Gary was a native of New Bern, graduating from New Bern High School in 1990. He then earned a degree in Business Administration from Campbell University.
Gary is survived by his husband, Daniel E. Potter; his parents, Gary E. and Cora W. Stobel; and his sister, Shannon S. Adams of Leonardtown, Maryland. Gary also had three step-children who loved him very much: Zachary Potter, Rachel Potter and Gillian Potter.
Gary was a volunteer at Religious Community Services, where he worked to help the less fortunate meet basic necessities.
A memorial service will be held at Cotten Funeral Home, 2201 Neuse Blvd., New Bern on Sunday, June 2, 2013 at 2 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations in Gary's memory be made to RCS New Bern, POB 704, New Bern, NC 25862.
Online condolences may be made to the Stobel family at www.cottenfuneralhome.com
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