He was sixth of eleven children to Nancy Jane Holmes and Gerald George Whitely.He grew up in Long Beach, California before becoming a resident of Orange County. Hayden had a long and fulfilling career in the aerospace industry; he had great knowledge and was well-respected by his team. Hayden grew up with a passion for music and played guitar for nearly his whole life. He was known for his generosity, kindness and fun personality. Hayden will be lovingly remembered by his wife, Frosin; daughters, Brittany, Basia and Brooke; five grandchildren; one great-grandchild; siblings, Bethe, Deanna, Joe, Tracey, and Stephanie; and life-long friends.
A Memorial Service will be held at Funeraria Del Angel Anaheim, 2425 W. Lincoln Ave., Anaheim, CA 92801, on March 14, 2026, at 1:00 pm.