My late husband Willie Harris and myself first met John after becoming members at the Elks Lodge in Moreno Valley. He was so kind and considerate of everyone. He and my husband became quick friends and after we moved back to North Carolina in 2014 due to Willie’s illness it was John who flew out for a week to make sure Willie knew he was in his corner and to continue fighting cancer. We both loved and adored John and his beautiful wife Rene. My condolences to Rene, his sons and the rest of his family and friends. 

Johnny as Brutus Chieftain, performing on Quintessential Covina, 5/7/88.

Presidents Day lunch celebration at Portillo's.

Johnny reading poetry in Idyllwild on 5/8/23, he texted: "Marshall Hawkins, who played with Miles Davis, performed with me!"

I knew John from working as a reporter at the Press-Enterprise newspaper from 2002-2009.  I was so sad to hear about his passing. I send my heartfelt condolences to the Bender family. May the outpouring of love and support you get from all who knew and loved John help you through this difficult time. 

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John Karl Bender

2 April, 1959 – 9 May, 2023

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