Ruby Lee Snider

Born on December 17, 1941, in Kansas City, Missouri, she was the only child of Harold and Ruby Lenore Snider. Ruby was a true daddy's girl, and the loss of her beloved father at age 7 left a profound impact that she carried throughout her life.

At a young age, Ruby accepted Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior. Her favorite Bible verse, Philippians 4:8, guided her steps. She was a dedicated member of Lenexa Baptist Church. She earned the endearing nickname "The Cookie Lady" for bringing homemade baked goods to Choir practice. Ruby possessed an extraordinary gift for entertaining, hosting elaborate parties for up to 100 guests, preparing all the food herself. Standing at just 5 feet 3 inches, she often used a step ladder to stir her large pots of sauces. Her collection of hundreds of crystal stemware reflected her love for creating memorable gatherings.

Ruby graduated from the University of Kansas with a Bachelor of Science in Business and was soon recruited by the U.S. Army for her exceptional administrative skills. Stationed in Germany, Ruby managed and hosted the Officers' Club. She often stepped in as the backup singer, showcasing her beautiful soprano voice. A talented musician, she also played the violin. Ruby's patriotism ran deep; she was a staunch supporter of conservative causes and loved her country dearly.

Ruby's first marriage was to Sherwin Epstein, a Kansas City attorney, with whom she had one son, Mark Harold Epstein. She took great pride in Mark following in his father's footsteps to become an attorney. Later, Ruby met the love of her life, Horace Johnston. Together they delighted in discussing and solving the world's problems. A true fashionista and "girly girl," Ruby adored bling and sparkle, from jewelry to attire. She worked as a fashion model in Kansas City and taught modeling to aspiring young women.

Professionally, Ruby served as a paralegal for the City of Olathe for 20 years. One of her favorite legal cases was the building of the Ridgeview Road railroad bridge featuring Stan Herd's horses on the bridge rails.

As a young woman, Ruby dreamed of building her own home. Through determination and multiple jobs, she realized that vision, constructing a beautiful residence on Flint Street in Overland Park. It became a haven of hospitality for friends and a source of joy for her for almost 30 years.

Ruby loved God’s creation. She planted more than 400 tulip bulbs and delighted in watching them pop up each spring. She built a large koi pond in her backyard, where she also enjoyed watching rabbits and birds. Her precious fuzzy white Shih Tzu dog, Suzie, was her beloved companion.

In her final decade, Ruby endured two strokes that left her without the use of her left side, yet she daily thanked the Lord for her sharp, active mind. She transitioned to senior living facilities, where she was a passionate Bingo player, a faithful Bible study participant, and a champion at Trivia Pursuit—always knowing all the answers. The Lord blessed Ruby with a witty, brilliant intellect that remained vibrant until the end.

Ruby is survived by her son, Mark Harold Epstein; daughter-in-law Heather; grandson Paxton; and granddaughter Kennedy, all of Overland Park, Kansas. Her family and friends will remember Ruby for her quick wit, wise insights, and devotion to the Lord. She was truly one of a kind.

In memory of Ruby, hug your dog (or cat); sing joyfully; and “think on whatever is true, noble, right, pure, admirable, excellent or praiseworthy”.

A memorial service will be held Saturday, February 14, 2026 at 1:30 p.m. at Lenexa Baptist Church, 15320 West 87th Street Parkway, Lenexa, Kansas. Memorial contributions may be made to Lenexa Baptist for HeartSong Ministry.