Dear Connie, 
We are cousins from NY. My father was first cousins w/ Jeff's great grandmother Carmella. When Frank and her got married at first they stayed w/ my father Pat Volino's parents. He would like to send his condolences. Please send me an address to contact you at. You can email me at Rhoda6656@aol.com. I'm Marguerite Volino Hill. We are the Volino's from Carle Place. God bless!! '

Oh Jeff, I still can't believe you are gone. I am so grateful that I got to see you for a little while when you were in NY last fall. We certainly had some crazy times together over many years. We also had some great talks and so many laughs. Even if we didn't see each other for awhile, when we did, we just picked up where we left off, like no time had passed. 

I know how much having children meant to you and your sons were lucky to have a dad like you, if even for a short time. And although you should still be here on earth, heaven is lucky to have you. I'm sure God has many things you can help him out with!

I know you have a lot of people to look out for down here from up above, but if you ever have any extra "guardian angel" time, I would feel very honored to have you watch over me.
I will never forget you, Jeffrey...

Oh Jeff, I still can't believe you are gone.  I am so grateful that I got to see you for a little while when you were in NY last fall. We certainly had some crazy times together over many years. We also had some great talks and so many laughs. 
 
I know how much having children meant to you and your sons were lucky to have a dad like you, if even for a short time. And although you should still be here on earth, heaven is lucky to have you. I'm sure God has many things you can help him out with.

I know you have a lot of people to look out for down here from up above, but if you ever have any extra "guardian angel" time, I would feel very honored to have you watch over me.
I will never forget you, Jeffrey.

Connie, very few people can say that they've had a friendship that lasts a lifetime. 
Miles apart couldnt seperate a sisterhood and friendship like ours. I pray that you and i will soon be reunited and that I can be a support and comfort for you and your family. I'm sorry I couldn't be there physically but know that I'm praying for you every day. Know that your prince will always watch over you, derek and J.J.

My name is Erin Fandel and I worked with Jeff at Response Mail Express when I first moved to Florida. I didn't have many friends and the transition personally and professionally wasn't easy. Most days all it took was a smile to break me out of my shell and remind me no matter where I'm from or how uncomfortable I felt that we're all connected. Jeff was always there for me with a bright smile and boisterous laugh. He was an excellent mentor, friend, and true example of values by example of the love he gave to others most importantly his family. I didn't realize how difficult it would be to say goodbye for now. I ache for Connie and the boys and the closest friends he left behind. In his wake he left an indelible impression on me and so many. We love you Jeff.

Eulogy to Jeff (Ollie)...

JEFF (aka...Ollie) - my friend, My Great Friend, MY TRUE FRIEND...I will miss YOU more than words can ever express...

Our friendship began while playing street hockey and you were on the opposing team...that DAY clearly etched in my head for eternity...I remember you were playing defense and I was taking a shot on goal when the blade of my stick broke off, flying through the air and clipping your ear...I sent you to the hospital for stitches and never felt soo bad...my family and I, called your family - we spoke to Alice and Bill Oliver (RIP) and we were immediately drawn to them...JEFF you were OK...but what ensued thereafter was friendship and a bond that will never be broken.

We were inseparable...I truly loved being around YOU and your family as if it were my own.  
I was informally adopted by the Oliver's as a third son...I quickly became part of the Oliver family tradition...this meant the annual summer vacation, a 2 week trip to Maine.  Bill Oliver drove 9 hours to Maine overnight - we left at Midnight and arrived just in time for breakfast the next day...Bill had a very old Mercedes station wagon with over 200k miles on it - he drove with heat blowing so the car wouldn't overheat...Jeff and I listened to Lynyrd Skynyrd in the back of the car as loud as we could...with Bill yelling at us the whole time to SOFTEN the music.  What goes on in Maine, stays in Maine....but those trips and memories defined my childhood, all because I met YOU...

So much of what I do today was influenced and given to me by YOU...
You taught me to play Tennis, You introduced me to Freshwater Fishing. Southern Rock music, horse racing...early on, you seriously even thought about becoming a jockey...you were a tremendous Wrestler at 112 lbs and a great Second basemen.  We lived together and roomed together...we drank our first beer together.  We even formed a band...we played off beat and out of tune...we stunk...mainly due to me.  We borrowed â€œpermanentlyâ€ Wayne's George Carlin records and we learned a whole new vocabulary! (Those seven dirty words).  We cheated in Italian class and were caught - we were failing Geometry class but managed to finally pass the Regions Exam...we crashed your brand new black Pontiac Fiero and yes we ran from the police...Alice Oliver would pray and Bill would punish, but we never felt so ALIVE...

