I haven't yet wrote on this page. But that's because what we share, only you and I, understand. I miss you Justin. We weren't together at the time of your death. But we were never apart either. You know what I mean. I'll see you on the other side. I know you're waiting for me. I can hear you now...................(But I won't say publicly. Lol). Until we're together again, just know you're missed and never forgotten. Love always- your wife and ever stuffs, Brandie

Justin
 I will always love you
 you were my 
first love 
my best friend
 you tough me
 how to fight 
how to respect my self
 how to love.
You gave your life
 to protect us all
Thank you
 you for your bravery .
I hold you above all.
You are with me always.

You guys came over while I was doing laundry lol

You playing on the computer with Richie climbing all over you like he did back then

Lol you telling Richie if he sticks his tongue out again your gonna grab it 😁

I miss you so much Uncle Joker I feel lost without you bubba you're on my mind everyday I can't wait to see you again I wouldn't be me today if I hadn't had someone like you around you always had my back feel like you took a piece of our hearts with you when you left us but anyways I love you Justin God bless your soul 

It's been almost a year justin and it seems like yesterday I miss you so much I love you  and I will someday see you again you will always and forever be in my heart there's not a day that passes that I don't think about you love you

Damn my boy there's not a single day that goes by I don't miss you and think of you you were my bestfriend still are I can't believe its almost been a year.I don't know how I'm gonna handle that day but I know you'll be with me.all my love.

I LOVE AND MISS YOUR FACE! I promise Justin, you will never be forgotten.

It has been 5months since you were taken and I still cant convience myself that this has happened and that there is nothing I can do to change this. But I do try every single day to face the reality  of things. You would think by now I would except what happened, its just not easy! You kids kiss each other and hold onto each other for me. I miss you and love you! OXOXOX your mama, rick and jokes and ditto

Lil Boy! I just wanted to tell u Good Nite and that I love you and miss you! Hug Tonya and Chris for me and please know that ive not given up. I love you 
Your Mama and Jokes

Lil Boy!
Its New Years Eve and I catch myself thinking what you would be doing. Probably deciding what to wear and talking on your phone to find out what plans to make. I wish you were here. You have always called me to tell me Happy New Year (even when you were upset at me) But there wont be any call this year and I know Ill be looking for it. So many things to get use to with out you here. I look at your pics everyday, some days are easier than others. Im so sorry I wasn't there for you the night this happened. I know how you are when your sick or hurt or scared, you want your mama. Those thoughts go thru my head everyday. If, if, if! I love you., and tonight at midnight when the New Year comes in I will be thinking about you. I wish we were all together like we once were and we could bring in the year together. Remember the pots and pans and how no matter what you would stay up, even when the other kids didn't make it! Happy New Year my 3 beautiful kids! I love you and miss you more than anyone here imagines!

Good Morning Son . . Just wanted to tell u that I love you!
Love, Jokes, Ditto and Me

Good Morning Lil Boy! Ive written you a couple more times but I guess they don't show them all. But we know! I just wanted to tell you that I love you and miss you kids so much! Its not raining today, the sun is out but kits cold. I worry that you kids are cold. I know that might sound stupied but I cant help it. Now that the sun is shining I feel better about that. Jokes is doing ok. I can see it in his eyes that he misses you. Sue comes by almost every day, she has your pic on her wallpaper(phone) She always smiles and tells me how you called her the crazy lady. Everybody misses you around here. Its just not the same without you. I hope the 3 of you are taking care of each other and don' forget to watch out for me and Rick. He really misses being able to hang out together. Ill write you again soon. I love you, Your Mama and Jokes and Ditto

Good Morning Kid! I miss getting your messages. Im looking out for your Mama. You know how she can be when it comes to you. I love you and miss you and know you'll have to mind now that your with your sister! Love ya, Old Guy

