Dear Annie. Patrick and Jack.  We want to offer you our deepest condolences for your loss at this difficult time. Even though we live far away, I think of you often and am proud of the way the three of you support each other in life. Your grandparents would be very proud. Stay strong.Love Aunt Anne and Uncle John Hoffmann

John was a wonderful and generous member of our community. He volunteered with Arlington Neighborhood Village for many, many years supporting with kindness and compassion older members of our community. John was always available to help someone in need or lend a friendly ear.  He will be much missed.  Our condolences to his family.

Wendy

Years ago I wrote this haiku for John on his birthday. 

MONARCH
Fiery orange wings
Laced with black – a harbinger 
Of autumn colors

He replied that monarchs were very special to him, and that he had watched a monarch emerge from its chrysalis, dry its wings and eventually fly.

Now it is spring and here is a haiku from the great master, Basho.

April's air stirs in 
Willow-leaves...a butterfly
Floats and balances”

I will miss you, John.

Sending love and hope to all of John’s family.

Kathy

My deepest condolences to John’s family and friends.  I was lucky to meet John in high school and he enriched the lives of many including me.  I’ll always remember his kindness and generosity.

Big John, you were a marvelous friend. I will miss you always. 
Love, Big Phil

To the Lacey Family 
My deepest condolences for-the loss of  john such a kind man and friend he will be missed by all …..
Rest in Peace John✝️💕
Kindly
Catherine j Testa
NTW friend

Dear Lacey Family,

Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss.   We are thinking of your family and sending our prayers.

Sincerely,

Mike E. & Family

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John William Lacey

31 August, 1957 – 30 March, 2026

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