Hello so its may 5, 2011.. about two days ago.. a year passed the my uncle bevan passed away.. i havent seen him in forever.. its upsetting but he is always in my heart out of pain and in a better place.. i love you uncle bevan R.I.P<3

Dear Lydia,William and Gracie.  I am so sorry I have never had a  chance to get to know you but it sounds like you had a wonderful husband and father to your children.  My heart  is aching for you all and thank you for sharing these lovely pictures with us all.  Bless you all and it sounds like you have a wonderful angel looking down and continuing to look over you.  LOve Aunt Gloria

You don't know me but I am Bevan's cousin, Karen Grooms (Winkler).  I am so sorry to hear he is gone at such a young age.   My father, Orval, died at 42 and was partners with Bevan's mom and dad.  There was issues with that business and I was only 18 but know what loss is and I pray for you.  I was so young when Bevan's older brother died at such a early age and so tragic.  I don'thave much family left as my mother is very ill so saddens me to hear this news ...my precious Aunt Lila always so dear just sent me a card.   My heart goes out to his children and wife.   Karen Grooms (Winkler) kwinkler03@gmail.com if you need to talk...

I didn't know Bevan well but enjoyed the few conversations that we did have.  I wish there were words Lydia.  Peace friend.  Susan

Lydia, 

I met you briefly at my wedding last August. My husband Nathan worked with Bevan at ULA. Nathan had nothing but good things to say about Bevan, both as an individual and as an engineer. Our hearts are heavy from this sad loss. Please know that we are praying for you and your children at this sad time.

Lydia,
I worked for Bevan at ULA and my wife, Mandy, and I sat with you and Bevan at Nathan's wedding reception.  He was a great boss and a great friend.  Pastor Jason was right when he said that Bevan made everyone feel like his best friend.  We were blessed to have known him.  Our prayers are with you, William and Grace.  I can't wait to see the next Delta IV launch dedicated to him.  Bevan truly was a "steely-eyed missile man".

I met Bevan in 2004 when he transferred to Decatur AL with the Delta Program. I had just relocated from Colorado a few weeks earlier. He would pass by my cubical and stop to visit.  Bevan was one of the nicest persons you could ever met.  He was so caring and loved his family so much.  We began a friendship of talking about our families.  He shared his wonderful talent of his art and told me all about his son, daughter and lovely wife.  I missed my grandchildren back in Colorado so I would share all my pictures of them with Bevan. When I learned I would get to go back home to Colorado with ULA I shared with Bevan the love of Colorado and encouraged him to try to come to Colorado.  I was so happy when he did transfer to Denver.  When I heard of his illness I could not believe it.  I am so very sad of the loss of such a wonderful person.  Lydia, I did not meet you until a few weeks ago, but I knew all about you, William, and Grace through the wonderful times Bevan shared with me.  My heart goes out to you all.  I am so sad that he left us so early.  His spirit will live on and I will think of him always.  He has taught me that TODAY MATTERS.  Rest in peace Bevan.  We love and will miss you always.

Bevan, the memory you left us I will treasure for the rest of my life. Your wit, intelligence, and that contagious grin! You made such a huge impact on my life. We will miss you very much! The Grooms Family love ya. Go Bruins! Whoever finds God Finds Life!

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.  May your memories bring you comfort.

Those of us in Decatur who were lucky enough to work with Bevan are truly blessed.  What a wonderful man.  Lydia, William, and Grace you are in my prayers.  May God continue to comfort you.

Bevan was such a special man, so special in fact that God needed him home! His joy and love is filling the heavens as he rests in the hand of our Lord. "Let the beloved of the Lord rest secure in Him, for He shields him all day long, and the one the Lord loves rests between his shoulders." Continue to walk in his love, for he will remain in your heart forever.

Lydia, William, and Gracie, our hearts are breaking for you in this difficult time. We pray that God will be your comfort and strength, and that you will feel His love surrounding you. Thank you for all the ways your family has been a blessing to us.

Bevan will be missed by everyone.  He leaves with us his compassion, his heart, his thoughtfulness of others before himself . . . a man whom has touched us all.  He is with the Lord now, and we are all so blessed to have known him for the time he was on this earth.  Thank you Lord, for allowing us all to be touched by this great man.

