Quyen Thi Nguyen

Kinh thua quy Thay, kinh thua quy Ni Su,

Kinh thua quy vi chu Tang cung Ban Ho Niem Chua Quan Am,

Kinh thua quy ba con, co bac xa gan,

Thua cac anh, cac chi,

Su hien dien ngay hom nay cua quy vi da lam cho gia dinh chung toi vo cung xuc dong.

Su hien dien nay da noi len duoc tinh thuong ma quy vi da danh cho ba Nguyen thi Quyen, khi thanh lap gia dinh thi thuong duoc goi la ba Long, da vua moi tu tran vao luc 5h00 sang ngay 15 thang 4 nam 2011, nham ngay 13 thang 3 nam Tan Mao.

Gia dinh chung toi toan the: chi, em, con, dau, re, chau cua nguoi qua co xin tri an tam long quy bau cua quy vi da danh thoi gio den tham vieng, an ui va tien dua nguoi than yeu cua chung toi lan cuoi cung.

Trong su dau buon mat mat nguoi than yeu, kinh mong quy vi vui long luong thu nhung su thieu sot neu co.

Kinh thua Ma,

Gio day chung con, nhung dua con cua Ma, con sinh, con nuoi, con duong, u thi con nao cung la con nhu loi ma day, dua nao Ma cung thuong ngang nhau het. Chung con xin ghi lai day mot phan nhung hinh anh dep, nhung tanh tinh va nhung ky niem ngay nao Ma da danh cho chung con.

Cuoc doi cua Ma sao day day nhung lo lang. Ma lo cho tat ca moi nguoi ma lai quen lo lay cho minh. Niem vui trong cuoc song cua Ma chi khi nao nhin thay duoc moi nguoi xung quanh minh deu duoc an toan, khong chi mieng an mieng mac, ma con ca hanh phuc gia dinh.

Cuoc doi cua Ma da danh cho chong con cua minh.

Ngay Ma lap gia dinh da roi que ngoai, theo chong ve Saigon. Ma ra di voi 2 ban tay trang, mong co the lap nghiep va co ngay tro ve tham mo, tham anh chi em cua minh voi chut dinh qua cap cho co tam long. Nhung ngay dau kho khan khong thieu, Ba Noi kinh yeu cua chung con cung chi 1 than 1 minh, buon ban lam an, cong them vao dong luong cua Ba moi nuoi duoc cac chau cua Ba. Ba cung vay, cung thuong cac con cac chau cua Ba lam, buon tao, ban tan, thuc khuya, day som, ha tien ha tan tung dong, moi xoay so cho qua thang ngay. The thi cuoi thang, Ma cung chang co duoc dong nao de vat tui ma ve que. Ma khong keu nai tieng nao het. Hoi do Ma cua chung con ngheo lam - ngheo tien nhung tinh thuong, bon phan va su kien nhan Ma khong thieu.

The roi Troi thuong tanh Ma hien lanh, phuc hau nen duoc ben chong thuong men. Me chong thuong nhu con ruot, em chong kinh men chi dau. Mot dieu chi Hai, hai dieu chi Long, roi thi chi Ca voi tat ca long thanh ma chung con da cam nhan qua nhung tiep xuc trong suot thoi gian o canh Ma.

Sau nhung ngay vat va, sau nhung ngay gan nhu tuyet vong, sanh con muon man, nuoc mat da do nhieu trong dem. Troi thuong nen dan dan Ma da co duoc mot mai am gia dinh. Mot dua, roi dua thu 2, roi dua thu 3 ra doi, song 2 dua mot luc.

Ma bat dau lam banh giup chong nuoi con. Ma lam viec hoai khong chiu nghi tay. Lam duoc dong tien nen cuoc song kha gia hon. Ma bo cong lam, Ba lo to chuc. Ma da lam tron bon phan lam vo cho den ngay Ba nham mat lia tran. Ai cung noi rang Ba that co phuoc, co duoc 1 nguoi vo dam dang. Cac con duoc song trong su sung tuc, khong phai lo nghi ngoai chuyen an hoc cho nen nguoi.

Cho mai co lan nhin thay Ma cam chay gia bot ma 2 mi mat sup xuong luc nao khong hay, the nhung tay thi van gia. Roi thi nhung dem binh hoan, ai la nguoi thuc giac canh khuya? Chung con chot hieu the nao la tinh Me lo cho con. Con di hoc xa nha, Ma viet thu tham tung dua, nhac nho cach an cach o cho phai dao lam nguoi. Con cua minh Ma nuoi Ma day, roi chau cua minh Ma cung nhac nho tung loi, song con cua ban, Ma cung thay mat cuoi vo ga chong. Lam sao chung con co the quen duoc. Tinh cua Ma la the do. He dua nao can den Ma, muon giang hoa, muon tam su, muon huong dan hoac muon giup do gi thi Ma co do. Tinh yeu Ma danh cho chung con da lam cho chung con duoc truong thanh theo nam thang. Chung con biet noi gi de cam ta cong an nay.

