
Ken’s life was a quiet testament to what steady effort and determination can build. He dropped out of high school 11th grade, then went to Pasadena City College in his mid - twenties. He graduated from UCLA in 2000 and earned his masters degree in 2004. He carried that hard-won journey with humility, and it became one of the most inspiring gifts he offered others: proof that it is never too late to begin again, and never too late to go farther. Much of his calling was rooted in love for his Gram, Aleitha Bearse, whose influence helped shape his long-held dream of becoming a teacher.
Teaching was not simply what Ken did—it was how he showed care. Named Teacher of the Year in 2007, he poured himself into the work with a devotion that never seemed to fade. He adored his continuation students at Mountain Vista and felt grateful to have spent the last 20 years teaching there. He was deeply involved in his students’ lives, urging them to reach beyond what they thought was possible. He would remind them, again and again, that he was living evidence that a person can return, rebuild, and rise. In a gesture that captured both his warmth and his belief in them, he challenged students by offering to take them to lunch for every certification, degree, or diploma they earned—celebrating their resilience with genuine pride.
His Superintendent, Todd Lile, wrote this excerpt about Ken. "...Ken joined Madera Unified in 2005. While many educators find their footing in traditional settings, Ken knew exactly where he belonged from the start: Alternative Education. For over two decades, he served as a teacher of Social Science and Art at Mt. Vista, but his true title was far greater. He was a champion for the underserved, a mentor to the discouraged, and a believer in the "genius in waiting" within every student who walked through his door. Ken’s belief was clear - confidence is the bridge to the future. He understood that for many of his students, self-expression through art and a connection to history were not just academic exercises—they were tools for building an identity... For Ken, graduation was a milestone, but his true mission was restoring a student’s belief in themselves... He was a fierce advocate when a student’s needs were on the line, yet he possessed the quiet calm to listen when a student simply needed to be heard."
Twenty-six years ago, Ken and Kim began dating, and they eventually tied the knot, sharing 21 years of married bliss. In the life they built together, love was steady and present—found in the everyday adventures. Chandler Spain and Logan Spain were, as Ken saw it, the best additions to his life, and he held that joy close.
Ken’s days were filled with the things that made him feel most himself. He loved playing guitar and spent many hours as an avid World of Warships player when he wasn’t cooking, BBQ-ing, He kept a vast and beautiful vinyl collection, and his love of art and history ran deep—so deep that he taught it, and even found ways to honor his students’ creativity by incorporating it into some of his pieces. Eclectic in taste and open in spirit, he seemed to find something to appreciate in just about everything. He loved the beach, surfing, camping, and driving 4x4 trails with Kim and friends—meeting life with a forward-leaning energy that made even ordinary moments feel like they mattered.
He was beloved by many; his friends and colleagues especially cherished his vibrant personality. Long before he became a teacher his closest childhood friends wrote a song about him “Sickels” (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-DV5WCqjg8&list=RDZ-DV5WCqjg8&start_radio=1—a). A tribute that says something true about the way he stayed with people.
Ken is survived by his wife, Kim Sickels; his son, Chandler Spain; his grandson, Logan Spain; his sister, Lisa Sickels; and his mother, Carol Brittell (nee Bearse). He was preceded in death by his beloved Gram, Aleitha Bearse and his father Ronald Floyd Sickels. Ken is also survived by many friends, co-workers, and students who will remember his kindness for years to come.
FAMILY
Kim SickelsWife
Chandler SpainSon
Logan SpainGrandson
Lisa SickelsSister
Carol BrittellMother
Aleta BearseGram (deceased)
Ken is also survived by many friends, co-workers, and students who will remember his kindness for years to come.
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