May God bless the Whitaker family.  We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Lydia, William, and Grace,
I met Bevan shortly before he was diagnosed this last time, and the peace that he had was unmistakeable, knowing in whose hands he really lied, even though he had an undeniable desire to spend more time on earth with his family.  While we can be absolutely sure that, through Bevan's faith in Jesus Christ, he is walking those streets of gold, I know that this can still be a difficult time.  All of us at the church are here for you - in prayer, in deed, as an ear, or however else you need us - as you know we always had been before.

We have been touched by Bevan, and the great example he left for us as a great spouse, father, and Christian. Our thoughts & prayers are with Lydia, William, and Grace during this most painful time- praying that the God of all comfort will give you the strength during this time of healing as you say good bye to such a great man.

Our family is keeping you in our hearts and prayers. 
Lydia, we have appreciate your and Bevan's devotion to the kids at church as Sunday School teachers. They knew Bevan as a kind, man of God who was such a gifted artist. May the Lord comfort your family each moment.

Lydia, William, and Gracie,
May the God of All Comfort comfort you and keep you close.  
Lydia, you have the blessing of being the love of Bevan's life.  Always remember that.  
William and Gracie, follow your Daddy's example and love Jesus with all your hearts. 
You are a very special family, and my heart breaks with yours. Hold on to Jesus as He holds on to you.

Thinking of all of you, my heart is with you during this difficult time.

As manager of a newly formed Strength group in Decatur, Bevan made such a positive impact.  I feel very fortunate to have worked for him during that time.  He served as an example of excellence, honesty, and integrity in all facets of life.   I will always remember how he went out of his way to help facilitate personal and career development, and will be forever grateful.  My thoughts and prayers are with his family; may his positive influence and fond memories serve to provide comfort to all who knew him.

Lydia, William and Grace,

I'm so sorry to hear about Beven. I remember when I first met you both at RMCC I knew you both were wonderful people and I feel so blessed that I was able to meet the both of you. Please know you and your children are in my heart and prayers. Please take care of yourself.

Always
Heather Pierre

You were not with us for very long but you influenced everyone who knew you and you made such a great difference for so very many, myself included.  For that I will always be grateful; grateful for the opportunity to have worked with you in Decatur; grateful for having known you.  Bevan, God bless you and God love you and give you eternal peace.  I hope we meet again some day.

I am heartbroken to know that cousin Bevan is gone.  I think back on all of the memories we had as children and the happy, playful and inquisitive boy that he was, and when all the cousins got together...how much laughter, noise, fun and good times we had.  I will forever remember him in my heart and that little boy with the beautiful sparkling blue eyes.  I feel comforted in knowing that he is at peace and no longer in pain, and I send my love to Lydia, William, Grace, Aunt Charlene and Uncle Freddie, Perry, Tracy and Dawn.  Love...Cousin Beverly

Bevan was the real thing. He really loved the Lord. He really loved his wife and children. He really loved others and I really miss him. He is really with the Lord now. Save me a seat Bevan, I'll see you soon.

Lydia, I am thinking of you so much and praying for your hurting heart.  My thoughts and prayers go out to you, William and Grace.

Dear Lydia, William and Grace,
What a strong and inspirational family you are! You have been through so much and handled it so well. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers each and every day.

IN LOVING MEMORY OF MY SON
Bevan was known for his patience and perfection
He was a sweet and gentle soul.
A trusting and kindly man
Not so materialistically absorbed.
A man of honesty, integrity, and truth
He would listen to your point of view
An open and eager mind to learn
Humility possessed by few.
So very proud of Lydia, William, and Grace
His precious family
No boasting but you obviously see
His devotion and sincerity
To his friends and family
A heart filled with love and compassion
No malice in his face
He cared about the world and humanity
And definitely walks in God's grace.
Love, Mom

Lydia, William, and Grace,
Remember that if you need us, we're only a phone call away.  May time and love bring you peace.

Lydia, William and Grace,
I met Bevan recently and His leadership in Composite group has helped me a lot. We are going to miss him. My thoughts and paryers with you and kids. VJ

Lydia, William and Grace,
We are going to miss Bevan. I met Bevan only few moths ago. His leadership in the Composite group has help me lot. My prayers are with you and kids in this difficult time.  V. J ( V. Jhaveri)

I met Bevan when he moved to Huntsville to work on Delta IV at the Decatur factory. He and I along with another team member commuted to work together for a short while. Too short for me. I worked with him day to day for a few years. He was a quiet, intelligent, and at the right times, a very funny guy. I value my time with Bevan. He was also very committed to understanding and doing the Lord's will.  He had strength and confidence, yet was meek and humble. He had genuine love for others. It was an honor to have known him, he was very special. You will be missed my friend, but we will be together one day and oh how I look towards it all the more knowing we will see each other again.

