Tito Bani - wherever you are, we were all truly blessed that you came into our life.  My mom cannot ask for a better husband and partner.  I am truly sorry about this tragedy but I know you are in a place where you are in peace.  We love you.

I have known Tito Bay for more than 10 years. Our family was in a state of turmoil then since our dad had just passed away in early 2000. He helped our family get back on our feet. From my mother and my 3 sisters, we have grown to be strong women ready to face the world. He brought light to our family and this light will stay with us. He was very kind and patient. He never hesitated to help anyone. He was very hospitable and always thought of others. When I came to the US in 2002, I lived with my mom, my youngest sister and him for at least 1 year. We were the midnight society since we would all stay up late til midnight and watch tv. He drove me to Atascadero (at least a couple of hours away) so that I could take my physical therapy exam. He even paid for my exam. We spent many vacations together after I moved to New York. He never introduced me and my sisters as his step daughters but always just daughters. The greatest gift he gave us was his love for my mother. He went out of his way to make her happy. I will miss you. ---Joy-Joy

Always so thoughtful and kind. You will truly be missed.

I remembered Mr Bay bring to the office a lechon when we have a party, and he served the lechon to everybody. He' so warm, so kind, and so generous. I miss him a lot. May he rest in peace.

Condolences to Mr. Duque's family. You are in our thoughts and prayers especially during this difficult time. God Bless.

Tito Bay is a kind and thoughtful person. He always carry that cheerfulness whenever and wherever you meet him.Rest in peace tito Bay!

Although I only had a few opportunities to spend time with Mr. Bay it was obvious what a kind and considerate man he was to family, friends, and strangers alike. He was always very thoughtful and considerate, wanting everyone to feel comfortable and at home. I consider myself lucky to have known him. He will be sorely missed by all. God bless you.

In just a short time of knowing you, you are a very kind and funny person to talk to. I will missed all those funny joke whenever you walks into the office. You will truly be remember Mr. Bay. Rest in peace.

Mr. Bay I will truly miss you. The funny converstions we shared will I forever cherish in my heart. I truly admire the warmth of your heart to all people you met. I look forward for the day when we met in heaven.

Kuya Bay is a very kind and considerate man.  Even for a short time we know him yet he will be  missed for a long time.  We will always remember him in our heart.

Mr. Bay was probably, if not, the sweetest guy I've met in a long time and we only spoke a few times whenever he was in the office. There was just something about him that if you were having a bad day you would be able to see his smile and your attitude and mood would change. He was very understanding and loving. The short time that I have known him I know I will miss him very much and hope to see him again one day. Rest in Peace Mr. Bay.

It was a Christmas gathering at Mr. & Mrs. Duque's residence when I experienced the warmth of this couple's heart. His thoughtfulness, kindness, an sincerity was very tangible then. I felt so welcomed and belonged so instantly.  
He showed me his beautiful place of escape - a Japanese themed bahay kubo ( a cottage) where he explained how it was thoughtfully made.  He spent this time with me that I cannot forget. A wonderful man he was.

Mr Bay was one of a kind, he was a great man always so caring, you'll be missed. Rest  In Peace.

Mr Bay was a very thoughtful and kind boss. He brought smiles to all of us in the office with the yummy goodies he always shared. He was a good man with a big heart. We will surely miss him. Rest in peace, Mr Bay!

OBITUARY

Bayani G. Duque

25 June, 1940 – 6 October, 2015

Boice Funeral Home

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