hug but unfortunately not this year because of deeded C  we will all remember his smile and laugh he is now wrapped in auntie Kathleens arms and Aunt Ellen and Uncle Pat are waiting on their hugs bet Ellen is giving out about that All my love and virtual hug’s going your way for now sleep tight angel Patch heaven has gained another angel with wings who will look after us all❤️❤️

The sweetest, gentlest young man we had the privilege to know , always in our thoughts and prayers xx

So very sorry for your loss. Our deepest condolences.  I remember Patrick fondly from the Nassakeag years when our sons attended school & played basketball together.   With Sympathy, Barbara Lommel ( Will & Thomas ) 

Patrick was the most caring, genuine best friend I have ever had. Our friendship meant the world to me. I am so saddened by his passing; I will remember him and the amazing impact he had on everyone that had the pleasure of knowing him for the rest of my life. Rest in paradise Pat. I love you  

So sad to hear of the loss of someone so kind and always so much fun . Our heart's are with ye at this sad time . Our deepest condolences to you all .
Noel Sheehy & Pat Page .

To a wonderful man who short time with us left us great memories 
Thanks patch 
Patrick Mary and Christine our prayers are with you at this terrible time 
Liam Marja and hazel

Newyork and the O’Haras lost a great lovely young man. 
RIP patch (Patrick) 🙏🏻 🇺🇸🇮🇪

Such sad news, great memories of your time spent at our family occasions  in Ireland. Great craic and always very lovable. You were a credit to your parents and sister and we will never forget you Patch❤️ Love always John, Marian, Kelly-Ann, Ian and Moira, Michael and Lisa and grand kids John, Aoibhinn and James XxX

OBITUARY

Patrick T. O'Hara

January 8, 1999 – October 24, 2020

O.B. Davis Funeral Homes

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