Lydia, William and Grace,

My family and I are so very sorry that your husband, your father, has departed to be face to face with our Lord at such a young age. We may not know why, but we know that God is perfect, His timing is perfect, and it was time to bring Bevan home. 

I had the pleasure of knowing Bevan for years, starting back in Huntington Beach.  He has been a great friend to me, both as an engineer and a rival Bruin, and especially as an ambassador for Christ.  We do know this, that Bevan will receive rewards from our Lord beyond all we could ever hope or dream, and hear those words "Well done though good and faithful servant.  You have been faithful in a few things, I will put you in charge of many."  

I look forward to seeing him again. You father may be in heaven, but our Father who is still with you will take care of you all the days of your life.

Husband of one
Father of two
Brother of three
Uncle of eight
Friend to all

Endering to the end you were
the stars you grasped for
the stars you reached
the cross road was difficult
the road was bumpy
but the right direction was found

Aunt Lydia, William, and Gracie,

I'm sorry for your loss. I loved Uncle Bevan. He encouraged me in the arts and inspired me. I remember he drew a picture of my dad in one sitting that blew me away. It was perfect. I still have the picture he drew for me. It was the best art lesson I ever had. I love you guys. God Bless. 

Rest in Peace Uncle Bevan.

Dear Lydia, William and Gracie.   We are so sorry for your loss. My beloved brother will be greatly missed.  We hope you can take comfort in knowing he is with the Lord and no longer in pain and at peace.  We will be there for you always.  Love Tracy and Allison

 I wish we could have spent more time together as adults, like when we were kids. All the cousins tearing up the house. Those really were the good old days.
You will be dearly missed.  Our prayers and thoughts are with you Lydia,William and Grace. Your Father and Husband was a great man but you already knew that.

In loving memory, Chad and Deborah Copsy and family

I didn't know Bevan well, but I knew him well enough to be able to say that he was a fine man and an excellent engineer. May his friends and family find comfort in this difficult time.

Bevan was not only my manager, but a great role model at United Launch Alliance.   He inspired me so much that I recently chose to attend UCLA for my Masters degree, knowing Bevan was a proud Bruin and that he would have been proud of me. I will think of him every step of the way during my journey at UCLA, remembering him as that role model he always was the whole time I've known him. He truly had a good heart with good intentions.  It was a pleasure working with him in the short time I knew him.  Lydia, Krystal & I just wanted to let you know our thoughts and prayers are with you, the kids, and the rest of your families right now. Please take comfort in knowing he's with the Lord now, free from pain.

There is no doubt that anyone who has met Bevan, knows what a huge loss this is.  Thank you for sharing these beautiful photos.  We will miss him so immensely.  With Love -

Lydia,
What a joy it was to know Bevan. My heart hurts for you and the family.  It is very difficult to give up a loved one and especially someone like Bevan.  Please know that your Decatur family will always be here for you.  We love you all very much.

You are in my heart, thoughts and prayers as you go thru such a difficult time.  May God wrap you in his arms and hold you tight.

Lydia,
You know how much we love you and your family. Bevan is my friend and we write in the present tense because he is still very much alive in heaven. Robin and I wish we could be with you and the kids. Please know that we are praying for you and we are with you in spirit. Bevan is enjoying the fruit of his salvation. We know that the Lord will give you peace and comfort now and in the days to come. I can not think of a greater and more loving guy than Bevan. He will always be a true example to us all. We love you.

Bevan was the supportive and encouraging Strength Manager in Decatur who helped me when I worked the Delta II in Huntington Beach. We met in person when Bevan became Manager of Composites Strength and our friend Peter Houk hired into his group. On our first meeting, well before we worked together, I was convinced of his faith and witness. A few conversations and Bevan’s love for his family was very obvious as well. Bevan loved the Lord, his family and his fellow man and we are all better for knowing him.

We want to send our thought and prayers to all of you.May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. We only knew him for a short time but was so blessed to know him. He always show so much love for others and to us. I know that he is walking in the garden with Jesus with no more pain.  He is waiting for us to meet him someday.  Save a place for us..Bevan!   We miss you!

Lydia, William and Grace,
My heart goes out to you at this time. My prayer is that He will sustain you now and continue to in the days ahead.

OBITUARY

Bevan Rodrick Whitaker

4 May, 1963 – 3 May, 2010

Olinger Funeral, Cremation & Cemetery - Chapel Hill

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