Hi Momma! I sit here thinking how could it be over 10 years that you are not with me on earth ! I was outside this morning and seen a cardinal bird and I just know it’s you letting me know it’s going to be ok and you love me! I am getting married in September and wish so much you could be there ! You would absolutely love Terry! He’s what God has been making me wait for . My life hasn’t always been easy but I found a way to fix it . Kash is back in my life and he’s an amazing young man momma! You would be so proud of him ! I love you and miss you so very much ! I will always carry you in my heart every single day ! I love you Momma! Tell everyone I said I love them and tell Sean he would be so proud of his daughters ! They are thriving in life and I am very close with them ! They miss you and him too! I love you to the moon and back my sweet momma ❤️

I miss you so much Momma !! I am so sorry for the life you had  and the way you were treated. 

Momma , as I sit here reading all of the posts on your obituary I am reminded of the love that you gave to others while on this earth. I am still so lost without you and miss you so very much. There are days I can feel you so close to kash and I !! You would be so proud of him. He is talking so good and is so so smart . Every time we pass your grave site on  the waterrson , he waves and blows kisses and says "hi Meme love and miss you " it is so sweet. I hope you are happy and in no more pain !! I love you to the moon and back momma!!!! Until we meet again !!

Sorry To Hear About Renda,  I Wish I  Had Known When Her Services Was, We Were  Neighbors,  And Friends, Since I Had Moved Ne t Door To Them In 1964,  We Had A Special Way Of Letting Each Other Know When We Was Out Side, For The Other 1 To Come Out To Play, So Sorry Amy, You Have Another Angel Watching Over You.

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

MERRY CHRISTMAS MOMMA. I wish you were here with us. Nothing will ever be the same without you.  My heart breaks so bad and I just wish you could fix it. I love you so much momma.

I am so sorry to hear about Renda. She was always nice to me and a good person.

A great woman. I will always have a special place in my heart for Renda.

I love you momma. I wish you were here to fix my broken heart. I'm so sorry I couldn't save you. I love you

So sorry Amy, I loved Renda like a Sister. Its so hard to believe.

My sincere sympathy for your loss. May our Heavenly Father give you strength and bless you with peace during this difficult time. Psalms 29:11

I love and cherish the sweet memories of all of you as my precious first cousins. Will be praying for peace and comfort. Wish I could be there with you. May God bless and keep all of you and help you to hold to memories that make you smile

So sorry Amy.  I loved your Mom she was good to me.

Sweet Momma Renda....as children there were many of us girls whose lives you touched in a special way. You took a part in guiding us, supporting us and we all considered you a second mother. As we grew older you took part in our celebrations, happy times and sad timesin life. You and I carried a special bond after my sweet Brynn left my arms to be with jesus. You understood my pain because you lived it too. We walked a lonely path together. Thank you for supporting me everytime I reached out to you and thank you for the times that you reached out to me. I will cherish those conversations forever. I know Sean met you in your last moments here on earth and guided you home....I am so happy for you because you no longer carry the pain and hurt for missing him. But my heart hurts because I have lost my grief confidant and your sweet Amy has lost her precious mother. Please wrap your loving arms around her and give her peace inside her heart. Be sure she knows to trust in you and the lord..that you are with her all of her remaining days. She will miss you forever and so will I.

So sorry Amy to hear about your Mom,you have our deepest sympathy.Love you ,Terry &Charlotte Payne

Oh momma. Why did you have to go? I don't know how to do this without you. You mean so much to me and I have reflected a lot over the last few days. I think back of was I was a little girl and how j thought you were the most beautiful woman in the world. I loved sitting in your lap and you hugging me. I have never felt so safe. Even as an adult I would cone over to your house and just get in bed with you and lay next to you. I love thinking of all the precious memories I have with you. Your life was taken so soon. I only can pray so hard that now that you are with sean and your mom and dad that you are finally happy. I will miss you every second of every day. I love you so much momma.

OBITUARY

Renda Karen Aiken

21 January, 1956 – 16 December, 2015

Arch L. Heady and Son Funeral Home & Cremation Services

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