Rhonda and family.  I am so sorry for your loss.  My son works at SHB, and told me Graham was your son.  My prayers  are with you.  We cannot sometimes understand why, but rest assure he is in the arms of Jesus, and you will see him again.

Take care.

Linda Caldwell

I am so deeply sorry for the loss  Graham Hoffman. I did not know him personally, however his impact on me, in the moments I knew him, was profound. The day of my car accident was 1/15/2024. The weather was icy and I rolled my little truck just outside Lee Summit. My dogs Sage and Xena were in the truck. Sage ran from the scene and Xena’s body was found under my truck. Graham saw my rage, sorrow, and fear as the officer on scene suggested that her body just be “thrown in the back of the truck.” He advocated for her body to go back to the station to be picked up by my family. He made sure her body was respected, something I greatly appreciate. He grounded me so very much in those moments, which I greatly needed. His impact on my life altering accident, was phenomenal. I am heartbroken to hear of his passing, and horrified of the way it occurred. 

To bring closure to all who was involved in my accident, unfortunately Sage was found the following morning, passed away on the side of the highway a little ways from the scene. I was physically fine other than bruising and a mild concussion. Mentally, I struggled a lot with the deaths of my dogs and the changes associated with the concussion. However, ultimately, I finished my veterinary schooling, and I became a doctor. Thank you for everything you do! Stay strong. There are so many out there, that appreciate everything you do!

From the other side of the world, my heart hurts for the loss of this hero. My sincere, heartfelt condolences to his family, friends and colleagues. May he rest in peace x

Rhonda
I used to work with you many years ago at SHB.
There are no words to tell you how sorry I am.  Lifting up prayers for you and your family now and in the days ahead.

Keeping KC in our thoughts and prayers all the way from Charlotte, NC

May our God comfort & strengthen you all... I'm so very sorry this happened!

I send my deepest sincere condolences to the family of fire fighter Hoffman. I didn't know him personally. This has touched our family so much. May GOD bless and keep you all.

I am a retired paramedic from KCFD and formerly MAST. Although I did not know Graham, my heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you, his family. I pray God will give you His comfort and peace that passes all understanding.

Graham was a good good friend of our family. Such a nice young man 🙏

So sad to hear of this young fire fighters death. God bless the memory of Graham and God bless his family🙏🙏     
Judi Olson Williams

I’m so sorry to hear about the tragic loss of your son Graham. There are no words to express the sadness I know you all must feel. Sending prayers and love.

I’m deeply sorry for your loss. Thank you for your service Graham.

Graham and his brother Nolan were my neighbors growing up in Parkville. We spent many an afternoon and summer day playing outside, shooting hoops, and running up and down our street. I even babysat Graham and Nolan one summer. I’ll remember his mischievous grin, love of popsicles, and sweet nature. It’s beautiful to see the man he became and so tragic to see his life cut short. My heart goes out to his dear family. Graham, may you rest in peace.

Thank you for your service. Your family is in my prayers.

I'm so truly sorry for this family's deep loss. May GOD bring comfort & peace.  Praying for everyone. ♥️

Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs. We are so sorry for your loss. Our son Kaeden, worked with Graham at station 4 & 42. He had nothing but wonderful things to say about him. The entire city/country is mourning him. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. ✝️❤️ The Bujak Family

Graham, my first ever “classmate”. We may have been closest when we were literal babies all those years ago at Joy’s, but even in our time together at South, it was clear you were growing into an incredibly good man. I’m sorry your time here was so heartbreakingly short. I doubt you ever knew how much of an impact you had on the world around you. My prayers are with you, your family, and everyone who is hurting from this tragic loss.

I didn’t know your Don but as a Chaplain for a Fire Department I certainly know his dedication to the job is a clear indication of the man you raised. May God hold each of you in his arms during this difficult time.

Rhonda and Family-
My sincere condolences for your loss!! May  the memories of Graham give you peace and comfort!  Sending hugs and prayers your way!

