He was born on March 22, 1956, in Indianapolis, IN, graduated from Fort Zumwalt High School, and was an Air Force veteran. He was a creative spirit and, to those who knew him, a Fish out of Water. He will be missed. Tom is survived by his son, Shawn Thomas (Dora) Hayden, and his grandchildren, Crystal Hayden, Katie (Jon) Chung, and Shawn Thomas Hayden, Jr. He was preceded in death by his father, Paul H. Hayden, and his mother, Eileen M. Hayden, both of Columbia, MO.