 I have so many wonderful memories of Carol. I just love seeing her bright smile every time I came to their house. Carol would always come out in her wheelchair with a big smile on her face giving everybody a big hug. The first time I ever went to Missy’s house, before I even knew Carol.  I told Missy that there was a lady sitting in her driveway in a van. Missy said “oh yeah that’s just my mom, she’s hiding in the car smoking and she doesn’t think I know “.  We just laughed and laughed. I know that it’s weird to say but some of our best times together have been in the ER.   Carol would come to the hospital because of her illness and she would always tell me “Ohh don’t tell Missy I’m here”.   She knew Missy was busy and she didn’t want to bother her.  Missy has a lot of acquaintances and friends at Kaiser ER,  and poor Carol could never get away with anything.  Missy  was always by her moms side at a drop of a hat.  Missy took such good care of her mom,  whatever Carol needed Missy made sure she had it. I never heard Missy complain  about the  daily routine of caring for her mom,  the sleepless nights,  and all the runs to the doctors and Emergency Rooms.  Despite having her busy career and family of her own  Missy would not have changed a thing, she loved her mom so much . Even though Carol was sick and in the Emergency Room, she would always be joking and laughing and really just making the best of the situation. One day   Carol came in the ER and was placed on strict fluid restriction, and all she wanted was a cup of coffee which she was not supposed to have.  But loving her as I do, I told her I would bring her one. So I brought her in a cup of coffee  just as I said I would, but it was in a medicine size cup,  it was so funny.  Although it was kind of a joke , she  was so grateful  even though it was only a few tablespoons. All of the girls really loved seeing Carol, She was our greatest VIP.  She will be missed so much by so many. We love you carol.  

We first met Carol 20 years ago, and became fast friends from the start.  Because of distance (we live in the Seattle area), we didn't visit as often as we would have liked, but we visited her in Clovis several times, and she visited us here numerous times.  Long conversations always included children, grandchildren, gambling, flowers, and politics.  Carol's enduring qualities included a loving, caring concern for others, and a brutal honesty (she always told it like she saw it).  When she visited here we always enjoyed the long conversations and card games (boy did she enjoy playing cards!) into the night, and the trips to the nearby casino.
She was a woman of strong fortitude who never let the obstacles in life hold her back.  She simply overcame and kept moving forward.
We will truly miss Carol.  May she rest peacefully in God's hands.


I am so sorry for the loss of your mom.  Carol was such a beautiful, loving. caring mom, grandma, g-grandma, and friend.  She could light up the room with her smile and laughter and Carol had a heart of gold.  I will truly miss our fun play dates.  For all she went through, she was always concerned for the other person in her loving caring way. 
Love and hugs 

I knew Carol as Missy’s mum, and I would call her “mum” too, which she loved.  She was always happy and welcoming no matter what she was going through.  I would receive the best hug and smile from her just as I would from my own mum. Our conversations were always heart warming and we talked about anything and everything.  She was the best mum and grandmother.  She will truly be missed.  

Carol, 
You were a kind giving soul. I felt your love and gentle spirit. I can still hear your laughter, remembering the wonderful times we shared and the things we accomplished in that wonderful season of our lives together.  18-2 Baby!! =)   We did it!  And, You never missed a game.  We were a great team, made up of a bunch of fun characters and very good ball players.  All the great memories are there in my heart, my friend - along with the pizza and beer after the games.  I pass by the ball field on the way to Fairgrounds once a year and think of you and the others.  Thanks for all your love and support. Thanks for being there for us as a fan, friend, and mom.  You made a difference in all our lives.

Well done friend.
Forever yours,
Art Arreola.

