Wylie E. Barnett

Born in Ardmore, Oklahoma, on November 5, 1943, to Elmer and Janie Barnett, Wylie lived a full life defined by love, laughter, hard work, and an unwavering devotion to the people—and pets—he cared about most. He proudly served in the U.S. Army from 1966 to 1968 during the Vietnam War, where his typing skills led him to serve his country in a unique and vital way.

Wylie was a proud and hardworking member of the Insulators Local 27 for over 30 years. He was known for getting the job done—and getting it done right. Even after retirement, he was called back to assist with special projects, a testament to his reliability and skill. Never one to sit still, Wylie continued working as a courier for D&B Legal, thriving on staying busy and active.

He married the love of his life, Marla Barnett, and the two shared a beautiful bond full of laughter, adventure, and daily affection. He kissed her cheek every morning, and they made each other laugh every single day. Their life together included cross-country travels collecting antiques, cheering on ball games, and exploring the world from the front seat of their truck—just for the joy of the ride.

Wylie was a devoted father to Stephanie Barnett Buhler (husband Terry Buhler), Randy Barnett, the late Scott Barnett, and Jennifer Streeby (wife Kate Farlow), and a loving grandfather to Branden Buhler, Cameron Buhler, and Jaelinn Barnett. He is survived by his siblings Jan Barnett, Randy Barnett, and Gayle Barnett Quigley. He was preceded in death by his parents, Elmer and Janie Barnett, and his son Scott.

Wylie was often mistaken for Willie Nelson, with his long hair, beard, and signature ball cap—so much so that strangers would stop him for autographs on the road. His rugged look masked a deeply kind, compassionate, and generous soul. If someone needed help, Wylie would stop—whether on the road or in life—and lend a hand.

Among his greatest joys was the deep bond he shared with his beloved dogs, especially Lottie, who passed just weeks before he became ill. Her passing hit him hard, and he spoke of her every day. She was his companion on countless walks, van rides, and late-night ball games on TV. She even accompanied him on his courier jobs and became a celebrity at Commerce Bank, where staff would ask for her by name. The love between Wylie and Lottie was powerful and pure—he lit up around her, and she was never far from his thoughts. His other dog, Ellie, was another cherished companion, and together they brought him constant comfort and joy.

Wylie will be remembered for his hardworking spirit, his fierce love for his family, his dry wit, and his giving nature. He moved his family around the country, saw nearly every corner of it, and always had a story to tell. Even in difficult moments, he could make those around him laugh.

“And behold, I am with you always to the end of the age” -Matthew 28:20

A private family service will be held to honor Wylie's life.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Wylie's memory to Wayside Waifs, a cause dear to his heart, and a reflection of the love he had for his canine companions.