OBITUARY
Nathaniel Elijah Gordon
15 October, 2000 – 8 January, 2021
Maricopa, AZ: Nathaniel Elijah Gordon, age 20, passed away at his home in Maricopa on Friday January 8, 2021. Son of Steven and Rebecca (Oakes) Gordon, he was born on October 15th, 2000 in Chandler, Arizona.
He courageously battled medical issues most of his life being diagnosed with Autism at an early age and with Diabetes shortly thereafter. Several other complicated medical issues continued causing numerous hospitalizations each year throughout his life.
As a young boy he attended school briefly but at that time schools were ill prepared for children with special needs such as Nathaniel’s. He was provided with both speech and occupational therapies for a time but most of his beneficial interactions and education came from his parents.
He loved using his computer and surfing the internet which occupied many hours of his time. He also developed a special affinity for calendars and had a remarkable ability to recreate a calendar for any month of any year without any references but his own mind. Being non-verbal he couldn’t explain how he did it but most of the time he would get it exactly right. Nathaniel also loved Paw Patrol and enjoyed adding new items to his large collection.
In recent months he enjoyed making fun Tik-Tok videos with help from his mother and developed a large following who enjoyed his singing and dancing.
He is survived by his parents and his maternal grandfather Michael Oakes of Maricopa, his big sister Marrissa Oakes and nephew Matthew Oakes of Tempe and a number of aunts, uncles and cousins living in Arizona, Texas, New York, Oregon and Virginia all of whom will miss him greatly.
He was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Maurice and Beverly Gordon and his maternal grandmother Karen Oakes.
Services will be held at Trinity Christian Fellowship located at 50 S. McQueen Rd in Chandler AZ on January 16, 2021 with visitation at 11:00 AM and funeral service at 12:00 PM. Burial will follow with limited attendance (Covid restriction) at 2:00 PM at Valley Of The Sun Cemetery in Chandler. Nathaniel’s family is welcoming family and friends to their home for a gathering following the service.
In lieu of flowers the family suggests donations in his name to SARC (Southwest Autism Research & Resource Center), JDRF (Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation), Make-A-Wish Foundation, Hospice of the Valley (Pediatric) or another charitable organization of choice.
Services
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Visitation
Saturday, 16 January , 2021
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Funeral Service
Saturday, 16 January , 2021
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Graveside Service
Saturday, 16 January , 2021
Memories
Nathaniel Elijah Gordon
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ADD A MEMORYMary Darrow
19 January 2021
I only knew him from tiktok for a short time. He really touched me with his happiness. Loved watching him. Know that we are all thinking of you.
Jennifer Lalone
12 January 2021
Nathaniel will always have a special place in my heart. He brought lots of laughter and smiles to my life. Nathaniel had many special talents and he amazed me in making his calendars when someone would give him a year and a month he made it just the way it should be. I loved his upbeat spirit. When I would ask him to help me with something he would say "let's get the show on the road". I loved watching him dance and make his tiktoks. Rest in peace Nathaniel.
Marie Fite
11 January 2021
Nathaniel, you knew how to light a room with your singing and your love for music and im really gonna miss your tiktoks and the I love yous and Happy Birthdays. Thank you Nathaniel for helping me go on in sickness when id see you going on like it was a piece of cake. You withstood the ugly of disease and helped others to withstand it too and to just live life daily with excitement and joy. Fly high with the angels beautiful baby boy. You are suffering no more and can look over mama and dad now and your bestie Matti. Hes gonna miss you most cause you was his Naniel..Love you bud !!❤💔😭
Amy G
10 January 2021
I just knew him on tik tok his smile was such a great gift. He is dancing in heaven now:)
Kelley Serva
10 January 2021
I only new Nathaniel from TikTok. I loved seeing his videos and my kids loved seeing his videos. His smile was contagious and so was his laugh. My condolences to the family and friends of Nathaniel. May he Rest In Peace.
Jennifer Lane
10 January 2021
Seeing Nathaniel on Tik tock daily made my day complete. His smile always made me smile. My sincere condolence to his family. May he rest in peace pain free. Dancing and doing everything he loves agmonst the Angels. Fly high Nathaniel you journey on earth might of ended but you spirit will live in our hearts
Liz Chrystal
10 January 2021
Only know Nathaniel from Tiktok but I loved seeing his posts and how he was progressing. God rest you Nathaniel. Condolences to your Family
Deb Ortwine
10 January 2021
Nathaniel brought me many smiles and so much joy with his dancing and singing on TicToc, that’s where I found him. Every day I will go on the app just so I could see if Nathaniel put a new video up and I was always very pleased to see a new one. He was such a wonderful person that exhibited so much happiness in what he was doing. Nathaniel you will be missed greatly, it’s going to take time to get used to not seeing your smile.
Alex Bomar
10 January 2021
Hey. Wanted to send my condolences and say I’m just so sorry for this happening. I found Nathaniel through Tiktok and I enjoy watching his dancing videos! His videos always made me smile because he was just so happy. So sorry to see him go but I know he is out of this pain now. All the best to his mother and family.💜💜🙏🏽
Johan Aikema
10 January 2021
My prayers are for you and Nathaniel . I will remember hun as a bright star. He will be there in My memory such.
Clary arroyo
10 January 2021
My condolences 💐 for the family I always going to remember Nathaniel happy young man always love to dance and be happy R.i.p Nathaniel
Brenda Tinerella
10 January 2021
My prayers for comfort to Nathaniel's family. Nathaniel was a bright light with a beautiful spirit and will be greatly missed, even by those of us who only knew him from his videos. My heart is with you all. I wish you peace and memories of the joyful times. Rest in peace Nathaniel and thank you for bringing joy to our world.
Amy Dunn
10 January 2021
My favorite memory is when Mikie and Nathaniel were in the hospital together we would meet in the Zone and they would hang out together. We miss you, but I am so happy that you are not suffering any more. I hope that you are dancing in heaven and talking everyone's ears off.
Becky Gordon
9 January 2021
My favorite memorie is Matty jumping off your bed into your paw patrol saying deranimo. Then uncle Nanial yelling WHAT A MESS. 💜💜💜💜💜
Marteen Guardiola
9 January 2021
For some reason one day out of nowhere back in our younger days Nathaniel decided that I was “Taco”. It stuck throughout his incredible life. I’m going to miss him and his exceptional personality. Taco loves you very much buddy. Tell Nana I say hi.
Kathy Lodato
9 January 2021
Nathaniel your memories will live on in everyone's heart that you touched. May your parents, family and friends find comfort knowing you are not in pain anymore.
REST IN HEAVENLY PEACE
Tracy Boyer
9 January 2021
My dearest nephew what can i say, your laughter has always been so welcoming to me in my many dark days im goimg to miss u and my happy birthday wish on my birthday, ty for the many smiles and laughter u have given
I love ya buddy see u soon
Love
Aunt tracy in Pa