Uncle Justin.. Joker.. Words cant express the feelings i feel when u come to mind. I miss u dearly and it just doesnt feel the same with u gone. I feel terrible because I hadn't seen you in a few years, since my mom took me to visit you in my new charger in 2009.. regardless of how much time we spent u were family and always will be. I still cant make sense of what happened it all seems so unreal. But u know what they say. The good die young.. i love you, and know ur doing better where ur at, ur on god's team now. Save a spot for me cuz ill be there one day too.. love u dearly and im thinking of u daily.. til' we see eachother again.. xoxo

Lil Boy! I haven't written to you in awhile but its not because I haven't thought of you.  My whole world is upside down and I don't know how to fix it. I know my life will have even a deeper whole now that your gone too, but I have to learn how to live each day with the unhappiness and sadness that I feel.  How do I do that? What can I find that wil give me even a small amount of  amount of joy? Maybe time will show me how it should be done. As for now I just take each day hopeing the next might be a lil better. I love you and miss you and your sister and brother more than I can tell you.  I know the 3 of you are watching over me, don't give up on me I'm ok,  just trying to find my way! Take care of each other and think of me and know that I love you and one day we will all be together again! Jokes sends his love too! Love, "Me" Mama

Good Morning son!
I just wanted to tell you that I love you, and I miss the 3 of you so much! How can I do this without you? You were all I had left! I will look for signs of you through out my day. I wish you here, love "me" and jokes

Lil Boy! Has this really happened? I catch myself thinking what can I do to fix this? But there is nothing!Is there? Who's going to make us smile, or get upset with me when I'm not doing things the way you think they should be? I'll do them your way if you would just be here and all this was nothing more than a bad dream! I miss you so much.  If it wasn't for the pain in my heart I wouldn't even know there was anything there. I'm so empty inside. Watch out for Tonya and Christopher, the way you have watched out for so many of us out here. I know they are watching out for you! I love you kids! You were my life! Love Mama and Baby Jokes

Justin, your smile will shine on forever in heart's.

Justin Bryan, I can't believe your gone. I just thought about you over the weekend and went out on the internet to see if I could find you and read something I hoped I never would have to see. You'll always be in heart. I will Love you forever little man. You had my heart from the day you were born. Hug Christopher and Tonya and send your Mom a sign that her angles are with her always. God speed Justin. Love Deda

Justin its crazy known one day your here than your gone we never know when its are last day. Justin you'll never be forgotten you always would bring a smile to everyone face. Your missed by so meany . Wait for us justin we will all see you again on the other side.

Justin its crazy one day your here and than gone , with that being sad we should waste time on the stupid stuff . You'll never be forgotten thats for sure I will miss you . But I will see you on the other side before you know it . Until than

I'm having such a hard time believing you are gone I love you and you will always be in my heart you were such a good person with a big heart

Lil Boy! I'm not doing too good since you left. I don't know what to do, where to start. I haven't gotten any of your things back and I know you would want us to have them. Its so hard. Jokes knows something is wrong. I just wish I could hear you say How you doing young lady, I love you Mama!I love you too Lil Boy, my life is so empty without the three of you!

Rest in peace justin I love you and miss you

I extend my deepest condolences to you & your family --he was a good person. I knew him during our youth and innocence. He was my cousin- I loved him and still do. I'm sad I didn't have an opportunity to catch up with him as adults.  I wish I could see him one last time. His life was cut too, too short.  He had a huge heart and losing him is, indeed, a tragedy. He was kind-spirited and had a magnificent soul. May he rest peacefully with Tonya and Christopher! I am sending my deepest sympathies from me and my family.

My Lil Boy!  Knowing that you are with your sister and brother now has given me the courage to get through this.  My so very handsome son, I Love You!

You will be missed we love u ....rest in peace bro..

May you rest in peace. I will always remember you as the 13 year old kid that I met all those years ago...

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Justin Bryan Harger

15 January, 1981 – 16 September, 2013

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