Ileaser was born on December 9, 1964 to Soloman and Idella Parker in Missouri. She married Jimmie Tatum; they later divorced. Ileaser loved to play dice games, card games, and in her younger years volleyball. Most of all she loved to spend time with her family.
Those left to honor her memory are her daughters Ileaser (Kristian Foulks) Parker-Tatum and Iletha Parker-Tatum; grandson Ezekiel Foulks; granddaughter Breanne Kyles; sisters Geneva Parker, Alice Towndsen, Lois Parker, Janice Williams, and Lynell Parker-Dumas; brother Austin Parker; niece Annette (Duane) Harrell; nephews Ronson Parker, Jeremiah Parker-Harrell, Jziel Parker-Harrell, and Javion Parker-Harrell; and her ex-husband and friend Jimmie Tatum. She was preceded in death by her parents and her daughter Idella Parker.