Victor Bondoc Cajoles

Victor was born on August 24, 1943 in Jimenez, a coastal province in the Philippines. He was the youngest of 9 children. It was there that he met his wife Imelda, whom he married at the town’s century-old church.

In his youth, Victor dreamed of pursuing his education and career across the water in Cebu City, a growing urban center full of promise. He and Imelda made their home in Cebu, with her as a schoolteacher and him a mechanical engineer. Their union was rooted in love, respect, and shared values – an enduring harmony witnessed by their children, Pearl and Paul.

In their 50s, the couple made another major move to Houston, beginning a new chapter as immigrants. They formed new friendships and purchased a home in Northwest Houston, laying the foundation for the life they had envisioned in the States.

During his first few years in Houston, Victor spent time as a stay-at-home father, a chapter his children would come to cherish deeply. He was always there with a steady presence, ensuring school drop-offs, pickups, and after-school activities were covered. More than that, he offered his time, attention, and unwavering support whenever they needed him.

Victor eventually returned to work, and later, in retirement, he found joy in spending time with his five grandchildren. He entertained them with his gentle humor, including silly one-liners. He also delighted in cooking them pancakes, a small but beloved tradition. He also enjoyed visiting thrift shops with his son.

To his friends, Victor was known for his kindness and generosity. He picked lemons from his tree for the mailman, he drove friends to doctor appointments, and he opened his home to those in need. In the many tributes received from around the world after his passing, the words “kind” and “made an impact” were frequently echoed.

An avid mahjong player, Victor found joy in the game even in his final years. Though he spoke less with time, he never forgot the lively phrases that were fundamental to the game and brought the table to life. He played with enthusiasm, and those moments – filled with laughter and connection – remain cherished memories for his loved ones.

Despite the challenges of his illness, Victor remained full of gratitude. He kept his warm smile and always thanked everyone who visited and cared for him, including his hospice team at IPR Healthcare.

May, Wayne, and Sylvia — your kindness and compassion profoundly enriched our father’s life. Thank you for providing our beloved Lolo Victor with comfort and dignity until his final moments.

A visitation for Victor will be held at American Heritage Funeral Home,10710 Veterans Memorial Drive, Houston, TX 77038, on July 10, 2025, from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m., with prayers and tributes at 6:30 p.m.

The funeral service will take place at St Matthew the Evangelist Catholic Church, 9915 Hollister St, Houston, TX 77040, on July 11, 2025, from 10:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m.

The family is thankful for all who have offered condolences and support during this time of grief.