Oh, Mom, words can never describe your love, but I would be lost without writing.  What do I say?  From the beg you told me as a first born that you were so happy I was a "girl", you were so excited!  My biggest regret was not accepting an invitation as a Fresno State softball player to try out with my teammates for the USA Olympic softball team.  I quit over a boy I dated and I would have made it!  You were right. I would so redo this part of my life today if I could.
And then I was blessed to have your first Grandchild Brandon/Avery in 1985. And Avery is beautiful in every way! I'm so glad they got to attend one of your chemos with you in a special way!  And I'm so glad you got to ask about the differences in everyone's lives in your blunt funny spirited ways,  like you always do!
Although it was a rough pregnancy, you were there at every PN visit at the end after I moved home from Nursing school and you and Dad made a home for me and attended every Lamaze class. My prize was your prize! And then I met Kevin on a blind date and we were engaged early 1987! Even after I had to cancel a 2nd date with him as you had Urgent Brain Aneurysm Surgery! He always thought I dumped him the hard way! But no, the night before our 32nd Anniversary you met your creator- June 5, 2019. 
We then began living in the East Bay and we did not see you as much until we moved back for and were so lucky to move next door to you and Dad.  The everyday visits were great, the holidays, from you making the "Bunny Rabbit" marks with your teeth to hiding eggs with you and Dad betw two properties, Halloween hunting the neighborhood, fun Halloween parties and of course Thanksgiving and Xmas at either home for our relatives.
And Derek too was so loved by you.  You attended every childs award that you could, and he loved going next door to help you or Gpa Earl. That's why he is the Army Medic he is today.
I miss calling you, cherish your old msgs, but esp your yearly bday song to us all!


I am heart broken.  My Auntie was one of the best.    She always made me feel so loved.  When I was little she let me help her with her All-star softball team.  I would help carry bats, ice chests and general stuff.  She made me feel grown up by allowing me to help.  When I had a business, she would frequently have dinner at the chinese food place next to my business.  She always made a point to stop by and give me a hug and a kiss.  I would introduce her to all my customers and she would make them all laugh.  Some of my customers thought it was odd, for a 50 year old man,  to introduce her as my "Auntie".  But she was and always will be my sweet, funny, kind Auntie Carol.  All my love to the family.

Dear Lord,
We pray for the Jefford/Montes Family. May the Power of the Holy Spirit bring each of them Peace, Courage, Comfort, and Strength during this difficult time. Carol, aka "Granny", as her family lovingly called her was a Special STRONG woman and will be missed by ALL.  I ask for special prayers for Granny's roommates, Missy & the girls ♡. There is no doubt that the change in their everyday routine will be emotional /difficult.  May their Faith  & fond memories, and the love of their family and friends help fill their emptiness. 
May Ms. Carol  Sue Jefford Rest in Peace - Amen

I met Carol on a cruise 8 years ago and she treated me just like family one thing I remember about her is her smile and her laughter she could feel the room, she was a hugger too. I will always remember her and whenever I think of her I will have a smile I love you too Carol

First, I will miss you Auntie. I’m so glad you could see my kids grow up ❤️! I’m so glad you and my mom stayed so close all these years! I love you!

I remember...

When Stephanie and I were 16 and you took us “cruising down Belmont” which was the coolest thing to do EVER! And we got pulled over by the cops!! THEN you took us to “TP” someone’s house!!! It was AWESOME!!! If you weren’t with us I would have been in SO much trouble!😉💕

When I had my brand new driver’s license and you trusted me to drive your camper-laden truck to the drive-in and back! Your trust meant a lot and gave me confidence!


Carol's mother and my mother were sisters. So we were cousins. Carol's mother passed away at only 32 leaving 4 children.Carol becoming a young mother figure for her younger brother and sister.She was about 6 yrs older than I so to me she was an adult 12 or 13. She loved to dance and sing and she was pretty good....she seemed to know all the words. Carol can sing and dance again..save a dance for us and keep singing and dancing...I love you cuz

Carol always loved & supported her family.  From attending games, celebrating life at parties, playing cards, buying them gifts, laughter, giving wise advice & a listening ear.  A beautiful woman who will be dearly missed.  