Janessa McPike

All of my love and prayers go out to you Rhonda as well as your family. I am so very sorry for your loss. Your friend. Sabrina

I never got to meet Graham in person, but I had 42 years in law enforcement and had First Responder Family all over the KC area. Sad loss, RIP BROTHER.

Love and prayers from South Kansas City.  Our First Responders are our heroes.  Graham will never be forgotten.

My heart breaks for your family 
Sending you peace and love across the miles

Sadly, there are no words that can take away the hurt that all of you his family have right now. And yes, your hurt will be with you each day until you take back your control of your life. But you will hurt less once you learn to live with only the goodness, kindness, love that you had for Graham in your life as the memories you will chose to recall. There is no vengeance that would lessen your hurt so please don't dwell on vengeance. Vengeance will happen & if that is in your heart then your heart will have not enough room for all of the great things Graham has to fill your hearts with. I never met your son. I retired in 2000 from KCMO FD.
I am just an old man that has felt hurting from a loved one's death way to soon. A senseless death is a tragedy that causes your mind to ponder what, why, if this or if that about things that won't change the loss of your loved one.
So when you start down that road change the lane to the one that has memories of love he had & you had for each other.
You know that Graham would want you to be happy in your life so do it for him please.

Rhonda and Family,  

We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers, and pray you find comfort in the many memories you have of Graham.  Our hearts break for you all.  He sounds like an amazing young man who was raised by some amazing parents.  We have two son-in-laws who are firefighters and EMTs/Paramedic (one in Olathe and one in Lawrence).  There are so many sons and daughters, fathers and mothers that put on that uniform and risk their lives day in and day out to help and care of others.  They should never have to worry about someone hurting them but they do.  This is an unbelievable tragedy l.  We are so sorry very sorry for your loss.

Sincerely,
Lisa & JD Schehrer

The The Hoffman Family, My condolences to a Courageous Man. Who loved people. The Hydes

Condolences for your loss of this young servant. I love the Baptist church & know he is praising our Lord & Savior face to face! Praying for our Lord to comfort & strengthen you✝️

I am sending my deepest condolences to his loved ones. Graham was a true hero.

Hello my name is Matthew Swanson and my deepest condolences and heartfelt prayers go out to his family and coworkers and friends and all who knew him during this very beyond tragic & beyond difficult time. My heart breaks to hear this tragic story and know I’m praying for you all individually for Gods comfort and peace during this difficult time.

I don't know Graham or the family but my deepest condolences, first responders are heroes.  May he RIP.

Prayers for comfort for the family, friends, fellow firefighters, and the community.   My heart hurts for all of you.  Praying for you to feel God’s love and care

Rhonda and family,  May God wrap his arms around you all and comfort you . Your in my thoughts and prayers.  We are thinking of you  in  St. Joe.   ❤️

Mike, Rhonda, Nolan and Brittani, a young man taken from us all too soon.  His legacy will never be forgotten! Prayers for peace during this difficult time.  May the Lord grant you strength and comfort during the days ahead.  Much love always.

Bill & Julie Carr and family

While I did not know Graham  I offer my condolences to his family, friends, colleagues and community,

I know when a first responder goes out on a call,  the outcome can be unexpected. I am sorry for what happened and hope he finds peace in   Our Lord's arms.
S A Hill
Pennsylvania

This photo was at my  birthday party, maybe in 3rd grade. Graham was always such an amazing friend and him and Eric always had my back. I won’t forget the small impact he made on my life!

Family, Colleagues, and friends of Graham Jeffrey Hoffman, So sorry to hear of his passing. Praying love, peace, comfort, and strength for all of you during this time of loss. This world is only temporary so you will see your loved one again in heaven for eternity. Just wanted to comfort you with these words. Love and Prayers, Jeff and Janice Eble(Independence, MO)

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Graham Jeffrey Hoffman

9 May, 1995 – 27 April, 2025

Newcomer's White Chapel Funeral Home & White Chapel Cemetery

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