All I can see when I remember Caitlin, was her smile. Sometimes a shy smile, sometimes a mischievous smile, sometimes a full-face smile. I like to remember her that way because smiles are contagious.... so I remember and I smile, even though my heart aches. Thank you for smiling, sweet Caitlin.

I dreamt about Caitlin last night.  Something I never expected to do. 

 We were driving down a country road. She was behind the wheel and we were flying!  Too fast for me but she was confident and having fun. We were chatting and lamenting the fact that we were no longer neighbours. We were both very aware that she was only "visiting " but she was happy.  

I hope she visits you all as well and that her spirit can give you peace. Love to all.

You were a great light, capable and calm in the face of stress and storms. Your smiles and capable support will be remembered like the spark of the rare and endearing life you held.  Blessings for peace to your mom and dad and family.  I will miss you too although only knowing you for brief moments over time, your spirit was always shining, and unforgettable.

Caitlin ... your beautiful smile and your wonderful soul will be missed greatly by so many people.  I didn't spend as much time with you as Kiefer, Courtney and Rebecca did, but what time I was in your presence, you always brought a big smile on my face.  Miss you now and always sweet girl. R.I.P.

When my girls were born I felt immediate and distinct emotions for each one that I continue to identify with them and always will.  Unconditional Love was something I had only experienced as the tremendous love and support always given to me by my parents.  The moment Caitlin was born, the overwhelming love that I felt for her left me with the defining emotion for her called Love.  This may seem an obvious statement but to me unconditional love is always present with your children this word meant something more to me it was Caitlin.  Courtney represents Joy in my heart and Cassidy is my Laughter along with the love I have always felt for them both.  These are not the only emotions I feel for them, of course, but they are words I believe God gave me and this has been continually reinforced by them as they've grown.

When I received the call that I never imagined ever receiving, my world changed.  Life has become before and after.  It will never be worse nor will it ever get easier.   The agony of being separated from my girl is drowning me but the strength and love for and from God, Darryl, Courtney and Cassidy keep my head above water.  Even as I cried out Why  I prayed to God for a sense of her presence.  I begged for a moment more of her spirit to comfort and surround me.  How does this feel  how do we know  will any of it help.  Nothing brings you to your knees faster than losing one that you were blessed to bring into the world.  

Last Sunday, we had a comforting day sharing stories about Caitlin with dear family friends and this happened.  Caitlin was given a book from my sister on birds and she spent hours with her dad looking for them (this was not a passion she inherited from either of us).  Grandma Chalk had a bush in her backyard in Victoria that was so amazing at attracting hummingbirds and Caitlin adored them.  Despite some attempts to plant things in our gardens in Nanaimo and here  we haven't seen one in years.  Yet, as we were talking about Caitlin's obsession with birdwatching as a youngster  out the front window we were stunned to see a hummingbird hovering over a hanging basket.   I was overcome with such peace and happiness  it is very hard to put into words.  This was not a one-time event we have had another visit this week while the same family was at our home helping to prepare for this weekend.
I share this with you so may know that while the ache will never go away, while we miss her every moment since she has left us.  We have faith that she is with God, she is with us, she will be our angel and look after us from above.  Her nurturing love will comfort us and God will find ways to allow her to share her presence in our lives in the little day-to-day moments that we can all treasure.  
Today we remember you Caitlin, today we honor you.  Forever we will love you, forever you will be young.
Caitlin, love, don't you cry,
Caitlin, love, close your eyes,
Rest your head, close to my heart, never to part.
Caiti my love

Love Mommy

My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of loss and deep sorrow. I am sending you a hug from afar,With much love, Auntie Cath

Beverly and Darryl, Barb and Carl, and all your family, Mark and I just heard of the loss of Caitlin today from Gord. We are so sorry and pray for your comfort and healing. Thank you for sharing the beautiful photos. May your memories and faith sustain you until you meet again. Your cousins from Victoria.

Oh my dear Caitlin,
You brought such joy into everyones path you crossed.  Always smiling is how I will remember you, Caitlin.  We had our little jokes together and always a laugh.  You are missed deeply but not forgotten.  Rest in Peace, Beautiful.
Nancy Gill - Your Thrifty's Crew Mate

I will  miss  your smile  I  will miss you

I'm so sorry for you loss. Caitlin worked for me at Thrifty Foods in Victoria and was such a vibrant and friendly girl. She was loved by everyone and we all are very saddened by this news.

Bev, Darryl, Courtney and Cassidy - you are in our thoughts and in our hearts at this unbelievably sad time. The many photos you have been posting are beautiful and very moving. I was hoping to be able to attend Caitlin's memorial but unfortunately cannot but I am honoured to be able to make a donation in her name to Comox Valley Health Care. Lots of love from Nikki, Paul, Alex and Ben xox

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and all the family during a most difficult time.

A beautiful soul that has let us too early. Our thoughts and prayers are with our great nieghbours and friends. We have lost a part of our nieghborhood family. We are here for you always.

The Woznow Family

Caitlin was a beautiful soul and her spirit lives through her family and all the close friends she made in her short time on earth.  My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time.

Jo-Ann, Kevin and Kyler McAllister (Royston)

No words can completely express our sorrow for such a loss of a beautiful young woman, but hope you take some comfort in knowing how many people loved her.... Our hearts and healing prayers surround you.

OBITUARY

Caitlin Melanie Ede Chalk

28 September, 1993 – 9 July, 2017

Piercy's-Mt. Washington Funeral Home

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