Her last text message to me was that she wanted to get together for Happy Hour with the girls sometime soon 😘


Mom...Where do I begin? I miss you being here. I miss our morning coffee.  I miss throwing away 10 of the dozen donuts you just bought because somehow you said it’s cheaper to buy a dozen than just 2 or 3? You were so funny, I know I got my wit from you! I love you mom...always and forever! Cheers to you until we can share our next cup of coffee ☕️

I can  truthfully say that when Carol came to my shop she always had a positive attitude even though she had a lot of heath issues but she never focused on what she was dealing with  she always wanted to find out what I had been doing and of course we talked about her girls and Grandchildren. I’ve been doing Carol’s hair for at least 20 years and when she would drive up if I didn’t see her she would all by herself get out and take her wheelchair out of the car and then wheel herself up a small ramp with only one leg that to me was amazing she  definitely was a fighter all the way  she loved  playing cards and she was exceptionally generous to me and I’m sure to her family.  I will miss her and I will miss that positive attitude she always had.  I would say she was a genuine down-to-earth person who never put on airs or pretended she was anything but her true self  she was always a great friend to me.  I will always remember you Carol 

Dear Jefford Family, 

I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences and prayers to all of you in this sad time.  I met Carol playing poker at Bill's house awhile ago.  She was so sweet and funny.  I didn't know her very well and only saw her once every few months, but she was always nice to me.  I had a great time playing Hold'em alongside her.  This news breaks my  heart.  She will be missed.

You are now flying with the angles Carol and you will be missed. Rest in Peace and we will be playing poker again. 


Where do I begin, so many beautiful wonderful memories. From our red hat outings to playing countless bunco games. Always brought a smile to all around. She taught how to be strong & loving women. She made laugh like no other... she called me her “other Granddaughter” and I loved being for her. I loved her very much ❤️

Girls I’m truly sorry for this Hugh loss. Your momma was always so good to me.  She had such A strong need to learn and educate herself. Great role model, and I understand a Great grandmother. Which is a really hard hit for those kids. She has the biggest heart and quite a story teller, in a good way. I will truly miss you you were a good sister friend ❤️
Love Cindy

My sweet second Mom always had a smile and a story to tell, I do remember once heading up to the casino with just her and I,  just so she could earn points for the weekend ahead plans she had with her sister.  She had me laughing the entire time, I felt like family and Mom always made me feel warm and fuzzy.   Wonderful memories I will always Cherish ...... Till we meet again Mama..     Love You  Val

There’s only one way to remember Granny and that’s being my spade partner. The memories we shared will forever be cherished. I’m very sorry Missy. I’m here for you. Love 

I remember Granny when
You used to bring her to soccer games. One particular game was at Clovis East and she was in the bathroom joking around about the toilet paper left on her wheelchair. I loved that she always was up for soccer.  

Dear Jefford Family,

My deepest and sincere sympathy to all of you.  We are like cousins and of course your mom is Auntie Carol to me.   She always had a hug, a kiss and a "I love you" every time I saw her.  I have many memories going back over 40 years.  I remember the first time your mom offered to babysit us when you still lived in Corona, and we were horrible brats!   I loved playing in all of the make-up and of course will never forget when your mom made me soupy burgers because I was a picky eater.  She was so happy that I liked something she made.   I know how much your mom loved listening to live music and I loved doing that with her over the years when we had to opportunity.  

Much love,

Cindy Emerson (Lyden)

Our condolences to the Jefford family.   Our heart is broken and very sad for your loss as well as ours.   We are life long friends and have shared many memories.   We will always treasure the times going camping, to the movies, the "dances" in our garage,  gambling, tea parties and massages.   The girl trip to wine country  (just Carol and Charlotte) and all of our sisterly secrets will stay with us. 

We love you all,

Charlotte & Jack Lyden

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Carol Sue Jefford

3 March, 1945 – 5 June, 2019

Boice Funeral Home

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