I am Denise's husband and Mary's son-in-law.  Mom  was such a vibrant, loving, happy, classy woman.  Every time I spoke with her--on the phone or in person--it was a joyful experience.  She laughed with me and made my heart feel warm.  The three times Denise and I made the trip to Kansas City from California, I always got the chance to speak with her alone.  The conversations were always interesting--with never a lull while we spoke. She made me feel like family the first time I met her, which not a lot of people can do.

The last time we talked with her on the phone, I forgot to tell her that I loved her.  I had an urge to do so and to also tell her I missed her.  Now I have regretted several times that I didn't.  I still feel happy that she's in Heaven and without earthly pain.  She's not suffering here.  I will miss her and getting to know her more.  

My Mom was one in a million... She sacrificed everything for her seven children, whom she raised on her own. I often told her that I loved my childhood and thanked her for it as it was all because of her. With the help of my Grandma, she didn't work until the youngest started school when I was 12.  When her employer, the IRS, would furlough her when it was off season,  we were thrilled that she'd be home again when we came home from school...I remember there were often homemade treats cooling on the countertop when I came home.   She made us hot breakfasts, packed our lunches, and cooked dinner--and made sure we always ate as a family around the table. She also had us say the family Rosary every night. With little money, she still provided us fun and entertainment by taking us to parks and Downtown KC for window shopping, all via the bus and, after she got a car,  to drive-in movies. She taught us all the outdoor games she played as a child (Colored Eggs, Red Rover, Mother, May I?, Blind Man's Bluff, Statues,  Freeze Tag, etc.). She also took me several times on the bus to the dental college when I was in grade school. I hated the dentist but loved my alone time with her. She called us by so many endearments (darling, sweetheart, honey) and always made me feel loved. She always laughed frequently during our later phone conversations--no matter what troubles she was having. Her religious faith kept her strong, though she endured much suffering throughout her whole life.  I miss her so and loved her so much--and always will until I see her again in Heaven. Please do pray a Rosary for the repose of her soul.💜

I am Marley, her 9-year old great granddaughter.  I loved going to visit Grandma Mary.  She had a big jar of M&Ms near her and she let me eat them.  I loved how she was so good with her Catholic Faith.  I loved her very much.

Kay and I  were friends from long ago. We worked together when we were in our early 20's, married at the same time, both raised large families,  and stayed in touch through the years at Christmas and an occasional lunch date until we both developed health problems. She was a dear friend, a lovely person, and will have a special place in Heaven.  My deepest sympathy to the family.



Rest in Gods peace Mary we all loved you very much. Until we meet again.

Mary Kathryn McMaster was a wonderful aunt.  We affectionately called her Aunt Kay.  She always had a smile.  I loved coming to her home and I loved her.  Her sister, Regina, has Alzheimer's or she would be posting, too.  Aunt Kay lived her faith.  She will be missed.  

OBITUARY

Mary K. McMaster

17 October, 1929 – 7 March, 2020

McGilley State Line Chapel

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