Lillian Margaret Sidlowich

Family was everything to our mother, Lillian, and she devoted her life to the people she loved. She is survived by her children Kevin Poohkay (Sandra), Kim Caswell (Mark Walen), and Trish Ellis, and by (Angie Chura). She was a proud and loving grandmother to Jennifer Laferdy, Curtis Poohkay, Amanda Maynard, Melissa Paike, Kyla Chipchura, Matt Chipchura, Kendal Toll, and Connor Chura, and a cherished great-grandmother to Mason Laferdy, Wyatt Laferdy, Banks Poohkay, Jaxon Maynard, Adison Maynard, Linden Toll, and Cohen Chura.

Lillian was predeceased by her son Randy Chura; her husband of 34 years, George Sidlowich; her first husband, Milton “Bill” Poohkay; and her siblings Kay Mazepa, Joey Kaye, Nestor Elkow, and Johnny Elkow, who passed in infancy.

Lillian was known for her strength, loyalty, and the way she always showed up for her family. She was always there for everyone, whether it was watching grandchildren, helping someone move, or making sure there was food ready when it mattered most.

Family connection mattered deeply to her. She stayed close with her family and extended family and was especially known for her love of talking on the phone. She was always keeping in touch, and it became a family joke, “line one, Joey; line two, Kay”—because she always seemed to be on the phone with someone she loved. Those conversations were important to her and were one of the ways she kept everyone connected.

She loved bringing people together and was happiest when there was something to celebrate. She enjoyed hosting parties, celebrating birthdays, and especially loved celebrating her own birthday. Sunday dinners at Mom’s house were always something to look forward to, whether it was a family meal, a barbecue, or simply sitting by the fire together. Those gatherings were full of laughter, conversation, and togetherness, the kind of moments she valued most.

She was an amazing cook and loved to bake. It was never just one pie or even two, she would make 25 pies at a time. When she made cinnamon buns, there were dozens, and when she made pierogies, it felt like she could have fed 20 families. She was always thinking ahead, filling her freezers, and finding joy in having plenty on hand for everyone. Feeding people was one of the ways she showed her love.

Lillian will be deeply missed by all who knew her. Though her passing leaves a great absence, her love, strength, and devotion to family and friends will continue to live on through those she leaves behind.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Lillian’s memory to a charity of one’s choice.

Rest in peace, Mom. You will forever remain in our hearts.