I am very sad to hear about Pat's death. My connection with her goes back over 40 years to when we were both lay ministry staff with the two United Church congregations in Millwoods. She was a great mentor, and I continued to cherish her warm smile, generous encouragement and wise counsel. My deepest condolences to her family and close friends. 

So sorry to hear of Pat’s sudden passing earlier this month.  Deepest condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.  I will always remember Pat with great fondness - and hold onto memories of her kindness, generosity, compassion, and of course, her wonderful laugh and smile that could fill any room.
May memories of happier times keep her close to your heart and help you through this time of sadness.
You are in our thoughts.
Richard and Shirley.

I am very saddened with the news that Pat has died. I so appreciated her as a colleague on conference staff with her caring smile. I shall never forget an incident soon after  both Pat and Cecile Fausak joined the Conference Staff team. There was a retreat soon after at Rundle Mission that we had with newcomers of those beginning in ministry  in our conference.  Both Pat and Cecile came to me our first morning to say that that they had forgotten to pack any deoderant!  I certainly shared mine and offered my bit of knowledge of being on staff a number of years before them that it is good to have a travel suitcase that is at the ready with the basics needed. We often chuckled about that over the years. I offer condolences to the family and friends of Pat.

When I hear the expression "it takes a village to raise a child", I always think fondly of my extra Alderwood Crescent moms, Pat, Heather, Shelley, Gloria, and Vicky. I'm so thankful to have grown up there and had their influence, love, and care. There are so many memories that come to mind such as the Hallowe'en party organized by the moms, the Great Care Bear rescue, day trips to beaches or parks, and the skits and backyard performances the moms would cheer at. Pat was such a part of my childhood and she helped shape who I am and how I think of community.

My condolences to Rob, Tim and family, and Kirstin and family. I know she will be deeply missed. The sign of a life well lived.

Sending love to Rob and Tim and Kirstin and all their family members.  It was a gift to be a part of the Alderwood neighbourhood so many years ago and to have kept our friendships all these years.

Pat was a loving soul and certainly was a patient listener.  She did so much through the years with the United Church but was always humble about her work.   Her kindness and patient nature always warmed my heart.  It was easy to feel at home with her especially when she smiled.  

She was so thoughtful in sending out cards for birthdays and at Christmas.  She worked so hard in looking after others including her dear mom and brother Paul.  

Pat knew Rob and her children and grandchildren were blessings in her life.   She shared how much she appreciated the acceptance and kindness always shown by Emma's family, and by Ryan's family.  

She was very proud of her grandchildren and loved spending time with them whenever she was able.  

She will always be in our hearts.



I was deeply saddened by  the news of Pat's death.  I remember her so well as a wise, tender, compassionate colleague who always had time to listen.  It was one of her greatest gifts.  Her wide smile would bring sunshine into all those meetings rooms we shared over the years.

Condolences to her family and to all who have been touched by her loving heart.  

With hugs,
Rev. Linda C. Hunter



My sincere sympathy to Pat’s family. Pat was always supportive, encouraging, and helpful in her ministry. Also we shared stories and pictures as grandchildren came along. May love shared comfort you in this difficult time. 
Mary Faith Blackburn

So sorry to hear this news of Pat's death. She was an amazing support of both congregations and ministry personnel. I count myself as one of the many who was encouraged and held in Pat's care while I served in Yellowhead Presbytery. She was a gift to our church in so many ways, and a kind, generous, loving soul. Blessings and peace to her family. 


I worked with Pat in many groups over the years, and was always encouraged by her wisdom and sense of humour. She will certainly be missed by many in United Church communities across the area. Our thoughts go out to her close family and friends.

Pat was an amazing person. She knew just what to say and how to say it so people heard. I am greatful for her wisdom, wit and kindness. Rest peaceful friend.



Pat was a dedicated, smart and compassionate advocate for important issues in life and in the places where life and Church intersected. Her work was an extension of her passion for excellence in leadership not only for herself but as a supporter for others. I count myself as one who felt her support in many ways and I know that Pat played a significant part in the way our journey unfolded. I last saw Pat about a year ago and that is a cherished connection that lived up to all the other times that we shared space. Pat's mark on the world was gentle and large. Blessings to all who knew and loved her and may the words shared here and elsewhere be a comfort to all.

Peter Chynoweth


I am heartsore at the news of Pat's death. She was over the years a colleague, a companion, a friend and a confidant.  I served with her in Presbytery and Conference roles and have always missed her presence in recent years as an encourager and mentor.  Pat was also the story-keeper for many a community of faith in the United Church - she remembered congregational stories long after they faded from memory for the rest of us.  I am thankful for Pat's spirit and faith and the role she has played in my life.
Rev. Britt L. Aerhart

What sad news. May good memories soften the heart ache for friends and family.


Very Sorry to hear the sad news.  She was a good friend and mentor. May her soul rest in love and peace.  Heartfelt condolences to all the bereaved.
Alwin Maben.

Pat was such an amazing lady, and was someone I looked up to and always learned from.  She always seemed to be calm and hopeful, and had lots of experience supporting ministers and congregations.  She made a world of difference in the lives of many!

Deepest Sympathy and Condolences to Pat’s Family on her recent passing 
I met Pat through UCC especially during regionals meetings 
She made a huge impact in the churches as well as her beautiful smile and kindness
I will always remember her kind soul


Sending our love to Rob, Tim and Kirstin. Pat was a dear friend and one of the first people we met when we moved to Sherwood Park. We had many adventures with our kids growing up on Alderwood Crescent. In later years we were both involved as members of  the church . I will miss our talks and her kind and beautiful smile. Rest in peace dear Pat ❤️

Inspiring.  Grounded.  Faithful.  Pat guided so many aspects of my hearing, listening, getting ready and living out my call to ministry.  I am grateful to have known her. Rev Leigh Sinclair. 

I was so sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. I have so many good memories of stewardship work we did together over the years through the church. Laughter and wine we abundantly shared between us. We also had a chance to connect when she would come to visit her daughter and family here in Kelowna. I feel blessed to have known her. May all of you be comforted by the wonderful legacy she has left through all the lives she has touched. Her memory will live on in each of us. Blessings to you all.

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Patricia Margaret Bourque

23 July, 1949 – 7 July, 2023

Hainstock's Funeral Home & Crematorium

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