JEFF had a distinct way of making people feel Alive - this was one of his many talents...
Jeff's positive energy, his genuine interest in people, his ability to love, share and give - were just part of his daily routine...it was his GIFT, it came naturally to him.  And...we ALL have been blessed to experience this while being in his presence...

"Nobody can say it better than JEFF"...he had an amazing memory and he was unparalleled at storytelling; he could easily command an audience and he could generate laughter on demand.  JEFF your words so meaningful and heartfelt, I recently read them verbatim to eulogize my mother â€¦Mama Rose.  As Wayne Oliver put it in his best man speech (at Jeff and Connie's wedding) - there is only one true Orator in the family and that is JEFF.

JEFF - GOD has called for you twice now.  So who are we to stand in his way...He obviously needs your talents, your leadership, your keen ability to persuade and influence people.  There is a higher calling for you and your job in heaven will exceed what you've done here on earth.  
You've given SO MUCH too so Many...but your work is not yet done...

For those already in heaven ALICE and BILL Oliver, and Mama ROSE your presence is a blessing...For the rest of us here, you are our Guardian Angel and a crusader for God's cause.  You have not left us - but instead chose to guide us...You are now OUR spokesperson using your words and influence to clear a path to heaven for all of us.  
WE could not have asked for a better Advocate...and so, we truly thank you from the bottom of our hearts!  OLLIE you will never be forgottenâ€¦
With my love and heart felt sorrow for YOU and your FAMILY...always...your friend, Your Great Friend, YOUR TRUE FRIENDâ€¦

Lou Raimondi (akaâ€¦Raymond)

Although i have not see Jeff and Connie in a few years since they moved to Fla. I will always remember great times in the Poconos, Back yard BBQ's in Long Island,fun trips up state NY in the fall and millions of laughs over the years. Jeff and i worked next to each other for years,had lunch with him every day. He was a great recruiter. I will miss him  Gary Ferone

The first image that comes to my mind when I think of Jeff is his SMILE....he always had the brightest smile whenever I saw him and made you feel immediately accepted.   Jeff was a role model for what it meant to get involved and care about others.  I'll miss him and his smile and we wish his family my deepest sympathy.

Connie Tommy and I are so sad for the loss of Jeff. He was a great guy and will be missed by all who knew him. Tommy and Traci Horn

Jeff was an inspiration and had a gentle soul. Always had the right thing to say. He will be missed and the Raimondi's were blessed that he was a part of our lives.

Connie, Our prayers and deepest condolences go out to you and the boys. Jeff was an amazing man and father. We will miss him very much. We pray that you find comfort knowing Jeff is watching over you. With love,
Armando and Bobbi

Jeff brought so much light to my questions about balancing my love for God, time with family and working a demanding career. He inspired me to push myself and was always there for the pep talk when I needed it. I will miss forever hearing his voice and having his friendship in my life.

Connie,
"You & the boys are in our thoughts & prayers.  We will miss Jeff  and Peter & Lucas will miss him at SSK!  Your faith & strength will keep him alive!"

Cindy, Louie, Peter, & Lucas

Connie, I wanted to tell you how very sorry my family and I for your loss. Although I never got to know Jeff that well I have gotten to know you during our time at SSKIDZ. You are a strong Christian Woman,God is your strength.  I know that God will be there to get you and your boys through this difficult time. I am always available for what ever you and you boys may need. Sent with Love, Bobbie and family.

Jeff was an extraordinary friend & colleague! His genuine sincerity and support was a gift. He was a voice of inspiration and was always there to lend kind and uplifting words. It was truly a blessing from God to have known such an exceptional man!  Connie, my prayers and love are with you, JJ and Derek.

Connie, I am so sorry for your loss.  I did not know Jeff well, but we went to high school together and I was delighted to get reacquainted with him at our last high school reunion.  He shared pictures of you and the boys and I could tell from the way he spoke that his family meant everything to him.  He had a beautiful smile, a warm heart, and a contagious energy.  I hope the wonderful memories of the years you shared will sustain you in the days and years to come.  My deepest condolences.

Nadia Wagner (Plainview)

Sorry for you lost Connie  my thoughts and prayer to you and your boys

Dearest Connie,
Words can not express how sorry I am  with the loss of your husband. We have been friends for 28 years since we were in high school together. We shared good and bad times though out our high school years. I would have never expected to have to share your sorrow in the loss of your husband Jeff. My heart is heavy and my prayers for you and your two sons will never stop.  I wish I was in Florida to give you my shoulder and help you pull through this awful time.  So since I am in New York you know I am always here to give you my ears to listen and hugs for a far. You have been extremely strong throughout Jeff's struggle. Please try to stay strong, and if you can't that is okay too. My prayers and condolences are continuous for you and your family. Love your friend, Eunice

If you've never seen his smile or heard his laugh when he told a story, or felt the goodness of his heart, or the energy of his presence, if you've never seen his zest for life, his love for his wife and children, if you've never shared his belief and love of The Lord, then you've missed something very wonderful. Anyone who knew Jeff will never forget him. I will miss him and all these things that made him our Jeff. Sal De Mauro (Westchase, Fl.)

