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Ronald James Defeo

29 July, 1942 – 23 February, 2026
IN THE CARE OF

Hodges Funeral Home at Lee Memorial Park

Ronald James DeFeo, 83, of Fort Myers, passed away on February 23, 2026. Born in Hackensack, Ronald later made Florida his home, where he lived for the past 30 years.

Ronald proudly served as a firefighter in Teaneck, known for his dedication and bravery in serving his community. In his free time, he enjoyed watching his favorite teams, the New York Mets and the New York Jets, and spending time playing cards with his friends. He loved those moments of laughter and camaraderie.

He was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Phyllis, who passed in 2017.

Ronald is survived by his loving family: his daughter Sheri and her husband John; his son Ken; his four grandchildren, Taryn Harry (Steve), Danielle Barker (Kieran), Chris Benell (Chelsea), and Kenny DeFeo; and his six great-grandchildren, Kelsey, Austin, Tommy, Teagan, Miles, and Colton. His family was his greatest pride, and he cherished every moment spent with them.

Ronald will be remembered for his strength, dedication, and the love he shared with his family and friends. He will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.

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