Cuoc song cua Ma dau chi gioi han voi chong con khong dau? Cuoc song dinh lien voi ca 1 dai gia dinh. Cac anh chi em ruot cua Ma, anh re, chi dau, em dau, anh ho, em ho ben Ma, ben chong. Roi cac anh chi em ba con nua, ho hang xa gan, nguoi o duoi que, ke o thanh thi. Ma nho khong thieu mot nguoi nao ca. Ma la quyen tu dien song khi chung con muon tim hieu quan he ba con giong ho Noi Ngoai nha minh. Ma rat thuong cac anh chi em cua Ba va cua Ma, nhac hoai cac Di, cac Cau, cac Chu, cac Thiem. Noi lo au cua cac anh chi em cua minh cung la cua Ma. Ma san se nhung gi minh co duoc, tu vat chat cho den tinh than, su hieu biet cua minh cho cac em, cac chau khong he dau giem gi het.

Bai hoc Ma da day cho chung con - anh chi em song voi nhau phai hoa thuan va thuong yeu giup do lan nhau - da in dam vao trai tim cua moi dua con cua Ma.

Cu tuong rang cuoc song se em dem troi qua theo nam thang nhung roi thoi the thay doi. Mot dua em va 3 dua con cung vao tu 1 luc khi di vuot bien nhung nam 1978-1979. Nhung chuoi ngay lo lang khien cho Ba tro nen tram lang hon, con Ma thi toc bac trong dem. Vi tuong lai cua nhung dua con cua minh, Ma chap nhan theo chong va con sang dat My. Ngay roi que huong, xa dai gia dinh, xa anh em, xa giong ho, xa noi chon nhau cat run, Ma lai khoc nhieu lam. Ma ra di nhung khong thay duoc ngay ve.

Ngay ay tuong nhu rang Ma da mat han nu cuoi. Day cuong nghi, Ma da vuot qua duoc nhung mat mat lon lao trong doi minh, su nghiep lam ra da tan thanh may khoi trong 1 khoanh khac thoi gian ngan. Hoc lai tieng My tu dau, khong 1 can ban thi lam sao cho vo dau. The ma Ma cung da dat duoc bang thi vao quoc tich moi hay chu. Bay gio xu la que nguoi, Ma hoi nhap duoc cuoc song moi, tham gia cac hoi doan, gap duoc nhung ban moi tot, cung hoan canh nen thuong yeu nhau nhieu lam. Cac con cua Ma da co duoc su nghiep vung vang. Ma co 1 dieu mong uoc cac con minh quay quan song xung quanh cho co chau noi chau ngoai chay toi chay lui cho vui nha. Niem vui khong duoc tron ven, con cua Ma moi dua 1 noi. Chung con hy vong voi su hop mat hang nam, voi tieng cuoi dua tuy rang trong nhung khoang thoi gian ngan ngui, chung con da dang len cho Ma phan nao su thieu sot ma thoi gian va khong gian da lam cho gia dinh minh xa cach.

Gio phut thieng lieng nay, chung con cau xin sao cho linh hon cua Ma duoc ra di that thanh thoi, khong con vuong van gi nua trong cuoc song nay. Su binh an se o voi Ma mai mai.Nhung dua con cua Ma se tiep tuc noi theo guong cua Ma ma song, ma day do cho con chau doi sau va nhung doi sau nua.

Cac con cua Ma.

In Memory of Quyen Thi Nguyen

Mrs. Quyen Nguyen was born on August 19, 1926 at Dong Son, Go Cong, South Viet Nam. Her spirit finally decided to reemerge into her non-physical being on April 15, 2011 (as known as March 13th year of the Rabbit) at the age of 86. She passed away in a so comfortable, quick and easy way we have ever seen. It feels so ease, it feels so warm, and it feels so peaceful when seeing her body lying down there on her bed at her house: relax, relax, relax, sleep and die.

Being the fifth in the family of seven kids, she is the most wonderful and beautiful daughter. She was married at 27, had an unbelievable easy going husband, four amazing girls and one magnificent boy. As time by past, now three handsome son-in-laws, one wonderful daughter-in-law, three beautiful grand-daughters and two powerful grand-sons were added in the family tree. She was always proud of being able to fulfill the role of a responsible, caring, loving daughter, daughter-in-law, wife, mother and grandmother.

Her whole life is always caring and giving. She loves to give and she loves to give – no matter who. Not only that, she is a very good cook. She made yummy dishes. She baked delicious cookies. She was creative in designing cake. Anyone whom she had once interacted with, all said the same thing about her: hospitable, generous, an lovable. Her life is like that: Giving … without asking anything in return. For the last seven years, she is truly able to sit back to allow the love and care from everyone flow to her and thru her. She deserves to receive what she has done.

Her funeral will be held on Thursday, April 21st, 2011 from 8:00 am to 8:00 pm

Friday, April 22nd,, 2011 from 9:00 am to 1:00 pm

at Harbor Lawn-Mount Olive 1625 Gisler Avenue, Costa Mesa, California 92626

(714) 540-5554

Arrangements under the direction of Harbor Lawn-Mt. Olive Memorial Park & Mortuary, Costa Mesa, CA.