It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of AngKy Suos, our beloved mother who we call Mak (Cambodian for mother). Mak was a devoted and loving wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. On Monday, March 4, 2024, at the age of 86, Mak peacefully passed away with her family by her side in Bentonville, Arkansas. Her departure has left a profound void in our hearts, a void that can never be filled. Yet, her spirit remains eternally vibrant within the cherished memories she bestowed upon us.
Mak was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Colonel Prum Horn, and their cherished third eldest daughter, Serey Ang Prum. Their memory lived on in the depths of Mak's heart. Alongside her beloved husband and daughter, Mak was reunited with her elder brother Pheng Chea Suos, younger sister ChhayVee Suos and parents Mr. HeLeng Ung and Mrs. Thong Sam, as they embraced the eternal peace of the heavens.
Mak is survived by her elder sister Thengvan Ea and her loving daughters, Prasoeu Leng, Pisey Tes, Piset Heng, and Pidor Yang, and her devoted sons, Sophornarath Horn, Sophornarith Horn, and Sophornarak Horn, along with their respective spouses. Her legacy also lives on through her 20 grandchildren and 8 great-grandchildren, who carry forth her spirit of love, compassion, and resilience into the future.
Mak, born on April 15, 1937, to Mr. HeLeng Ung and Mrs. Thong Sam, graced the world with her radiant presence. From the very beginning, her life was a tapestry woven with threads of strength, compassion, and boundless love. Mak met Prum Horn, our father (Pa, Cambodian for father) while he was studying in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. Before they met, Pa would find any excuse that would allow him the opportunity to be near Mak’s home, hoping to catch a glimpse of her. Their love story blossomed after Pa mustered enough courage to pursue her. As the devoted wife of over 60 years to Pa, a Colonel of the Cambodian Air Force, Mak exemplified unwavering support, standing proudly by his side through every triumph and tribulation. As a military wife, she faced countless challenges with grace and determination highlighting her resilience, her skills for organization, and her ability to adapt. She stood by Pa’s side during his deployments, celebrated his promotions, and supported fellow military families. Together, they weathered life's storms, building a foundation of love and devotion that would withstand the test of time, war, bigotry, and the struggles of starting anew in a foreign land.
Mak's heart knew no bounds in its capacity for love. Her dedication and sacrifices were felt by all who knew her, as she navigated the challenges of a new land. Her hands, skilled in both labor and tenderness, stitched together the dreams and aspirations of her children, sacrificing her own desires for our future success. Her legacy of compassion extended far beyond her own kin, touching the lives of all who crossed her path with her genuine kindness and gentle spirit.
Escaping the ravages of war-torn Cambodia, our family arrived at Fort Indiantown Gap, Pennsylvania in August 1975 and later settled in Lebanon, Pennsylvania. With no knowledge of America’s culture, language, and customs, Mak persisted through language classes making English the 4th language she was able to speak. She cleaned offices alongside our father and two eldest sisters to make ends meet. She learned the skills of a seamstress while being teased and taunted by her bosses and coworkers. She worked tirelessly through the day and into the night experiencing aches, pains, fatigue, and stressors she never faced before. She opened our home, welcoming numerous Khmer families new to America. She cooked. She cleaned. She guided. She did everything and she did it for everyone without hesitation. She did all this with a smile, never once complaining. She would purchase reading glasses one or several at a time as she could afford them, saving them to send to Cambodia to be given to those who could not see clearly. She supported the building of schools, water wells, and temples. She did all this and more before it was a “thing” to do. From the halls of English as a Second Language to the corridors of her humble abode and beyond, Mak's spirit shone brightly, guided our family and countless others through the darkest of nights and the brightest of days.
As we grew older, Mak’s wisdom flowed like a timeless river, carving paths through our hearts. She knew when to speak and when to listen. Her advice, sometimes firm but always genuine, shaped our character. She taught us resilience, compassion, the art of forgiveness, and the love of family. Her laughter was our medicine. It still echoes through our memories as a sweet lingering melody. Even in the darkest hours, she found joy in simple things – a blooming flower, tending her garden, a shared joke, a warm cup of tea, and cooking delicious Khmer food.
Mak sacrificed sleep and tiredness for our dreams, and traded her desires for our aspirations. Her warm hands stitched our clothes, cooked our meals, held us close, and “khoh khjol” for us when we were sick. She gave up pieces of herself, yet her love multiplied, boundless and unyielding. Her hard work did not go astray as all her children accomplished her goals for us to attain higher education and to have a caring heart. Her legacy lives not only in our veins, but also in the kindness we show others.
As we gather to honor Mak's life, let us take solace in the profound imprint she leaves upon our souls. Though she may no longer walk beside us, her spirit will forever guide us, her love will forever sustain us, and her memory will forever inspire us to embrace each day with the same unwavering grace and kindness that defined her essence. Look up and you will see her in the stars. Look in the mirror and you will see her in the twinkle of your eyes. Look inside yourself and you will see her in the warmth of your heart.
Rest in eternal peace Mak. Your legacy of love will continue to illuminate our lives, casting its radiant glow upon all who were blessed to know you. Until we meet again in the realms beyond, forever, you will reside within our hearts.
Mak, YOU are BEAUTIFUL and We Love YOU Forever!
Itinerary:
10:00am - Funeral service will begin, estimated 1-1.5 hour service
11:30am - Family will have brief time to eat and prepare to walk around funeral home
12:00pm - Casket will be brought outside, and family will walk three laps around the building with the casket.
12:30pm - Family will return to their vehicles, and we will have a police escort to Nelson Berna Funeral Home and Crematory in Fayetteville
1:15pm - Arrive at crematory; family will place any items into casket and then family member will press the button to begin cremation process
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