Darshan B Chunoo

My name is Anoop, I am Darshan cousin and elder brother.

On behalf of my Uncle and Aunt, and our entire family; I would like to extend our gratitude and appreciation to all of you for being here today.

We are grateful for the support and prayers we’ve have received from all our friends and the community during this difficult time.

I stand before you here today not on my own courage ,. I am standing here of the strength and courage of my aunt and uncle. The strength and courage they have displayed for 22 years and resolve they are showing now during what has to be the most difficult time in their life, the loss of their child. Their first born Darshan!

Darshan didn’t have the abilities of a normal kid but he lived a normal life during the short time he was with us.

Darshan was born March 4th, 1992 at 11:55pm and left us on April 10th at 11:55pm. He was 22 years old.

Unfortunately, a month after he was born he became sick and it was determined that he may never get better. Although difficult, his parents accepted the hand dealt to them by God and carried on with the intention of providing the best comfort, care and love for Darshan. They were determined not to fail this test of faith by God.

Their love for Darshan gave him the closest to a normal life he could possibility have. He was at every function. Of course in front because everyone in the family was looking out for him. He was at every pool party/hangout, sitting in his special chair enjoying the activities. He was at all the dog races we went to, of course upfront by the rails. He was in the middle of everything and he loved it. Most importantly though, he loved his shake shake. He had to have it in his hands at all time. Disclaimer – try to take it away at your own risk.

Everyone knows Darshan was always smiling, he had a huge smile, mouth wide open and all. If he wasn’t looking at you and you called his name, you already knew that when he turn to look at you, he would have that big smile. BUT….. boy if you tried to take his shake-shake away!!!! That smile was gone… I’m sure all of us know the expression “If looks could kill”. Oh yeah it was that serious.

I think Ravi them thought him to do the Michael Jackson. Explain….

My dad called him “tie-tie” and he would respond to my dad. That was their “thing”

Everyone developed something with him. He had a connection with everyone in the family.

I was the cousin that would always try to take his shake-shake away. Well at least try to, and I would get that look. Oh how I was hoping for any look from him last Thursday in the emergency room. The other night I was in bed telling my wife how I wished Darshan would’ve woken up one last time in the ER and spoke to his parents. I know he couldn’t and didn’t. So I am going to do it for him.

“I know I have countless people to thank. From my brother and sister, my aunts and uncles, my cousins, my grandparents, babysitters, teachers, doctors, nurses, pandits, extended family and friends. But please forgive me, for today I will use this time to thank my parents. Thank you Mom and Dad, thank you, thank you, thank you. Thank you for giving me life. Thank you for not giving up on me as a baby. Thank you for providing the best care for me. Thank you for comforting me in my difficult times. Thank you for loving me unconditionally and endlessly. Thank you for your hard work, dedication and sacrifices for me.

I have graduated from this world only after you guys passed the test set forth to you by God. It was nothing you did wrong Mom and Dad, nothing to be ashamed of or anything to regret. This was your destiny, your test from God. Everyone is tested Mom and Dad, some in a moment, some in a day, a month, year. Some in a lifetime.

It doesn't matter how much one wishes, they cannot change their destiny. Even the great Sri Ram was tested when he was exile to Banbassa and King Dashratha had to live with the guilt of killing a young boy Sharvan Kumar who was fetching water for his ill and thirsty parents; who he carried on his shoulders during their old age.

Sorry I'm not going to be there during your old age mom and dad. But God has also blessed you with my brother and sister who will be there to take care of you during your old age. As I leave you all behind, please don’t be sad, don’t weep that I am gone, for I am in a better place. I will forever be up here smiling down on you guys.

Darshan, thank you for giving 22 years of memories. We will cherish them forever. Go my little brother, go take your place beside God. May he receive you with open arms and may your soul rest in peace. We love you, and will forever miss you...

Funeral Services Entrusted to Branam Funeral Home, Homestead, Florida.