It just doesn't seem possible to live in a world without Jeff. It was an honor to know & love you, to have you as the Best  Man at our wedding & Godfather for our daughter. Your smile & witty charm will most certainly be missed but never forgotten!

I am so sorry for your sadness. i didn't know him well,but we were in the same homeroom all through high school. i do remember his smile and that he was always having a good time with friends.

We were born 10 days apart and with the same last name.   Jeff I will never forget my classmate and friend. My Brother from another Father. With my deepest condolences to you Connie and your beautiful boys.

I saw a piece called the dash... It speaks of the time between ones birth and ones death.  Jeff's "dash" had meaning. He touched those in his company just by being Jeff. The world lost a bright lite. Heaven gained a strong soul...
To yesterdays memories and tomorrow's reunion.

A great man, sales professional with a contagious smile.  You will be missed and not forgotten In our hearts

Jeff always had a smile on his face and laughter in his heart! He was filled with the joy of living -- and the joy of his family. We will miss him, especially at our Friday night fires and New Year's Eve neighborhood parties. Connie, JJ and Derek, you are in our thoughts and prayers.  Jurita & Carlos Burgos

Connie, JJ & Derek...My love, prayers and deepest condolences. Jeff was an amazing man who's generous spirit impacted so many.  Have faith that he is always with you, comforting & watching over his beautiful family.

Connie, my heart breaks for you and JJ and Derek, but my soul rejoices knowing that Jeff has found his home in Heaven.  I knew Jeff as an ever-reliable friend and a true All Pro Dad and husband, and I will always cherish the times we spent together.  I pray that you will feel God's peace and comfort during this difficult time...now and forever.

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

On behalf of the Machado & DeOliveira family we send our deepest condolences to Connie, JJ, Derek & Oliver Family.  
Connie I Pray that God bring you peace during this very difficult time.
Please know that we will be here for you with whatever you need.
Jeff, you will be missed so much.....thank you for always listening with a caring heart.....May God bless you and keep you.  xo

It broke our hearts to lose Jeff
But he didn't go alone
For all our love went with him
The day God called Jeff home.

As we celebrate a life well lived and a man well loved, may his family take comfort knowing a special angel watches over them.  God's blessings.

We feel blessed to have the Oliver Family in our lives.  Jeff was a very generous soul that never met a stranger. We will miss him deeply but know in our hearts that you, JJ and Derek now have your Guardian Angel to watch over you. May God help console you and the boys during this difficult time. We love you.

What an amazing man, dad, and father! He will be missed greatly by all who knew him. Praying for peace and comfort for you sweet Connie, and those wonderfully fun boys of yours!

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

RIP Jeff. I know you will always watch over your amazing Connie, JJ and Derek. You loved them so much and they adored you. You will certainly be missed here on earth... But Heaven has gained an incredible angel!

Dear Friends, I am so sorry for your loss.  May your sorrow turn to joy as you reminisce in the many memories of your life on earth together, knowing that you will be together again for all eternity.  Love knows no end.

Connie,
You and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers. Jeff was a wonderful person and friend. May God bless you, give you peace and keep you strong.

Our condolences to the entire family. Jeff was an inspiration to all who knew him.

May God bring peace to your heart during this difficult time.
The Orosz Family

Connie- we send all our love to you and the boys. We are heartbroken and will aways remember Jeff as an amazing friend who loved his wife and kids with all his heart. We are here for you. The Higgins Family.

Jeff was a wonderful person, full of life, great sense of humor, giant Yankee fan, wonderful father and husband and a really great co-worker. He always took the time to ask about my kids and how my life was going. He took a minute to mention the Yankee game and to make me laugh. I worked with him for 15 years. I'm so sorry for the Oliver family, for his wife and his sons. Jeff was a really great guy and he's gone too young. May his family find peace during this very difficult time. My prayers are with you.

Dear Connie, I will always remember what a great story teller Jeff was for the Marina kids at church.  You guys were a great team and provided many smiles to so many preschoolers faces and my own.  Love to you and the boys, Kari, Alex, Mason and Chase Grassia

Connie - Our sincere love to you and your boys, especially during this heartbreaking transition time. Ron and Elinor Carlson

OBITUARY

Jeffrey A Oliver

4 December, 1960 – 6 June, 2014

Sylvan Abbey Memorial Park & Funeral Home

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